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Lazyscarecrow
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posted August 11, 2012 08:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To get over it.

I dunno if this topic belongs here or not, if not feel free to move it or let it disintegrate haha. I just hate when I attempt to open up to someone or when I'm just feeling upset and ****** off, I get told this as "advice". It's difficult for me to discuss my feelings as it is, but as the years go on I learn that your self issues are ultimately dealt with by...your self.

I'm rambling, hahaha.

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sand
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posted August 11, 2012 08:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good lord anything that isn't about nice guys, bad boys, good girls gone bad is a relief around these parts!

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Lazyscarecrow
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posted August 11, 2012 08:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL!!!
You are a trip Sand...but yeah I noticed that around here too. o.o

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doommlord
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posted August 11, 2012 08:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for doommlord     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hate it when im told that there is ONLY one right way...

when I hear this I just get up and leave the room...
these people are so close minded and preachy and worse than that they belive that only THEIR opinion is the right one

and it goes into many subjects....what you should wear,say,behave,belive in or choose

wonderfull ranting thread XD

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Padre35
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posted August 11, 2012 10:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Imo when that is said it overlooks the process of getting over whatever it was that is causing the turmoil.

It's a bit like telling your car to change it's oil.

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frankie2912
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posted August 11, 2012 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know what you mean, lazy scarecrow. I hate it when people tell me to calm down, get over it, or "just think positive!" when I'm having my upsets or emotional breakdowns.

I also hate when people tell others not to cry in public or show their emotions in public. By god if I'm upset, sad, humiliated, raging, or anything else..I WILL let it show because i'm NOT the type of person to bottle up energy inside of me to eat away at my heart and soul. I let it all out and I feel sorry for those who feel like it's a bad thing to do so.

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ail221
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posted August 11, 2012 12:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just hate being told what to do.

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Lazyscarecrow
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posted August 11, 2012 05:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for chiming in, guys. I really love these responses, especially Frankie's.

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juniperb
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posted August 11, 2012 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How do ya`ll feel about "own it" as in you did it, own it.

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Ami Anne
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posted August 12, 2012 07:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
To get over it.

I dunno if this topic belongs here or not, if not feel free to move it or let it disintegrate haha. I just hate when I attempt to open up to someone or when I'm just feeling upset and ****** off, I get told this as "advice". It's difficult for me to discuss my feelings as it is, but as the years go on I learn that your self issues are ultimately dealt with by...your self.

I'm rambling, hahaha.


I know. It is so lame

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charmainec
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posted August 14, 2012 03:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I, too dislike when I'm told to "get over" "ignore it" "just think positive" when I'm not searching for advice but just expressing how a situation makes me feel.

I'll always talk about such matters to someone close to me because I know they can be trusted. Yet, when such remarks are made, I completely switch off and my wall goes up again.

It shouldn't be viewed as complaining. It's a means of releasing frustration and many times emotional stress and to have someone just listen without judging or making those remarks mentioned above.

We eventually do get over it, think positive etc logically we know that.
Sometimes all we want is to be heard, and no, we are not asking for a pity party or sympathy - just to be HEARD.

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 14, 2012 03:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Padre35:

Imo when that is said it overlooks the process of getting over whatever it was that is causing the turmoil.

It's a bit like telling your car to change it's oil.


lmao. this post is a win.

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libraschoice77
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posted August 17, 2012 11:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You just have to vent and let it all out, sometimes a release of emotions is good. If you don't all that pain and frustration gets bottled up, only making it worse.

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