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Topic: I hate it when I am told....
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Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 466 From: En Cee Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 11, 2012 08:12 AM
To get over it.I dunno if this topic belongs here or not, if not feel free to move it or let it disintegrate haha. I just hate when I attempt to open up to someone or when I'm just feeling upset and ****** off, I get told this as "advice". It's difficult for me to discuss my feelings as it is, but as the years go on I learn that your self issues are ultimately dealt with by...your self. I'm rambling, hahaha. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 5111 From: 14.5530° N, 121.0199° E Registered: May 2011
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posted August 11, 2012 08:25 AM
Good lord anything that isn't about nice guys, bad boys, good girls gone bad is a relief around these parts! IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 466 From: En Cee Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 11, 2012 08:35 AM
LOL!!! You are a trip Sand...but yeah I noticed that around here too. o.oIP: Logged |
doommlord Moderator Posts: 746 From: israel Registered: Dec 2011
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posted August 11, 2012 08:40 AM
I hate it when im told that there is ONLY one right way...when I hear this I just get up and leave the room... these people are so close minded and preachy and worse than that they belive that only THEIR opinion is the right one and it goes into many subjects....what you should wear,say,behave,belive in or choose wonderfull ranting thread XD IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 304 From: charlotte, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 11, 2012 10:52 AM
Imo when that is said it overlooks the process of getting over whatever it was that is causing the turmoil.It's a bit like telling your car to change it's oil. IP: Logged |
frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 708 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 11, 2012 12:25 PM
I know what you mean, lazy scarecrow. I hate it when people tell me to calm down, get over it, or "just think positive!" when I'm having my upsets or emotional breakdowns.I also hate when people tell others not to cry in public or show their emotions in public. By god if I'm upset, sad, humiliated, raging, or anything else..I WILL let it show because i'm NOT the type of person to bottle up energy inside of me to eat away at my heart and soul. I let it all out and I feel sorry for those who feel like it's a bad thing to do so. IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 764 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 11, 2012 12:35 PM
I just hate being told what to do. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 466 From: En Cee Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 11, 2012 05:55 PM
Thanks for chiming in, guys. I really love these responses, especially Frankie's. IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 4427 From: Blue Star Kachina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 11, 2012 06:35 PM
How do ya`ll feel about "own it" as in you did it, own it.------------------ As Angels above guide Human beings, Human Beings have the opportunity to be Angels on Earth, who guide the Animal kingdom. - Da Vinci IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 35329 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 12, 2012 07:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow: To get over it.I dunno if this topic belongs here or not, if not feel free to move it or let it disintegrate haha. I just hate when I attempt to open up to someone or when I'm just feeling upset and ****** off, I get told this as "advice". It's difficult for me to discuss my feelings as it is, but as the years go on I learn that your self issues are ultimately dealt with by...your self. I'm rambling, hahaha.
I know. It is so lame
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charmainec Moderator Posts: 5217 From: Venus next to Randall Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2012 03:01 AM
I, too dislike when I'm told to "get over" "ignore it" "just think positive" when I'm not searching for advice but just expressing how a situation makes me feel. I'll always talk about such matters to someone close to me because I know they can be trusted. Yet, when such remarks are made, I completely switch off and my wall goes up again. It shouldn't be viewed as complaining. It's a means of releasing frustration and many times emotional stress and to have someone just listen without judging or making those remarks mentioned above. We eventually do get over it, think positive etc logically we know that. Sometimes all we want is to be heard, and no, we are not asking for a pity party or sympathy - just to be HEARD. ------------------ quote: Remember, love can conquer the influences of the planets....It can even eliminate karma.
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RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 4882 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 14, 2012 03:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35:
Imo when that is said it overlooks the process of getting over whatever it was that is causing the turmoil.It's a bit like telling your car to change it's oil.
lmao. this post is a win.
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libraschoice77 Knowflake Posts: 113 From: NYC Registered: Aug 2010
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posted August 17, 2012 11:13 AM
You just have to vent and let it all out, sometimes a release of emotions is good. If you don't all that pain and frustration gets bottled up, only making it worse.IP: Logged |