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posted August 30, 2012 07:11 AM            

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I'm on my smart phone so I can't elaborate much. Long story short, I go to school full-time and train almost every morning.. how do you manage to fit in sexy time with your SO when other things demand your attention and you're just exhausted most of the time?

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posted August 31, 2012 01:01 AM            

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Tough question Scorpioh

IMO, when you two met, this sort of hectic schedule would be a part of the deal in the relationship.

How about mini afternoon vacations to a different city?

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posted August 31, 2012 06:15 AM            

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hey, i appreciate your reply. yeah, you are right. it's just that when we met a few years back.. things weren't this hectic. we had more time for sessions, not just quickies. i also don't live with her anymore which made it easier back then as well.

mini-vacations sound great. my woman is a Sag so i bet an adventure would sweep her off her feet. thing is that i just find it real difficult to drop what i'm doing and to enjoy the moment because i always end up worrying about what i've gotta get done. or i feel bad that i don't last long because i'm just really tired all the time. i can actually go a long time without sex when i channel my energies into other things. she's real needy when it comes down to it and i'm starting to feel a bit insecure that she'll look to other guys for attention because i'm too busy or inadequate to tend to her physical needs.

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posted August 31, 2012 06:42 AM            

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Sorry to hear about this, Scorpy. I've heard this problem from college friends and even had it myself.

I'm certainly no expert but a session or an outing would probably have to be planned way ahead of time...sorry if this is too simplistic.

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posted August 31, 2012 07:28 AM            

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aw, i appreciate it though. don't matter if you're an expert or not, just wanted honest answers. planning way ahead of time sounds too mechanical but that might be the only way around it.

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posted August 31, 2012 08:23 AM            

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You force yourself to find time and you keep yourself in shape. Eat right and also keep yourself mentally fit, eager and prepared.

I work 14 hour days and I'm away from home most of the time. I still get it on everyday. Sometimes twice a day. Three times on a weekend day.

There's no reason for having "no energy." It's a state of mind.

And I bet I'm double your age because you say you are going to school.

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posted August 31, 2012 09:15 AM            

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