posted August 30, 2012 09:00 PM            

I'm ashamed to let on that i honestly just want to get in his pants because he's packing SERIOUS heat but, once again, he's thinner than me.

I in no way think he's Shallow Hal but if he and i were to arm wrestle... I would win. It's just.. Do other people with mars in hard aspect to neptune feel like this? The only way i could go through with it and do what i want without feeling ashamed or as if i've just given away mountains of dignity was if i could do it and then blame it on the drunk...

posted August 30, 2012 09:08 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
I don't have mars square neptune, but I probably have some other aspect that makes me repulsed by men who are skinnier than me - that's for sure. So don't feel bad, I really get what you are saying. No need to get yourself drunk though. Maybe find another who is a tiny bit fatter? (lol easy to say I know)

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posted August 30, 2012 09:13 PM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
This may be a bit forward.. I maybe could just take him out to the China Buffet? His member is about 3/4 the size of my forearm.

I don't know if i can pass up the experience, to be honest. Just because i want to be able to say that i did it.. I'm thinking Jager.

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posted August 30, 2012 09:19 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Listen, I think that the China Buffet is a great idea but you might want to add McDonald's about 3x a week to get him just right. Anyways, after all it is your choice! From personal experience, I had an ex bf that was so skinny that I couldn't even bring myself to be sexual with him - this lead to a breakup obviously. The issue is if you can get past that barrier the first time then the second time might be even better and who knows what that could lead to so good luck!

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^ i nearly PEED my pants laughing!!!!!!!

Raising the roof for MICKEY D'S!!

posted August 30, 2012 09:21 PM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
^ i nearly PEED my pants laughing!!!!!!!

Raising the roof for MICKEY D'S!!

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posted August 30, 2012 09:24 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
If your not attracted to him physically and their was no mentiom of his personality your not really interested.

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Well, no, he's handsome.. He has beautiful eyes, is totally my type but he's 40lbs thinner than me!!! I'm not sure how he'd look i he gained 40lbs or if i'd be attracted, still... He has nice height 6'2", he's handsome, gorgeous blue eyes.

posted August 30, 2012 09:28 PM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
Well, no, he's handsome.. He has beautiful eyes, is totally my type but he's 40lbs thinner than me!!! I'm not sure how he'd look i he gained 40lbs or if i'd be attracted, still... He has nice height 6'2", he's handsome, gorgeous blue eyes.

I'm the one that started that thread about Venus & the importance of looks.. Yes, i like substance, true. I'm just saying....

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posted August 30, 2012 09:31 PM            

In my head, i don't exactly understand how i'd "worship" an ideal or a sexual fantasy of him (no matter how awesome his personality) if i'm more preoccupied with not overpowering him or having to always be on the bottom to not- oh, i dunno... kill him?

I like to be whisked away and feel safe and protected, scantily clad in the arms of a strong man but in this case, i'd have to seriously develop an eating disorder to physically feel that. I may get it emotionally..

Him showing me his privates.. Is that a proposal?

It may be.

posted August 30, 2012 09:34 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
I am just saying how would you feel if a guy was writing about how he'd want to screw you just for XYZ reasons but if only you loss 40 pounds. Regardless if its a body issue more so on you side I'd say look to see if you have any major pluto aspects or pluto in the 2nd or 6th house.

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Pluto in sixth, yes. It also makes an aspect to my mars and, i've been known to be agressive in bed and it hasn't always ended up well.. Hell, it's been that sometimes they've even stopped halfway through because it's been "too much". With a little guy like him..? I'd have restrain myself so much even though he has been open about enjoying certain fetishes.

Someone writing about a person losing weight is one thing.. I'd be crushed. But someone saying another person is too thin? That's almost a compliment.

What do i say? Oh, keep my number? Call me after dinner?

posted August 30, 2012 09:44 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
I am just saying how would you feel if a guy was writing about how he'd want to screw you just for XYZ reasons but if only you loss 40 pounds. Regardless if its a body issue more so on your side I'd say look to see if you have any major pluto aspects or pluto in the 2nd or 6th house.

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And thanks. Now, i'll only be thinking about him wondering if my weight is alright and i'll be self conscious and sidestep almost all possibilities of me being naked around him.

I'll need to develop a meth habit to reach his size. It's ridiculous.

posted August 30, 2012 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
You'd be surprised the number of men who are insecure about their weight, society has conditioned some men to not express this. Thin isn't always a compliment for some people thats just your perception of beauty. Body weight and frame has nothing to do with the size of someone's genitals. Trust me some men really don't care about the weight of a woman they are sexually interested in.

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Oh, great. Now i feel better knowing that i may find a loving chubby chaser, after all.

posted August 30, 2012 10:08 PM            

I dont think this is it/why you're like this.

I think a number of my aspects/placements make me not shallow. Or shallow enough to like someone for his body parts - any of them. I like someone because of a connection.

posted August 30, 2012 11:15 PM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
Oh, great. Now i feel better knowing that i may find a loving chubby chaser, after all.

I didn't really think this would so much be an issue about me... Interesting. I appreciate your comments for the added perspective. Where's your mercury?

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posted August 31, 2012 09:01 AM            

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
i don't have mars square neptune but i just wanted to say don't worry about the size difference. i'm a big girl (about 50 lbs overweight) and i have ALWAYS dated guys thinner than me...waaaaay thinner. my current interest is 5'10" and 130 lbs LOL...i also almost always go for guys younger than me. and i'm not the dominant type, sexually. quite the opposite..so it's not like i'm OK with it because i feel i have power over them. i just like skinny guys, and those skinny guys happen to like thick girls

it's no biggie. if he likes you, he likes you. go for it

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