posted September 08, 2012 02:03 AM            

On a more shallow note. If What I saw online was not interesting to me, it would effect my interest in the person.

On a less shallow note. If I knew and liked the person for a while before discovering their internet pr0nz, I would likely be attracted regardless.

posted September 08, 2012 06:13 AM            

Plus, it really shows a lack of common sense, as well as disrespect for self and others. They obviously aren't thinking about their future, how it will embarrass them and their families, how it will impact them getting a job (except maybe in a seedy career field), what it will do to their reputation, etc. And what about their future dating prospects? It might attract the wrong kinds of people and push away others.

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posted September 08, 2012 07:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
Totally not. In fact, my Venus in Scorpio would be thankful for the pics. We like to research thoroughly before we buy.

On a more shallow note. If What I saw online was not interesting to me, it would effect my interest in the person.

On a less shallow note. If I knew and liked the person for a while before discovering their internet pr0nz, I would likely be attracted regardless.

I have an ex who ended up in porn and though I would likely never date him again, there was a tiny spark of pride when I discovered my ex grew up to be a pornstar.

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posted September 08, 2012 03:27 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
it's abit shocking though. like wow i met a really cool chick.. then damn is that her a-hole??

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HAhaha sand, you crack me up.

I guess so. Realistically there are a lot worse things a person could do, right? I mean, given the choice between "made a poor decision once in college" and "on the CA state sex offender's list" I think having nudie pix on the web is a negligible offense. Some people make sex tapes with exes or take pics of their self thinking they will never leave the privacy of the bedroom.

posted September 08, 2012 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
HAhaha sand, you crack me up.

I guess so. Realistically there are a lot worse things a person could do, right? I mean, given the choice between "made a poor decision once in college" and "on the CA state sex offender's list" I think having nudie pix on the web is a negligible offense.

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posted September 08, 2012 03:59 PM            

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then damn is that her a-hole??

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HAhaha sand, you crack me up.

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posted September 08, 2012 04:01 PM            

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would you turn a blind eye

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posted September 08, 2012 06:21 PM            

Of course there's such a thing as artistic and tasteful (not that I'd do it myself) though it doesn't sound as if this is the case for her. I'd be curious in her reasoning. OTOH, if someone else posted such pix or vid then I don't hold it against her (but rather those who did so), there are all kinds of ways to trick or even coerce a woman to pose for things like that.

posted September 08, 2012 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by matt:
Lol. So, if I came into your house and took a crap in your kitchen sink would you turn a blind eye and say ' oh well, could have done worse.....'.

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It depends, are you toilet trained? Does my house have a toilet in this scenario? Are you trapped in my kitchen after an earthquake? Is my other option, you crapping on my face? Is there a monster down the drain demanding people's crap or he will kill me? I would totally still love you for crapping in my sink throughout any of these scenarios.

Sometimes people feel they have a good reason for crapping in a sink. Me being able to find internet evidence of them performing that task, doesn't automatically justify my judgment of them or make me a better person for choosing not to date them

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posted September 08, 2012 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
What kind of sextape? what scene? gang bang? Orgies? Or like one of the last scenes in requiem for a dream where the chick and another girl are sharing a double sided and getting off on top of a table while they're being tipped for it by businessmen that are sitting around watching? One of those? Or just an amateur show of two people going missionary?

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posted September 08, 2012 10:09 PM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
Ok, mabe there are some exceptions. If the person had posed nude for arts sake, then thats different. I cant judge on that level, since I had drawn nude people in my past Art classes.

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posted September 09, 2012 04:30 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
There are a lot of different circumstances with people and sex tapes not all are sex tapes are consensual ex. some people hide cameras in places while they are intimate with a partner and don't tell them they're present. Some people do sex tapes as a fun couple activity and yes even some married couples, then once the relationship is over if they are really maleficent about the end of the relationship they will release said sex tapes as some sort of "punishment". Lastly some people do stupid **** when they were young and once it's out there it's out there and they really can't do anything about it.

I see this as a grey issue. Now because were so inter-whined with media and social networking anything can get out. People make mistakes and it's kinda not fair to hold their past against them. Everyone to some degree has skeletons in their closets, they may not be sex-tapes but there's probably something.

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