posted September 10, 2012 03:11 AM            

I had sake. We watched the jones. It was nice and i enjoyed the company til we started talking after we unsuccesfully tried to mutually fap.

I never knew the extent of the aimlessness or flooziness of mars in pisces but boy, oh, boy..!!

I heard about the hookup stories, the unsuccesful meetings and how he literally dragged someone out of his car and left them on the side of the road once they caught on to them only stringing them along for transportation.

He has saturn in his fifth... I heard a drives worth of what he's learned through his experiences of random dating/hooking up...

I'm so glad nothing happened.

He wanted to kiss... Got none of that, either.

He's going through his saturn return and saturn will be moving through scorpio aka his fifth.

I can write an entire book on this evening alone.

posted September 10, 2012 09:37 AM            

For me, if I like someone I'm really direct about it that way the usual mental anguish stuff does not happen.

posted September 10, 2012 09:50 AM            

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Well, to me as soon as you mentally decided that you would not introduce him to your friends that sort of said what needed to be said about this fella.

For me, if I like someone I'm really direct about it that way the usual mental anguish stuff does not happen.

And gingivitis? Come on man..no he didn't..

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Yes, he did

posted September 10, 2012 09:55 AM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:

Yes, he did

I swear to u that he did.

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I think that is an automatic DQ from any obligation to go through with the date.

Swampy feet as well...sheesh..this sounds like one of those deals were maybe you haven't went out in a time and this sounded like a better idea then it actually was.

For me, I'd happily jettison the Raiders of the Lost Ark thing for a Sake and Sushi date..that sounds much more enjoyable then a re-run of a film one knows by heart anyway.

posted September 10, 2012 10:12 AM            

I also haven't properly been asked on a date before. Usually they have been "getting together" so out of boredom and slight longing for romance, i did.

What's interesting is that i met that person as s-turn moved through my fifth and they have that position natally... I've found transits and the people i meet to pair like that far too often.

Bar the swampy feet... The war wardrobe was just downright exquisite.

posted September 10, 2012 10:24 AM            

Liking someone, then having such a feeling validated or invalidated, is one of the things that makes life worth living so to speak.

For myself, I usually can find out quickly if such like is a surface thing, or not, simply be feeling them out in a simple conversation. Some people give off vibes and their conversation tends to wander to topics they like.

So I ask myself what sort of vibe are they giving off, and what are they speaking about and that usually is enough for me to tell for sure or not.

As an example, as you mentioned Aqua told you he stopped the car and kicked a girl out he was giving a ride to once..he realized she just wanted a rid somewhere..

To me, that tells me a lot, why bring it up on a date with another lady? What did he think she wanted other then a ride? Why did he think that?

posted September 10, 2012 10:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
There usually are redeeming qualities, stars aligned, perhaps you like formality, and the uniform just sold it.

Liking someone, then having such a feeling validated or invalidated, is one of the things that makes life worth living so to speak.

For myself, I usually can find out quickly if such like is a surface thing, or not, simply be feeling them out in a simple conversation. Some people give off vibes and their conversation tends to wander to topics they like.

So I ask myself what sort of vibe are they giving off, and what are they speaking about and that usually is enough for me to tell for sure or not.

As an example, as you mentioned Aqua told you he stopped the car and kicked a girl out he was giving a ride to once..he realized she just wanted a rid somewhere..

To me, that tells me a lot, why bring it up on a date with another lady? What did he think she wanted other then a ride? Why did he think that?

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According to him, it was with the agreed purpose of having sex.

I totally agree with what you said.

I did exactly that and i just listened.. And listened and said mhm when he asked if i was listening...

I have no idea why he brought it up.. Should i be glad that he did? I think any other person would've kept that to themselves. Better the devil that you know? I feel that i'd at least have no surprises down the line.

I natally have a mars square neptune so i guess that's maybe what the uniform fulfilled.

Everything else? I can't say that i know of what exactly friggin happened as i couldn't believe it.

I didn't just hear about the girl being dragged out of his car.. I heard about his ex, how he got cheated on, his suicidal thoughts after having had broken up with the ex once he got cheated on and how he's turned into a cold hard-as$ after that experience...

If anyone would like to see his chart:
FEB 11 1983
MIAMI, FL
2:40 PM

I'm not sure what to make of it..... I don't know if it was his mercury pluto square, the capricorn south node or the cap mercury but i do know that mars in pisces was afoot.

posted September 10, 2012 01:15 PM            

I totally agree with what you said.

I did exactly that and i just listened.. And listened and said mhm when he asked if i was listening...

I have no idea why he brought it up.. Should i be glad that he did? I think any other person would've kept that to themselves. Better the devil that you know? I feel that i'd at least have no surprises down the line.

I natally have a mars square neptune so i guess that's maybe what the uniform fulfilled.

Everything else? I can't say that i know of what exactly friggin happened as i couldn't believe it.

I didn't just hear about the girl being dragged out of his car.. I heard about his ex, how he got cheated on, his suicidal thoughts after having had broken up with the ex once he got cheated on and how he's turned into a cold hard-as$ after that experience..."

-Only a couple of reasons why a man would bring that agreement up on a first date, none are flattering to Mr Aqua

This cat, hmm, either he is socially clueless, or a prick, or just mentally deranged, either way.

Sounds like he wanted to portray himself as high value, but with sympathetic qualities, along with some sort of iconoclastic type (think the re-enactor uniform).

Either way, if I ran into those traits in a female that would not last very long.

posted September 10, 2012 01:35 PM            

poor guy...sun and moon in the 12th with moon in aquarius squaring pluto...

posted September 10, 2012 01:36 PM            

For some reason alabe.com gives him a Cancer rising.

I think he is VERY clueless when it comes to being social.. It's weird since he's an aquarius but i've found jewish boys, particularly the first born's to grow up VERY sheltered and usually it's because of the mom.

I know it to be true in more than one case including his.

posted September 10, 2012 01:40 PM            

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For some reason alabe.com gives him a Cancer rising.

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posted September 10, 2012 01:46 PM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:

I think he is VERY clueless when it comes to being social.. It's weird since he's an aquarius but i've found jewish boys, particularly the first born's to grow up VERY sheltered and usually it's because of the mom.

I know it to be true in more than one case including his.

His mother before passing away, used to CHAPERONE his dates... I guess with his hades moon, one should've seen that coming.

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i have dated a virgo with an aqua moon....opposing mine EXACT....and it was interesting at first becuse he was so different...but he just lacked any deep emotions or social skills....and he thought his strange and insulting behaviour was actually the right thing to do

posted September 10, 2012 01:52 PM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
A user made a blog post and put the link up in 2.0 that was pretty interesting. I beliwve he was not at all prepared for anything life was about and his mother didn't help any. She sheltered him so much that he's aimlessly clueless and probably a bit of a danger to himself because of it.

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ive read the article too and it was very interesting and true

it happens a lot here in israel...especially becuse of the jewish mothers XD

posted September 10, 2012 01:56 PM            

One who was sexually molested by his mother for YEARS had no hades moon but venus in hard aspect to both uranus and neptune.

I don't think this aqua fella was molested though the relationship was not at all healthy.. It's odd, yes but i don't see anything in common between the two.

posted September 10, 2012 01:57 PM            

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Originally posted by doommlord:
astro.com gives the most accurate charts...at least from what i have heard

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posted September 10, 2012 02:01 PM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
I've looked into the natal charts of jewish guys that i've met to see if there was something they might all have in common but i'm not sure.

One who was sexually molested by his mother for YEARS had no hades moon but venus in hard aspect to both uranus and neptune.

I don't think this aqua fella was molested though the relationship was not at all healthy.. It's odd, yes but i don't see anything in common between the two.

Both have grandparents or great grandparents directly impacted by the holocaust.

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i dont think race or religion can be seen in a chart

or else all white people and all black people had similar aspects/placements

posted September 10, 2012 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by doommlord:
i dont think race or religion can be seen in a chart

or else all white people and all black people had similar aspects/placements

people dont need to get molested to be very wierd in relationships....other thing could have "bumped" into them while they were emotionally developing....and then something problematic happens

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I know. I felt kinda silly looking into it but i at least expected something. I think when hitler rose to power there was uranus squaring pluto so some of that have to have carried or made some sort of impact on the natal, i thought... :/

posted September 10, 2012 02:36 PM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
I know. I felt kinda silly looking into it but i at least expected something. I think when hitler rose to power there was uranus squaring pluto so some of that have to have carried or made some sort of impact on the natal, i thought... :/

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