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posted September 24, 2012 08:50 AM            

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cause of thread: my brother is getting shipped abroad, he is 14. he has an aries mars. i don't remember his venus but he's a pisces.

pretty shocked since my dad is quite liberal. i guess he is strict on relationships. with me he was probably just happy i wasn't gay hahaha!

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posted September 24, 2012 09:55 AM            

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I was shipped abroad at 13. As far away possible. The further the better.

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posted September 24, 2012 10:33 AM            

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same reason?

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posted September 24, 2012 11:14 AM            

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Not altogether. But I had lots of girlfriends coming and going. Yes, I had relationships early. Nothing that my parents objected to had any impact on me. I was trouble. So they shippede out to Europe. The feelings were mutual.

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posted September 24, 2012 11:40 AM            

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ic ic.. my brother is a really good kid though. (at least compared to me.) just a bit amorous which is probably what my dad fears. we both have leo moons. he is also not shallow. he picks smart ones.

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posted September 24, 2012 02:37 PM            

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What is there to fear about a relationship, except for potential misfires?

When I was a kid, I liked the older ones, which drove my parents crazy I would be 13, dating an 18 year old

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posted September 26, 2012 08:40 PM            

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I don't understand what this is about. Does this mean that because a kid was in "too serious" a relationship they sent him to another country?

If so, why don't they think he'll just get into another relationship...after all it seems women in most countries just love a foreign accent. And outside the US the western nations (and many more beside) are often a lot more tolerant of drinking, drugging, and sex by teens as well.

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posted September 26, 2012 09:43 PM            

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yep!

usually they will be guarded by relatives which can be a bad thing depending on the age of the guardians. like my cousin is here living with my grandparents. he has to be home by 10 and he is 24. ..or boarding school.

good point but i guess it's the connection to that particular person they want to cut? idk.. even a foreign asian one? we are quite tolerant of drinking, drugging, teen sex too.

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posted September 26, 2012 10:14 PM            

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I was in a relationship at 14...I dunno, I don't see anything wrong with it. Who's to say a 14 year old can't be uh...mature? I never said that I was in love or anything, so I guess that's why people took me seriously. One of my friends at the time was talking about marriage so her parents were like...maybe you should wait a few years until you can value it better. Scorpio Venus vs. Gemini Venus

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