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Ami Anne
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posted October 07, 2012 09:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why can't I look dainty when I learn

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Jovian
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posted October 08, 2012 02:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jovian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's funny, Ami.

So, you are saying you look like this?

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RegardesPlatero
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posted October 08, 2012 05:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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doommlord
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posted October 08, 2012 06:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for doommlord     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Look at the bright side ami...

now that you learned you wont make those mistakes and thus,by extention, made yourself a better person

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Ami Anne
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posted October 08, 2012 07:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Jovian:
That's funny, Ami.

So, you are saying you look like this?


I look like this


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Ami Anne
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posted October 08, 2012 07:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by doommlord:
Look at the bright side ami...

now that you learned you wont make those mistakes and thus,by extention, made yourself a better person


YES and I have wonderful friends like you, DL

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Ami Anne
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posted October 08, 2012 07:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks RP
You see how hard it is when you make a mistake in GU like closing Randall's thread and thinking he would be mad, which he was not, OF COURSE.

I remember you sweating about that and about how you would handle fights in DD. Now, you are much more confident. That is what I mean. It hurts like heck to feel that awful shame of failing but then you realize, the thing was not a big deal and you learned to handle it. It gets easier and easier until it can be done without much stress.

Once you are on the other side, it seems easy but going through it is horrible

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RegardesPlatero
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posted October 08, 2012 08:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Thanks RP
You see how hard it is when you make a mistake in GU like closing Randall's thread and thinking he would be mad, which he was not, OF COURSE.

I remember you sweating about that and about how you would handle fights in DD. Now, you are much more confident. That is what I mean. It hurts like heck to feel that awful shame of failing but then you realize, the thing was not a big deal and you learned to handle it. It gets easier and easier until it can be done without much stress.

Once you are on the other side, it seems easy but going through it is horrible


thanks

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RedScorp
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posted October 08, 2012 08:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
RegardesPlatero, this may be a bit off-hand, but do you have any Cancer? Or maybe Pisces squares?

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posted October 08, 2012 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Why can't I look dainty when I learn


LOL! I sympathize.

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RegardesPlatero
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posted October 09, 2012 04:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
RegardesPlatero, this may be a bit off-hand, but do you have any Cancer? Or maybe Pisces squares?

why do you ask? what would they mean?

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RedScorp
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posted October 09, 2012 05:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL can't even tell meeee...well, I only really kno dat u a Libra.

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posted October 09, 2012 07:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll make you a thread, if you want! I'll post it in Quirky Cuisine: "RegardesPlatero!" It will say, "How do you make meat loaf (also do you have Cancer planets or Pisces squares)?"

No one hangs around in Quirky Cuisine, so it'll be the perfect, mildly veiled place to disgust the elusive RP's chart. That and my meat loaf didn't turn out yesterday.

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RegardesPlatero
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posted October 09, 2012 07:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I actually don't make meatloaf, as I don't eat meat

I just want to know what your reason is for asking before I answer. Like, what made you think that? Are there certain traits that those positions would have that I seem to have?

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posted October 09, 2012 07:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, okay! I ask becauseeee Cancer and Pisces are pretty elusive and you seem like, supah reserved and stuff. And then a few squares for tension. It could also be Capricorn, I guess...

Hell, Scorpio is like, right there, so throw him in too,

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posted October 09, 2012 07:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Aquacheeka
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posted October 10, 2012 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good question!

And for some of us more hardheaded folks, it takes multiple screw-ups before you finally take a hint! lol.

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Ami Anne
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posted October 10, 2012 04:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Good question!

And for some of us more hardheaded folks, it takes multiple screw-ups before you finally take a hint! lol.



That is so freaking true. My last lesson took me 3 years, but it was so worth it. I feel like I got a "Get Out of Jail Free" card

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Jovian
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posted October 12, 2012 10:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jovian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
...I'm going to interject a "hint" for RP. ...You've got to stop with the paranoia, RP. Come on, woman! You have Cancer Moon, as you shared in Astro 2.0 a while back. You were lamenting how you hated it. ...I shared in the thread, because I also have Cancer Moon. (I can see you turning red right now, as I REVEAL this to the world!! lol)


Ami Anne has Cancer Moon and Mars. That stuff is right up her alley. ...You could be missing out on some support, by hiding. ...What is it do you think you are fearing by being "exposed"? What is so terrible about you? I am sensitive as anything as well! You have got to start letting some of that go and risk being more open with people, if you want the type of inter-relations you seek, RP. You've got to stay in the game here. You will be richly rewarded if you take the chance! We are all individuals here, each with our own quirks and insecurities and habits here...none of us perfect by any means.


...So, can we all drop the Cancer secrecy stuff?

BTW, am I being a crab here?


EDIT!: Is this an offensive post? Sometimes I can't assess if I'm going overboard. Some part of me says I am, but some says I'm being oversensitive with worry. If I went back and deleted every post I had doubts about, there'd be nothing left. Cancer moon issue? ...Ugh! ...See: A POTENTIAL SCREW UP, RIGHT HERE!


(Unrelated aside: RP, I enjoy your hyper-enthusiasm over OAUT that you share on that thread. ...I still have to catch up on the last episode.)

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lilithpluto
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posted October 13, 2012 01:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithpluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
cos we probably dun remember the lesson otherwise?

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RegardesPlatero
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posted October 13, 2012 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Jovian:
...I'm going to interject a "hint" for RP. ...You've got to stop with the paranoia, RP. Come on, woman! You have Cancer Moon, as you shared in Astro 2.0 a while back. You were lamenting how you hated it. ...I shared in the thread, because I also have Cancer Moon. (I can see you turning red right now, as I REVEAL this to the world!! lol)


Ami Anne has Cancer Moon and Mars. That stuff is right up her alley. ...You could be missing out on some support, by hiding. ...What is it do you think you are fearing by being "exposed"? What is so terrible about you? I am sensitive as anything as well! You have got to start letting some of that go and risk being more open with people, if you want the type of inter-relations you seek, RP. You've got to stay in the game here. You will be richly rewarded if you take the chance! We are all individuals here, each with our own quirks and insecurities and habits here...none of us perfect by any means.


...So, can we all drop the Cancer secrecy stuff?

BTW, am I being a [b]crab here?


EDIT!: Is this an offensive post? Sometimes I can't assess if I'm going overboard. Some part of me says I am, but some says I'm being oversensitive with worry. If I went back and deleted every post I had doubts about, there'd be nothing left. Cancer moon issue? ...Ugh! ...See: A POTENTIAL SCREW UP, RIGHT HERE!


(Unrelated aside: RP, I enjoy your hyper-enthusiasm over OAUT that you share on that thread. ...I still have to catch up on the last episode.)

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Mainly, I try to keep myself safe.

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I think you did go just a wee smidge overboard dearie and could tone it down just a hair, but I'm not super-angry or anything I am turning red though lol .

also, glad you enjoy the OUAT thread! looking forward to tomorrow's episode!!

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Jovian
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posted October 13, 2012 10:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jovian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But Rumple, what are you afraid of? ...That Cancer Moon can be a beautiful asset...so I'm told. I'm working on it, myself.

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RegardesPlatero
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posted October 14, 2012 05:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jovian, could you please tone down that post?

Honestly, I feel very anxious about it.

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