posted December 31, 2012 05:42 PM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
I tend to have a thing for men with dark hair and eyes with fair skin, the contrast is so sexy to me. Both my husband and I have dark features with pale skin. So I guess I dig men with features like mine lol.

We resemble Mortisha and Gomez from Adams Family

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posted December 31, 2012 09:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Most guys are picky about the face, believe it or not. I never heard a man say he strictly prefers a certain size girl (except an Aries friend who ONLY dates large women), but lets just say my friends who are have very cute and attractive faces have the easiest time finding someone. It reeeeally helps if a woman has super long hair too. I am plain-looking since I don't do the whole hollywood glam thing, so I am not one to be picky about looks. From certain angles, my face can look... weird. Needless to say I don't get half as much attention as my friends do. But eh, it weeds out the dooshbags.
I experience a sexual attraction to [b]A FEW good looking people as either sex does, but that's not really a good reason to pursue a man for a relationship... it's like, you're good looking, but so what?
I love beards and facial hair and usually date chubby guys. I have never been crazy about skinny guys, but if I met one who was respectful towards me and not a prick or who doesn't try to make me pay for his insecurities, I'd date him regardless. (though not now, as I'm spoken for) Race is not a big issue. Ruler in the 7th in the 9th... [/B]

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You are adorable. I wanted to say that! xoxx

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posted December 31, 2012 10:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You are adorable. I wanted to say that! xoxx

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posted December 31, 2012 10:45 PM            

But a guy could easily look perfectly handsome form my perspective - and be completely unattractive for me on a sexual level.

And vice versa ^ He could seem average, not so handsome - and be sexually attractive.

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it's like, you're good looking, but so what?

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posted December 31, 2012 10:59 PM            

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Most guys are picky about the face, believe it or not. I never heard a man say he strictly prefers a certain size girl

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posted December 31, 2012 11:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
But a guy could easily look perfectly handsome form my perspective - and be completely unattractive for me on a sexual level.

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posted December 31, 2012 11:09 PM            

foreign- any size of frame and boobs lol. black, indian, european. kinky dark hair. brunette.

posted December 31, 2012 11:19 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i'm kind of an oddball as far as guys go because i really dont care much about a girls weight. i'm more picky about the face (does she have pretty eyes? smile? etc) . what are your preferences?

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posted December 31, 2012 11:28 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
yes sex appeal is very strange i think i was struck by it for the first time last week. not pretty and looked like a ***** in her own words (but she was sophisticated in a way that really didn't give a fuk) that honesty too about the way she looked was damn sexy. i think it's not giving a fuk that i find sexy. insouciance. but then it's attitude.. not looks..

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posted January 01, 2013 12:51 AM            

So, it's hard to say when it comes to physical.... I wasn't taught to distinguish certain things that a lot of others in my circle were... it was always hard to explain my "why him's" to my friends... age differences, cultural differences, racial differences, sexual orientation differences..... thankfully my friend's accepted my acceptances... and hopefully, in some ways I may have rubbed off on them a bit (coming from a small community with a lot of those old world prejudices still floating around).

Edit - cause this gets to the point better -

my dream beau: mixalis xatzigiannis

actual physical traits - eyes - prominent chin, collarbone/clavicle - defined shoulders/back, dark features (eyes/hair/complexions)
hard to define physical/other traits -- foreign/exotic, maturity, class, not shambolic or unhygienic... put together - ya know?

this stuff :
(collar and chin : unknown model)

(back muscles/shoulder definition - everything - this is Godfrey Gao btw xtreme hawtness)

(unique, intense, luring, or exotic eyes)

(I'm pretty sure these belong to Imran Abbas)

(what I think looks mature and put together more or less, hitting all marks above)

(this is Nintin, model from mumbai)

~virgo complex - (fixed several mistakes)

posted January 01, 2013 01:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
My perfect guy looks wise... would have green eyes and dirty blonde hair - quite tall, over 6'2... nice abs, fit, firm bootie. Deep, watery eyes.

But a guy could easily look perfectly handsome form my perspective - and be completely unattractive for me on a sexual level.

And vice versa ^ He could seem average, not so handsome - and be sexually attractive.

Yeah, I feel this way about most people. Maybe everyone does lol
I never understand why - if I mention to a friend that I like someone.. their reaction is "OMG ask him out!!!!!!! he might be The One!! You're gonna have lots of pretty babies together, and a puppy and maybe some gold fish!"
It's like - DUDE! I simply 'like' him.. I don't seriously *like* like him... I'm not that interested in him LoL - just happily gazing away.

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posted January 01, 2013 02:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
My perfect guy looks wise... would have green eyes and dirty blonde hair - quite tall, over 6'2... nice abs, fit, firm bootie. Deep, watery eyes.
But a guy could easily look perfectly handsome form my perspective - and be completely unattractive for me on a sexual level.

And vice versa ^ He could seem average, not so handsome - and be sexually attractive.

Yeah, I feel this way about most people. Maybe everyone does lol
I never understand why - if I mention to a friend that I like someone.. their reaction is "OMG ask him out!!!!!!! he might be The One!! You're gonna have lots of pretty babies together, and a puppy and maybe some gold fish!"
It's like - DUDE! I simply 'like' him.. I don't seriously *like* like him... I'm not that interested in him LoL - just happily gazing away.

haha im 6'4 with dirty blonde hair and green eyes, eat your heart out

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posted January 01, 2013 02:29 AM            

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He just needs a special something, that... that... je ne sais quoi!~?~!
And, a pair of fascinating eyes, a confidant demeanor, and loads of ambition and charm....
It's just nice to have him be not too damn tall, too big/frightening, or too good looking! haha yeah I'm out of my competition phases, I realize now... not a chance~ fine... moving on... /sigh

Being mature, physically and mentally~ those are probably the best traits to have...... (Eros-Saturn in Scorpio III --- gimme a man with some real substance *pleads with the heavens* haha)

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posted January 01, 2013 03:21 AM            

Like I thought I stated in my original post - I simply have a "thing" for mature looking men, (as in wrinkles, weathered, grey fox, dignified, experienced, austere, well traveled men) - *physical traits* ahem...

maturity is not just an action, it is how you carry yourself, it's a part of your demeanor - it doesn't need to be "on" all of the time, it's when that circumstance falls before you how you meet with it, how you resolve it, and how others perceive you as you do so.

Imbecility is another trait entirely - this is personality/mentality and yes... this is about physical attractions, no?

I'm just sayin' I like em to be like I like my lollipops! hard and not-so-sweet on the outside but full of decadent surprises in the middle, mmmnn like a tootsie-pop!

I'm a 5h sun, I just wanna have fun, and hope to find a partner who is playful and youthful in all regards, they just HAVE to be as multi-faceted physically, emotionally, and mentally as I hope I am.

This Venus in Sagittarius loves fire moons <3
Venus - what we are physically attracted to right? Well, I find the ones that look playful, challenging, and spontaneous are physically more attractive to me, even if these traits are not physically tangible characteristics per se! Then couple in my Earth moon - maturity, stability, and security!~!~! again not physically tangible but still physically recognizable -- therefore - they are ALL physical attractions, IMHO - demeanor is a physical trait. --- lacking in regards to mental function, is not a physical trait, nor is it entirely or even partially discernible from external perception of the individual in question. apples to oranges, my dearest Leo Mooner <3 apples to oranges~

*returns to him a spatula for his amusement*

posted January 01, 2013 03:30 AM            

even if we have a tendency to push you out of a moving vehicle?

posted January 01, 2013 03:55 AM            

9h Taurus moon

--- lol now you have me imagining pilots~! darn it! rofl

~ I said he should be mature, and secure and stable~ as in, yes... loaded to some extent!
that's what being a mature individual is about no?? taking care of responsibilities.... I already went over this! hahaha XD

ur Aries Mercury has such a funny way of wording things!

Taurus Scorpio = always thinking with ones horns/stinger

hmmmmm ur too much, mister! <3