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Topic: do u prefer one who loves you more or one who you love more?
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peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2002 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 10:54 PM
i am going back to my old methods more. less hurt lol! pick the prettiest from those that love you. yay!!! chasing an aries- horse was hard for me. took years away from me. lots of effort required on my part to say the least. ego. i'm too lazy taurus for all that lmfao! what do u prefer? what situation do u have? IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2002 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 11:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by T: My favorite is when we are equally crazy about each other.
i wonder if that really does happen. i think sometimes when people are crazy about me and i am just grazing in the field and they're like hey bull yoo hoo i kinda like u, notice my bovine eyes mister, which i hear male tauruses overlook in the female tauruses btw. and then they grow on my so it becomes mutual! IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2002 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 11:13 PM
t ur post poofed...(i kinda wanted to scoop that leo mars situation but i didn't get a chance to read it lol!) IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 528 From: my molted scorp shell Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 11:22 PM
quote: peregrine: when people are crazy about me and i am just grazing in the field and they're like hey bull yoo hoo i kinda like u, notice my bovine eyes mister
LMAo grazing in the field IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2002 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 11:26 PM
all this alpha going up to women is BS. I'm just gonna be a passive male who is perpetually half naked. #comehither #haven'tdecidedwhichhalf IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 8539 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 26, 2013 11:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by peregrine: t ur post poofed...(i kinda wanted to scoop that leo mars situation but i didn't get a chance to read it lol!)
Dang. Yeah, they do that sometimes. I'll write more when I'm more focussed on the forum. Watching junk on the boob tube right now. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 8539 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 26, 2013 11:39 PM
...can't remember what i said, otherwise i'd re-type it. IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2002 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 11:40 PM
i'm trying to watch argo. IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2002 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 11:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by T: ...can't remember what i said, otherwise i'd re-type it.
i quote "the leo mars in me wants sand." IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 8539 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 26, 2013 11:59 PM
nutcase IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 528 From: my molted scorp shell Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 12:01 AM
quote: peregrine: i'm trying to watch argo. [/B]
That movie was so publicised and commercials/ads for it played every 20 minutes and I couldn't go to the theatre without having to sit through that dumb trailer so I hate the movie because of it. IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2002 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 12:01 AM
3 moar years and i have t's trust! JK!IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2002 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 12:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: That movie was so publicised and commercials/ads for it played every 20 minutes and I couldn't go to the theatre without having to sit through that dumb trailer so I hate the movie because of it.
i suppose i never watch tv. haven't seen a movie in the actuall cinemas in awhile too. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 1672 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 12:53 AM
I'm with you on "pick one from those that love you"... I don't chase. But I wouldn't say 'the prettiest' IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2002 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 01:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: I'm with you on "pick one from those that love you"... I don't chase. But I wouldn't say 'the prettiest'
what wud u say? ahh... the one that makes you feel alive. IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 847 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 03:20 AM
I always have both situations going on at the same time, which sucks..I really like someone that doesn't like me as much and at the same time some other guy is really into me and sweet and perfect but I don't like them back like that.. I guess I just never like the safe path or something \m/, & in the end I always end up with nothing.. yey me~ IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2002 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 05:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: That movie was so publicised and commercials/ads for it played every 20 minutes and I couldn't go to the theatre without having to sit through that dumb trailer so I hate the movie because of it.
it's pretty good. georgie and baffleck are producers. leo+taurus. i never liked george clooney's ideas for what he chose to produce on his own. they are too newsy for me perhaps because his dad was a newsman. makes me wonder if baffleck is actually a genius too. i mean i thought good will hunting was damon's for the most part coz he was harvard drop out. but ben's on oscar number 2 and damon is going pluto and doing mystic movies. adjustment bureau (akashic records, fate, soulmates)... that one with near death experience... i think there's one more... IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 709 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 06:38 AM
I'm slowly but surely learning my lesson about this.. After years of investing all of myself in pursuing whoever I gave my heart to (even if that meant quietly sitting back knowing this would eventually lead to them chasing me once again) I think I am quitting the game for a while lol Just to focus on healing and letting go and all of that.. And then whatever happens from there can hopefully just unfold naturally without all the running/chasing.. Although then my Pluto and Moon in 5th house just tend to get bored.. That seems to be my problem haha http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2GPGVbpT4hU IP: Logged |
Hera Knowflake Posts: 5512 From: Aries fantasy land ^_^ Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 27, 2013 06:52 AM
This whole f-ed up business of dating and chasing has me wanting to go to a nunnery. IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2002 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 08:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hera: This whole f-ed up business of dating and chasing has me wanting to go to a nunnery.
#shootmedownbutidon'tfall how am i going to be your best man if u don't find someone to get hitched to?? i already bought my brunello cucinelli tux! IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2002 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 09:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by FireMoon: I'm slowly but surely learning my lesson about this.. After years of investing all of myself in pursuing whoever I gave my heart to (even if that meant quietly sitting back knowing this would eventually lead to them chasing me once again) I think I am quitting the game for a while lol Just to focus on healing and letting go and all of that.. And then whatever happens from there can hopefully just unfold naturally without all the running/chasing.. Although then my Pluto and Moon in 5th house just tend to get bored.. That seems to be my problem haha http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2GPGVbpT4hU
i have mostly focused on myself my whole life but i got tired of being selfish. i wanted to do things for other people. be open and honest. itch like when jerry maguire starts to get a conscience about his work... he gets fired and leaves with a goldfish lol! #oldhabitsdiehard http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlvkneGPmVs IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 5670 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 27, 2013 10:19 AM
I rather be alone than being with someone I don`t love.No real room for compromise in that way. Of course it means that i AM alone.
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Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 5670 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 27, 2013 10:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hera: This whole f-ed up business of dating and chasing has me wanting to go to a nunnery.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&v=d7rizzRd4Ac&NR=1 IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 2021 From: Gaea's Omphalos Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 10:31 AM
the centauride in me (Venus) likes to chase AND be chased~ lol Momma, taught me girls do not chase boys though~ ~wise old Libra/Scorpio stellium!~ I know nothing of romantic love though~ the satyress in me will sit on her mountain, keeping a safe distance from everyone, and try to maintain her dignity and equilibrium... I don't really think I care so much who loves who more... just that the love would always FEEL as though it is growing and not fleeting... (just for instance, with children, our love quite literally feels like it grows as they age, and the more children you have, your "potential" *lackofbetterwordatm* to love grows too, it's very much felt... the human psyche feels it, not just the mind and heart... but my idea of love~ I cannot state enough... may be very different from others.) ^^ My ideas on what "love" is are often in conflict with those around me... I don't have any expectations for others, but I have high standards and expectations for myself. Being married for years has given me a different perspective than when I was actively engaged in both preferences you're questioning us on. lol You don't know what you want until you've let go of either, and removed yourself from the "box". Love would entail a lot of things for me to even consider it love at all. And, I have several kinds of love that I believe very firmly in, and some of them are not really known by a name, (ex: filial, platonic, maternal)... definitions are too restrictive, expectations are too restrictive, and love is a very "free" experience to me... I feel it should come freely to all... (not be expected, I mean. And, not really in the 70-80's-esque free-love/sex way... though the freedom to explore these areas are also important, they are not attached to my ideals on /love/. I hope that makes sense to everyone... lol) Sagittarius Venus cnj Uranus, 4h. There are other things in life that need more attention and effort than actively participating in the love games of youth... while nothing may be as important as love, other things are more necessary... "love" (whichever type) finds you when you are are not looking... this I've always believed in. ~ but on the other hand... I strongly believe that "love" as in "love" that the majority of people experience.... ...is fleeting. *she does her job, teaches us lessons, and is soon on her way to carry out her good work elsewhere* Love is blind, because love is just, and justice is blind.~ you don't need to look or be looked for, it finds you. ~ne?!
Centauride/Satyress *strange creature* <3 IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3224 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 12:05 PM
Neither. I'd prefer both equally being crazy about one another. Most people can't discern between what it means to love someone, to have fallen "in love" with someone, to lust for someone or to just be infatuated with someone. IP: Logged |