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Ami Anne
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posted April 14, 2013 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just read an article on Gaslighting which is what they do. They do things the background and then make you look crazy/bad etc and act like they did nothing. Their s##T don't stink, in common parlance

I cut off all contact with my mother. I blocked my phone and I am in grief kind of mourning her death.

Here is the article I read on Gaslighting. This is what they do, like breathing.

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Ami Anne
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posted April 14, 2013 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The gaslighting experience that helped me see it was a very clear one. It was clear because it was obvious I was doing nothing wrong. The Mal Narc gets you to blame yourself so you never see that they are setting you up. You think you are the bad one.

This was what happened. I have a garden and I am so excited about it. It is as good as a man
Just kidding

Anyway, I was excited to tell her about my collards as these are one of my prizes because I like to use them in juice, every day. My goal was to be able to picki greens for juice. Anyway, I was really proud of myself and then she says this, "Well, you are going to have so many that you are going to have to walk down the street like an idiot giving them to everyone" I lived in a snobby kind of community, so she tried to dig me with that that i would look like worse of an idiot.

I started screaming at her and I blocked her. This is one in millions of things starting with her molesting me and lying about that. They have never stopped but I kept trying and trying to have a mother. I have a Cancer moon and mars and so family is super important.

I came out pretty good for being her daughter, really when I look at it. I am sweet at heart. I think this is the Cancer moon, again.

I will put up the article on gaslighting as I am sure you have had some Malignant Narc do it to you. Actually, they are not that common, population wise but read about the Gaslighting and you will see what I mean

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Ami Anne
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posted April 14, 2013 12:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't find the article. I am upset. I will try to find it and be back.

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mirage29
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posted April 14, 2013 02:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll be waiting to read it Ami Anne ....

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Ami Anne
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posted April 15, 2013 10:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Mirage

I can't find it but thanks for your kind sentiments.

The Malignant Marc is a curse on all she touches.

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posted April 15, 2013 11:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
here's one that talks about gaslighting:
http://www.angelfire.com/zine2/narcissism/malignant_narcissism.html

Or
narcissistschild.blogspot

Is either of those which you were talking about?

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Ami Anne
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posted April 16, 2013 07:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Kat. I will check them out.

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posted October 23, 2013 05:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blueskiez06     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I just read an article on Gaslighting which is what they do. They do things the background and then make you look crazy/bad etc and act like they did nothing. Their s##T don't stink, in common parlance

I cut off all contact with

Here is the article I read on Gaslighting. This is what they do, like breathing.


BUMP

jus read your new article... great work, the depth of human evilness never never ceases to amaze me, i am gutted


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somethingexcellent
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posted October 23, 2013 06:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know someone who might have been narcissistic. If you upset them enough, they would start ignoring you and they would ignore you out in the open where you would notice and get upset over it then play it off like they weren't doing anything.

Crazy world.

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posted October 23, 2013 06:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Ami!

I can't remember whether I asked you this question before.. but - do you think narcissistic disorder can be drug-induced?

Or... maybe a better way to put that question is.. Do you think a person could behave in a manner that is very similar to someone having NPD - as a result of particular drugs they are on?

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Ami Anne
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posted October 23, 2013 07:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Odette
I wanted to ask you something first. Could I interview you in KTAA. I think you are a fascinating person


Drug induced--probably. Most things can be.

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posted October 23, 2013 07:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is funny this thread was bumped because I have learned so much about Mal Narc since I wrote it. i wrote 3 articles on Gaslighting that I may put on here. I will see. I know how some of you peeps love to fight, so I am not sure.

However, I have really seen how the Gaslighter operates and I can beat them at their own game. This is what you have to be able to do. If they eff with you, you eff back until they cry

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Ami Anne
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posted October 23, 2013 07:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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jusi read your new article on gaslighting Ami on your site, great work, i am currently dealing with a sociopathic "official" and his trolls who are paid to do this, its pretty much a variant on group bullying, thank u your article was very helpful in additionally shining light on their pitiful lame game

oh one of these people i know for a fact was abused by his father so he is more than gladly continuing that sick pattern

Thank you. Thank you! When my pain helps others, it seems like I have a purpose. You made my day with your kind words.

My Gaslighting series seems to be popular. I have 54 comments on it.

I went through hell with Gaslighters. I had my mother and and one or two other despicable people but I have TRIUMPHED.

That is my message. You have to know HOW to beat them down but this skill will stand you in good stead when you meet the next one.

They are kind of rare but you have to know how to cut the head off the snake and you can!!!

People just have to know what they are dealing with. Most people are not that evil and really don't believe how horrible the Gaslighter is. That is just what the Gaslighter wants.

My message is to beat them at their own game

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