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Topic: Don't realize your life is hard on partners?
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Padre35
Moderator Posts: 1651
From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 11:14 PM
  
Clumsy title, what I'm saying is sometimes we all do things that seem really difficult, say work a 16 hr shift, or brush poison ivy or sumac or what have you.And for "you" it's just a part of life, it's what you do, for the romantic interest..they don't understand it and suffer for being around b/c they want to do what you do. For me, there is a responsibility there, and yes they volunteered, but still, even the toughest of people are brittle at the end of it all. Sure "we" can stand it, the ones we care maybe cannot. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 964
From: walking with my head in the clouds!
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 11:51 PM
Talk it out. Compromise! Ask you for some time, and you give some time without giving up your hobbies or whatever completely.  Otherwise, maybe they should just know their limits and take it easy if they get overwhelmed trying to attach themselves to your lifestyle.IP: Logged |
Padre35
Moderator Posts: 1651
From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 18, 2013 12:05 AM
It's not that though, it's more the ones who are interested in me try to do what I do.I pass through it, they wind up taking hits from it..I never realize they have b/c, that I just don't know. It's not that I'm worried about myself, it's just more when I walk up the mtn side at 2 am on the bike, I'm afraid they be injured. I'll no be responsible for someone else's suffering via trying to do what I do..but eegads they do try it b/c they are into me! For a lack of a better term, "I want to go where you go, I want to do what you do". Reality is I walk a bit of tight rope, and hate the thought of being responsible for someone else..but will be.. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 964
From: walking with my head in the clouds!
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 18, 2013 01:31 AM
Ohhhhh! WELL they should know their limits...and that trying to do what you do no matter the physical strain...I DUNNO MAN that just sounds so ridiculous. Walk up a mountain side at 2 am because you want more exposure to a guy you like? Is someone doing this right now? Do you have a history of this?  This is just me here but!!!!!!!!! If I caught someone doing that, or sensed it, whatever, I'd probably confront them about it 'cause I'm confrontational like that. Except I don't walk up a mountain side at 2 am. You sound XTREMEEEEE. What else do you do? IP: Logged | |
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