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Topic: Missed boats aka Do you miss certain people who have left...?
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somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 1514
From: walking with my head in the clouds!
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 13, 2013 01:51 AM
  
I was just thinking back a couple of years and how I had a really nice sort of romantic-mixed friendship with someone. It was a bit long distanced, as we met through a frienemy of mine that moved countries, but...yeah, it was something nice. But they were really close to our mutual contact and seriously, me and the mutual contact would clash all the time, so it eventually wore them out. It was a mutual bridge burning...But just remembering them, I would honestly want to dig them up and try again if possible. But that's absurd - possible! But absurd. They were a Cancer with Pisces Moon and AC; so sensitive, such a dreamer, AND into astrology - I loved it. Plus they could match my uh, ahem, Leo Mars let's call it. Oh well, vent over! IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
Knowflake Posts: 648
From: Under the Sea
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 13, 2013 02:05 AM
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Pisces-Sweety
Knowflake Posts: 648
From: Under the Sea
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 13, 2013 02:05 AM
Hmm, maybe in the beginning I do miss them. Sometimes i miss what the used to be(but thats very rare ) but you know, I feel like if they were really good, they wouldnt be out of my life. I really see no point of missing them. I mean, chances are, if they came back now into my life, I wouldn't be happy. It was a different time back then and I was a different me. A few years ago, I was friends with these 2 sisters who I practically grew up with. (I know them since first grade) and in 10th grade, we parted ways. When we reconciled( ?) 3 years ago, I felt like there was nothing there except our memories and our past so I just let it go. It really hurts but you know, we always change and we always grow and experience new things in life that sometimes resemble nothing of the things we once experienced. People being one of them, whether they're friends, exes etc... Life goes on and we go with it. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 2856
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 13, 2013 02:32 AM
People come in and out of your life, it's sad but it's going to happen often.
Life takes us to our own destination. Each of us has one, so you can't expect everyone to always stay by your side.
I think when you accept that you'll feel more at peace with people coming and going. I do miss my old high school friends....
at least the memories. IP: Logged |
Padre35
Knowflake Posts: 2070
From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted June 13, 2013 07:58 AM
People come and go through life, with facebook and the rest of it now it is far easier to keep up with old friends. Real problem is, and it's sad, is when they pass on and "gone" really means "gone forever". IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 4255
From:
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 13, 2013 06:06 PM
It's all the Cancer in the air! Memories, sweet memories..I do miss some things / people.
But like Pisces-Sweety and Kerosene said, it's how life goes. Sometimes it makes me really sad. But then I remember that we all experience such things and it's part of our journey here on Earth. That's why it's very important to always have someone close to talk to (okay, maybe some people don't need that kind of closeness, but I do). To know that there's that one friend you can talk to and just feel like you're "home". Or talk to anyone willing to listen, really. Sometimes that's all we need. A good ear who can listen to us.  xo ~ IP: Logged |
anascorp
Knowflake Posts: 123
From:
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 14, 2013 11:26 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
It's all the Cancer in the air! Memories, sweet memories..I do miss some things / people.
But like Pisces-Sweety and Kerosene said, it's how life goes. Sometimes it makes me really sad. But then I remember that we all experience such things and it's part of our journey here on Earth. That's why it's very important to always have someone close to talk to (okay, maybe some people don't need that kind of closeness, but I do). To know that there's that one friend you can talk to and just feel like you're "home". Or talk to anyone willing to listen, really. Sometimes that's all we need. A good ear who can listen to us. xo ~
very thoughtful and very true
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charmainec
Moderator Posts: 6854
From: Venus next to Randall
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 18, 2013 01:23 AM
There's no regret, no nostalgia. When I cut someone out of my life, it's for good. I guess I'm extreme in that sense.IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 841
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 19, 2013 06:10 PM
Yes. I missed one boat. He is a Cancer Sun and Aries Moon. Not married but has two kids now with his longtime gf. We were friends in high school and have kept contact. We are very alike, born same year and 6 days apart. IP: Logged |
Geeky
Knowflake Posts: 441
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 29, 2013 02:53 AM
Also, Mercury just went retro so we're more likely to experience these things as well as déjà vu events.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 4255
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 29, 2013 07:38 AM
anascorp,Thank you. Geeky, Very true! Mercury retrograde can make us think about past events and sometimes people from the past resurface in our lives for a brief moment. IP: Logged |
WarriorPrincess7
Newflake Posts: 23
From:
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 05, 2013 03:36 PM
Definetly , when I love, I love deeply and have a hard time letting go once it is over.
It makes me sad that the people I loved the most can just move on so easily. It made me realize nothing is forever and made me more detached (after my first love who traumatized me)
The one I miss the most (my first), we had pluto conjunct moon in synastry, I think that explains everything
This mercury retrograde and all this cancer energy definetly puts nostalgia in the air these days...IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 6877
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 06, 2013 10:17 AM
I regret missed oppurtunities more than anything. When I was in middle school I had the biggest crush on a girl but never had the balls to ask her to the dance or anything. She was and still is beautiful and nice/ funny and I thought I didn't stand a chance. Anyways a few years later (sophomore year of high school) I was still sort of friends with her and talked to her on aim and myspace, She went to a different high school across town. One night around my 16th birthday me and one of friends had got ahold of some beer and got really drunk. I suddenly had the courage to ask that girl out and sent her a message on myspace asking her out. lol Even in my drunken mind I fully expected her to say no but I didn't care. The next day I checked my messages and low and behold she had mesaaged back and said yes and gave me her number and told me to call her to set up the date. Of course I could never muster up the courage to actually call her, I still regret that to this day....IP: Logged |
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