posted July 05, 2013 02:20 AM            

At the risk of sounding ignorant, how do I get them to just treat me like a friend instead of something more? The Leo isn't as bad because she's already involved with another girl (thankfully, because god knows I hate upsetting Leos) but the Aries girl wants pictures of my breasts and is constantly just making me feel uncomfortable, and SHE is dating the guy that USED to be hitting on me!

posted July 05, 2013 03:53 AM            

I have mars over my uranus and I'm getting ridiculous amounts of male attention.. even from "straight" men in broad day light, usually in the street, mostly sexual harassment stuff.
It's not fun, I don't know if they're mocking me or what, so I know how you're feeling. It's too much.

Those ladies aren't flirting with you, they're sexually harassing you too -_-. You can't just take provocative pictures of someone like that..

posted July 05, 2013 02:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Uranus hitting venus for sure!

I have mars over my uranus and I'm getting ridiculous amounts of male attention.. even from "straight" men in broad day light, usually in the street, mostly sexual harassment stuff.

It's not fun, I don't know if they're mocking me or what, so I know how you're feeling. It's too much.

Those ladies aren't flirting with you, they're sexually harassing you too -_-. You can't just take provocative pictures of someone like that..

Btw my mars is exactly in conjunction with your venus, also my mars is in the 11th house.

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That's kind of how I feel! But these girls aren't afraid of anything. The Leo won't do anything because I actually work with her and she's more passive. I'm intimidated by the Aries because I can't read her! She gets giggly and then serious, and when she's serious I can read her but the giggling and stuff just comes off really fake. She has Mercury in Pisces, ahem. YEAH, what would lend to us not being able to tell if their mocking us or not?!

posted July 05, 2013 02:55 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
You would THINK I could read the Aries like a book, but no, she has Venus in Taurus (remember I said Venus in Taurus have weird sexual appetites?!? Case in point!)

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Wut?? Where is this coming from? I am gonna take that one as a compliment, as a matter of fact!

posted July 05, 2013 03:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Wut?? Where is this coming from?

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posted July 05, 2013 03:23 PM            

The girl is sort of your opposite, Aries Moon instead of Sun and Taurus Sun instead of Moon. Aries Venus and Gemini Mars like you, also Aries Mercury, conjunct yours (and mine). I don't know her rising, I am guessing Virgo.

posted July 05, 2013 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I made a thread months ago asking if anyone else noticed Venus in Taurus tended to be freaks in the sheets, one way or another. This girl has it and I'm not insinuating being bi is "freaky," but this girl is weird outside of that. Her demeanor, her vibe... it's just weird.

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Can you bump it? It should be a delicious read.

In all seriousness I don't think my freakiness comes from my Taurus Venus, hedonistic as that may make me. But the really weird stuff I'm/was in didn't come from there. I view that placement as a placid, lazy, complacent influence. Rather passive and conservative.

posted July 05, 2013 03:58 PM            

I have never been hit on by the same sex. I never thought about it but with my Cancer Moon, I feel very heterosexual and that prolly comes off in my vibe.

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posted July 05, 2013 04:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
I am an Aries with Taurus Venus

The girl is sort of your opposite, Aries Moon instead of Sun and Taurus Sun instead of Moon. Aries Venus and Gemini Mars like you, also Aries Mercury, conjunct yours (and mine). I don't know her rising, I am guessing Virgo.

For the record, I considered myself straight-ish too, until her.

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Damn that is a lot like me! Same energy, anyway. Wonder if it's the mutable placements that makes me seem like I'd reciprocate?

I've had an experience with a woman and I think women's bodies are exquisite, but I've never had romantic, crushy longing feelings towards a woman. And can't see myself going there. Sexually, sure, and luckily because we're women our societal sexuality is a lot more fluid than men's which allows us to bounce back and forth.

I'll see if I can find the thread. I don't think it stayed on topic for very long, or got a lot of replies.

posted July 05, 2013 04:36 PM            

Lol poor unappreciated Taurus Venuses Personally I don't like Venus in detriment either so there you go. It's mutual I do like her, though, but I don't think it's sexual in nature. You might have similar placements but somehow I don't feel the same energy coming from you though. If you ask me, the whole attraction thingie is souls recognizing each other. Her and I are possibly karmic, we have some Nodal action going on and pretty amazing synastry and comp. I only wanted to befriend her, tbh, I didn't realize I might be attracted to her until recently.

posted July 05, 2013 05:01 PM            

I would be FINE if all she was doing is staring! But the other night I was hanging out with them and some of the guys (who are regulars, and they're decent enough) drinking. Bad idea. The Capricorn threw a bottle cap down my shirt jokingly, and before I knew it the Aries girl dove in to get it...with her teeth. And licked my cleavage. It happened all at once that I had no idea what to do. I didn't want to be uncool and freak out, but that was way too far for me! At that point I was like "Okay, she's NOT kidding around."

So yes, I think your right. Venus-Mars definitely at play here. Not to mention her double Aries sun and moon. Ugh.

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posted July 05, 2013 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I had a guy hit on me today

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posted July 05, 2013 08:36 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
One is a Leo, and the other is an Aries. You would THINK I could read the Aries like a book, but no, she has Venus in Taurus (remember I said Venus in Taurus have weird sexual appetites?!? Case in point!) The Leo I think has Cancer ASC, and Virgo in her chart.

At the risk of sounding ignorant, how do I get them to just treat me like a friend instead of something more? The Leo isn't as bad because she's already involved with another girl (thankfully, because god knows I hate upsetting Leos) but the Aries girl wants pictures of my breasts and is constantly just making me feel uncomfortable, and SHE is dating the guy that USED to be hitting on me!

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My guess is that the Aries girl is being put up to it by the guy that used to hit on you, and may not even be interested in you at all personally. In any case I'd just tell her to back off, not even interested in friendship with her.

As for the Leo, maybe it's a coincidence, or quite possibly she's just in competition with the Aries (and/or the guy she's with), and may even simply be "into" you just to show up the others. In case it's an innocent coincidence, then simply share with her a story (can be made up) how a woman came onto you (shouldn't be so similar to her that it's obvious you're talking about her) but that you're just not into that, only friends. That way you set boundaries without rejecting her outright (obviously, if she doesn't respect your boundaries then just cut her out of your life as much as possible). Perhaps even better, use the Aries girl as an example!

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posted July 05, 2013 09:11 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Hmm... why would you think the Aries girl is being put up to it by the guy? What would they get out of that?

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Lots of women are submissive enough to guys to help them get access to other women (and it's depressing how many mothers demand their daughters have sex with daddy, and even pimps and rapists can get women to aid them in finding & grooming victims) just to get on his good side. He wanted you, failed to get you, maybe he's using her now to get to you. Plenty of guys would try it, and plenty of women would go along with it. They'll even have sex with you for their guy.