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Topic: Getting back your dignity
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FruitTreeFresh
Knowflake Posts: 34
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 16, 2013 05:19 AM
  
How can I win strategically from a person I hate?This is all I can think of: Change image.
Get a career.
Improve critical thinking. Enhance creative thinking.
Bump up your credentials.
Expand your network. IP: Logged |
MetalAphrodite
Moderator Posts: 1270
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 16, 2013 05:37 AM
I think the only real way to win is to pursue a career that will make you happy in the long run.You'd essentially be living your life for that other person if you did everything just to spite him or her. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 2334
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 16, 2013 05:53 AM
Get back your dignity? Simple don't give them the time of day. Ignore them and do everything for you. Be what would make you proud, not what would satisfy your vengeful desire.IP: Logged |
Bluejay
Newflake Posts: 22
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 16, 2013 06:34 AM
Am I reading this correctly? You want to build a career so you can win against someone you hate?The only way to truly "win" is to be indifferent to them. Do those things for you, not them, then you will have your dignity back. Don't give them that power over your life. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 45055
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 16, 2013 07:46 AM
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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
How can I win strategically from a person I hate?This is all I can think of: Change image.
Get a career.
Improve critical thinking. Enhance creative thinking.
Bump up your credentials.
Expand your network.
I don't understand the question, Friend.
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FruitTreeFresh
Knowflake Posts: 34
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 16, 2013 07:41 PM
I don't understand why all the men fantasize her and she gets everything going in her life even though she doesn't have the skills.IP: Logged |
MetalAphrodite
Moderator Posts: 1270
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 16, 2013 07:49 PM
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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
I don't understand why all the men fantasize her and she gets everything going in her life even though she doesn't have the skills.
How did you lose your dignity to her in such a way that you feel you need to get it back? IP: Logged |
ail221
Moderator Posts: 3665
From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 16, 2013 07:49 PM
If you decide to live your life with the intent of just outdoing someone else that sounds kinda sad O___o. Also you never "know" what is really going on in someone else's life to know whether they get everything they want or all of the men your speaking about in question fantasize about her. Work on building your own self-esteem, career and image if those things are truly important to you.IP: Logged |
FruitTreeFresh
Knowflake Posts: 34
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 16, 2013 08:00 PM
The thing is that I don't get it why men fantasize her even though she's not a good person. (This is affirmed by others).Well I actually wouldn't care much only when I started to think what she and "the ex" did to me in cahoots. IP: Logged |
MetalAphrodite
Moderator Posts: 1270
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 16, 2013 09:10 PM
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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
The thing is that I don't get it why men fantasize her even though she's not a good person. (This is affirmed by others).Well I actually wouldn't care much only when I started to think what she and "the ex" did to me in cahoots.
Okay, this is going to sound crude, but eff them.The only real revenge you can have is improving your life and realizing you can be much more happier and fulfilled than with them in it. Cut them off and out then start living your new and improved life without them. IP: Logged |
FruitTreeFresh
Knowflake Posts: 34
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 16, 2013 09:31 PM
thanks everyone..I need motivational quotes now to boost up my determination lolIP: Logged |
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