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NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010	posted August 25, 2013 01:48 AM Let me catch you all up on what is going on in my life. Approximately 2 months ago my husband and I got evicted from our place (whole other story) and so we moved to a whole new part of the state to move in with a friend of his. This friend tells us this is a college town and jobs are always available. So when we get here it turns out there are no jobs. None at all. So everyone has been getting on my case about finding a job, even my husband. So I'm all stressed out to the point where it can't sleep ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010	posted August 25, 2013 01:52 AM To where I can't sleep at night and I'm barely eating even though I'm hungry. And now my husband is giving me an ultimatum. I have to find a job in a week. But what I'm more stressed about is that I have been looking, and no one sees it. I've looked online for jobs, I've gone out and looked but there really is nothing. And I'm trying to go back to school and I just don't know what to do ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010	posted August 25, 2013 02:03 AM And I just found out today that none of my husband's friends or family really like me. He says they think I'm rude and disrespectful and I don't know why. It's not like I try to come off that way. Now that I know I'm not really wanted anywhere, it's like "then why am I even trying? " ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged
Hera Moderator Posts: 7764 From: Aries fantasy land ^_^ Registered: Sep 2010	posted August 25, 2013 06:19 AM I am sorry to hear that, Nicki! Are you going through some nasty transits right now? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47442 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted August 25, 2013 06:49 AM Awww Nick ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47442 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted August 25, 2013 07:14 AM Nick I think your husband is kind of blowing off steam by saying that. I think he is exaggerating. I am not saying it is RIGHT for him to do because it is NOT but I don't think it is true. That is one friend's opinion. ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 5963 From: Registered: Oct 2011	posted August 25, 2013 07:46 AM The college itself should have job postings. Their real estate office, their cafeteria, etc. Husbands and ultimatums don't sound proper together. Money may be tight but what does he want? Isn't his job part of the equation too? perhaps he should step up his game as well. I take it you're either in Chapel Hill or Raleigh. IP: Logged
Doux R�ve Knowflake Posts: 6099 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted August 25, 2013 10:43 AM Wow.. Nicki I was just thinking of you recently and wondering what happened to you since you don't post anymore.. What a surprise. I'm sorry to hear about your troubles. Your husband doesn't sound supportive of you and that's not right, in my opinion. He should be there for you trying to help you and reassure you. Life can be hard sometimes and when that happens, the best thing people can do is be there for each other and show support. Have you talked to him about how you're feeling and that you're stressed out? He needs to know and treat you right. With that said, do you have relatives who can help you? Surely someone can help you, while you're looking for a job. Stay strong! IP: Logged
T Knowflake Posts: 10101 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted August 25, 2013 12:56 PM Married! I didnt know that ! HI Niki! Maybe you could make a list each day of all the things you are doing to try to find a job, so then they can't ***** at you about it. If you've tried explaining how hard you are trying and they don't see it, then you need to prove it to them. Best of luck! IP: Logged
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010	posted August 25, 2013 02:09 PM quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: I take it you're either in Chapel Hill or Raleigh. I'm actually about an hour or so from charlotte The thing is I have tried talking to him about how stressed I've been and how I feel he's not supportive. He says he is supportive but isn't sure if he'd go to japan with me if I had to study abroad (i know, right? Doesn't sound very supportive to me either) . I don't really have any family. At least none close by, and none that I know well, but I was thinking about calling my grandfather or one of my cousins out west if i can't find a job in a week. I don't know about any transits, I haven't checked ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010	posted August 25, 2013 03:15 PM Oh Lord. I have Pluto transiting my 8th stellium, including Saturn.... T.T ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010	posted August 25, 2013 03:22 PM ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010	posted August 25, 2013 03:27 PM I don't know if the image is loading or not, one of the images are loading on my phone But pretty soon I'll also have Saturn transiting my mars and Pluto..... T.T ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2413 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012	posted August 25, 2013 03:47 PM Try a 'nt biz IP: Logged
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010	posted August 25, 2013 03:50 PM quote: Originally posted by Padre35: Try a 'nt biz A what now? ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged
teasel Knowflake Posts: 5659 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted August 25, 2013 04:46 PM I don't see what else you can do differently. You're trying, and his remarks aren't helping. Someone should remind him that employers aren't looking for frazzled, bullied employees. How are you supposed to do anything, when you can't eat or sleep, and you're being told that you're disliked? That's really going to help you do well in interviews? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47442 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted August 25, 2013 04:58 PM Your chart is not showing up, Nick. ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47442 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted August 25, 2013 05:00 PM Why don't you put up your Composite with transits to it, too. I am feeling Chiron is doing something to you and/or him. ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
CatMote Knowflake Posts: 442 From: New Britain, CT, United States Registered: Apr 2013	posted August 25, 2013 05:04 PM try snagajob.com helped me out and its real easy to use. ------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn Ascendant Libra IP: Logged
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010	posted August 25, 2013 05:06 PM quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Why don't you put up your Composite with transits to it, too. I am feeling Chiron is doing something to you and/or him. I don't think there is a selection for composite with transits ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010	posted August 25, 2013 05:13 PM Fixed the picture ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47442 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted August 25, 2013 05:16 PM What is the orb with pluto conj your Uranus in the 7th? ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010	posted August 25, 2013 05:17 PM quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: What is the orb with pluto conj your Uranus in the 7th? 2 degrees ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47442 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted August 25, 2013 06:30 PM I posted a thread but did not want to take away from your thread. I think the Uranus in the 7th makes for ups and downs in the marriage. Pluto brings all the skeletons to the fore (and all relationships and all people have them) I really don't even look at transits because I don't want to know. It makes me more depressed if I see Pluto standing there. IQ told me I have a crazy T square with my libra ASC at 12 degrees. He wrote a post on Astro 2 It is Ok to know but it makes me feel worse lol I would not get overly obsessed with the charts now as you don't need this. We all have funky and weird transits. Marriages go through all sorts of hard things, for everyone ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
Hera Moderator Posts: 7764 From: Aries fantasy land ^_^ Registered: Sep 2010	posted August 25, 2013 06:42 PM quote: Originally posted by NickiG: Oh Lord. I have Pluto transiting my 8th stellium, including Saturn.... T.T It's also opposite your Jupiter, who happens to be your DC ruler. Your marriage will be tested. But Saturn will soon trine Jupiter, adding a bit more stability to this situation and perhaps, a clearer view. Re money and work, Jupiter is transiting your 2nd house and you CAN make money! I also see it trining your 6H ruler Pluto, so again, I think you might find a job when the aspect is close to exact, which should be in a week or so (haven't checked). Stay strong, you'll get through this! IP: Logged

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