posted August 25, 2013 06:26 PM            

I would tell you about my son and say he was in the same boat with girls and dating sites etc etc

Well, it was so funny. A girl at work led him on and then when he asked her out, she acted like he was a stupid dork.

He was really down so started telling his story to a girl on this Christian dating site.

He did not try to act cool.

He was not interested in this girl because she had pictures which showed she looked fat( like 50 pounds over weight)

He was totally himself and shared all his issues and insecurities etc.

Well, he went to meet her today and he looked like a mess. He even had on white socks. I told him not to wear white socks if he wanted to impress a girl but he didn't care.

He got to the restaurant and he was blown away. She had lost the weight and was gorgeous to him.

He told me he can totally be himself with her and that she is just like he in a female body.

I was crying when he told me.

I wanted to share this with all my buddies here.

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posted August 25, 2013 06:41 PM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
Thats wonderful! Love hearing when romance blooms

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Thank you, Sweetie!

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posted August 25, 2013 06:52 PM            

Glad to hear it though! That's awesome!

posted August 25, 2013 07:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Zander916:
Kind of the boat I'm in. I just don't care that much. Essentially gave up but I'm okay with it.

Glad to hear it though! That's awesome!

When's the wedding?

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Well, I am just happy that he found someone he is excited about and more so can really be his true self around her. That is the best part!

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posted August 25, 2013 09:25 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Ami,
I'm glad to hear that. If I were you I would try to get him to settle down a bit though and not get too excited yet. I say this because I have had dates like that where everything seemed perfect and then I never saw or heard from the girl again. People are extremely flaky these days, especially young people. I'm not trying to be negative or a party pooper I just don't like to ses people get crushed. I used to get all excited and never even dreamed things would go bad and when they did I was crushed. So now I try to keep my feet on the ground and not get too carried away. I really hope things continue to go well for your son, keep us updated.

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Thank you, Friend

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posted August 25, 2013 09:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

Thank you, Friend

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posted August 25, 2013 09:55 PM            

We shall see but it beautiful to see him so happy and I am enjoying every minute of that.

I know you are not trying to be negative xxx

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posted August 25, 2013 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I like white socks!

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posted August 25, 2013 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
me too. aren't the majority of socks white anyway?

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Dress socks are usually black or navy.

posted August 26, 2013 06:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
This is good.
Venus in libra is doing wonders!

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Thank you, K

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posted August 26, 2013 06:58 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Does she live in the same neighborhood?

Christianmingle.com?

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An hour and a half drive away, Ian.

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posted August 26, 2013 07:14 AM            

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posted August 26, 2013 07:30 AM            

However, this is what I wanted to say. My son would have crushes on people and I would do the charts.

The first girl who dissed him had a medium good synastry with him. I don't think it would have lasted because they had an exact Chiron conj mercury and all Chiron relationships that I see break up except Chiron conjunct the NN in marriage which causes years of misery imo

Anyway, the second girl he liked at work had a poor synastry with him and I told him to forget her because at best it would be a few dates with no soul.

The one he went to see had a great synastry with him that I told him would be instant attraction.

Get that he is a shallow Hal and her pics were 50 pounds overweight.

I told him to go meet her because the charts never lie. True to form, he was blown away.

He is a big eater and they went to a restaurant with a big delicious buffet and he could not touch his food

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