posted September 26, 2013 04:34 PM
That's why I don't condemn marriage because it's a choice and people should be able to do whatever they want.I just don't need a certificate to legitimize my love for my partner and to start a family if I so desire.
Yes, I have thought of seriously in my future and the only reason I would get married is to please my partner because you have to make sacrifices, even if they seem silly.
but I do like big weddings, I love parties!
I think a grand ceremony to celebrate your love is well, lovely.. Maybe a little obnoxious..
The biggest problem is that couples put so much pressure on themselves and get sucked into it.
I think it should be fun.
I really liked watching my parents wedding video, it was beautiful and they didn't have to life a finger because it's the family that does everything ahah, well at least in moms culture.
I think I would get my sisters and mom to organize my wedding ceremony ahah, it would crazy!!!!
and I don't think they spent ridiculous amounts of money, it was outdoors, just a lot of garlands and catering.. a looooot of food, obviously. Plus a lot of people and good music!