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Topic: When To Fight and When To Let it Go?
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 21, 2013 08:15 AM
I got really ripped off for less than 20 on plants. It was an online thing. They had no roots, were tiny. One was 1/4 of an inch. It was throwing the money in the toilet.When I said i wanted a refund, she got all nasty. If I push it, I will make an enemy and you know how crazy people can be, at this time in history, so to speak. I said I would accept a partial refund, just to be nice which is 10 dollars, so we are talking about nothing here. She got more and more nasty. I don't know if I should swallow my pride or go to the mats with her. I get upset with confrontation such that I am upset now over a small amount of money that I will spend today when I go out for lunch. Urrrgg Any thoughts? ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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NoRainNoRainbows Moderator Posts: 334 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 09:03 AM
What the ??? Ami, this is the one time u should not be quiet. it's your money it didn't grow on trees!! you paid expecting something, and it is not the thing u were promised, so then simply they don't get the money, as it is for the item they said this is, and not what they sent! i think no u keep at her till she returns all ur money even if it is just a dollar (what's with the $10 only business...that may make her think u r wrong when u aren't) so yeah keep at her, be firm but not rude, till she gives u a FULL refund! and then never deal with her again. don't let her get away with it, coz she's nasty, it's your right to stand up for urself, and this is the type of situations where u should do it! ok now i'm angry at this woman and i don't even know her...but that is called swindling not business what she did. IP: Logged |
Diplopoda Knowflake Posts: 746 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 09:17 AM
eBay has a refund policy. Explain it to them and u wil very likely get a refund if u send the plants back tooIP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 32670 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 21, 2013 11:17 AM
Open up a claim for "item not as described."IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 21, 2013 01:08 PM
Thanks guys. I have 100% positive feedback in over 5 years ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 32670 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 21, 2013 01:21 PM
A Seller can't leave you a negative. But don't threaten to leave a negative, because that's Feedback extortion. Just file the case, and you will get a full refund. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 21, 2013 01:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: A Seller can't leave you a negative. But don't threaten to leave a negative, because that's Feedback extortion. Just file the case, and you will get a full refund.
I thought a seller could leave you a negative. Did that change? ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 21, 2013 01:30 PM
I told her that if she did not refund the product, I would leave my honest opinion. Is that a threat?------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 21, 2013 01:46 PM
I made my decision. I don't want the money back. It is too much of a hassle. I just spent the same amount on Chinese food for lunch I told her to forget about the refund and I will give honest feedback about the situation and her attitude in 7 days when I am able to. You ave to wait 7 days before you can give negative feedback. I am at peace. I want the thing over and the hassle for that amount of money is not worth it. ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Catalina Knowflake Posts: 257 From: shamballa Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 03:05 PM
If you had just mentioned calling BBB or an attorney she probably would have refunded it on the double no more questions. No need to get into a knockdown dragout...IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 21, 2013 03:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Catalina: If you had just mentioned calling BBB or an attorney she probably would have refunded it on the double no more questions. No need to get into a knockdown dragout...
Nah--for 20 dollars, I don't want to deal with her anymore. I spent 20 on Chinese and it wasn't even good.
Thanks for the help though, Cat. Sometimes, I think we have a love/hate relationship
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CatMote Knowflake Posts: 449 From: Fighting Neptune for his trident Registered: Apr 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 03:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I told her that if she did not refund the product, I would leave my honest opinion. Is that a threat?
you should leave your honest opinion, regardless of the outcome.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 21, 2013 04:12 PM
Yep, I am. I don't want a refund so I don't have to deal with her anymore.------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 21, 2013 04:42 PM
I just had a person who wanted an e mail reading and she had all these issues, on and on and on. I tried to help her. I even said I would look at her charts which was not part of it. After about 10 e mails back and forth, she said she wanted her money back because I didn't tell her WHEN she would be happy. I said I don't want anyone to walk away feeling they got a bad outcome, so I did. Then, she said she would not have done it, if she were not broke and that she appreciated me lol Well, to me, you treat your clients right. You bend over backwards. Their business means a lot. They have a lot of people to choose from and it is an honor they chose you. This e bay lady is plain dumb ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 32670 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 21, 2013 09:21 PM
Yeah, it changed a while ago. Sellers can't leave negatives. And yeah, that would be considered a threat under the strict Feedback extortion rules. But she sounds pretty stupid and probably doesn't know that. You don't have to fight to get a refund. You just click on "not as described," and if PayPal was used, they will even hold the funds from her. The only way she can stop the process is to agree to the refund. Otherwise, you tell your side of the story in writing, and from what you have said, you will win no doubt. You have nothing to lose by trying. But the Seller has much to lose. Not fair for Sellers who are in the right, but that's the way eBay is now. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 21, 2013 09:38 PM
I don't want the stress of getting my money back, Randall. I want to leave the feedback and be done with it.If she is this dumb in business, she will not stay in business long. ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 22, 2013 09:39 AM
I feel better. I went to look on this sellers feedback and there are many bad ones with my situation.This is what she left for a person **DIRTY ROTTON CUSTOMER*** ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 32670 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 22, 2013 04:58 PM
You can get Feedback like that removed by eBay.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 22, 2013 06:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: You can get Feedback like that removed by eBay.
I am having total comic relief at the comments left for this seller. ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course.
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 22, 2013 06:22 PM
edit------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 22, 2013 06:24 PM
edit ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course.
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 22, 2013 06:26 PM
edit------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 32670 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 23, 2013 04:44 PM
Good stuff! Saw pre-edits.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 47626 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 23, 2013 06:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: Good stuff! Saw pre-edits.
I am glad someone appreciated it ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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