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Ami Anne
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posted October 08, 2013 10:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this dilemma. I found it highlighted today. I feel this yearning, grieving, mourning.
I want to write more but can't. If someone understands, I would love to hear from you.

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posted October 08, 2013 10:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aweeeee Ami ❤️I know exactly how you feel. I've gone through this way too many times. I always always tend to pick the guys who are bad news completely, yeah physically attractive but that's about it. It's like I make them a project and want to help make them better and more accepted in the world(I dunno that's what popped in my head) but it ends up biting me in the butt. I'm sorry you're going through that. You're heart can't control who it falls for and being the Libra that you are I know how tough that is. I promise it'll get better

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posted October 08, 2013 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Aweeeee Ami ❤️I know exactly how you feel. I've gone through this way too many times. I always always tend to pick the guys who are bad news completely, yeah physically attractive but that's about it. It's like I make them a project and want to help make them better and more accepted in the world(I dunno that's what popped in my head) but it ends up biting me in the butt. I'm sorry you're going through that. You're heart can't control who it falls for and being the Libra that you are I know how tough that is. I promise it'll get better


You made me cry, Barbie. Thank you

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posted October 08, 2013 10:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is general to various family relationships, too.

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posted October 08, 2013 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

You made me cry, Barbie. Thank you



Aweeeee Ami❤️ God bless.

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posted October 08, 2013 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
God I went through this once and it was terrible. Yes there was yearning and longing. I longed for that person to feel the same about me, to see me in that “special light”. I thought we had a grand thing going on and that we could be a part of each other’s inner world. So I grieved she told me there was nothing she could offer, that everything was indeed just my illusion. I grieved because I wanted so much for my illusions to be true. She was so near, but so far. I wanted so much for her to meet me halfway, wanted so much to forge a connection.

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posted October 08, 2013 11:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Aweeeee Ami❤️ God bless.

Awww You Sweetie

Thank you, Barbie


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posted October 08, 2013 11:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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God I went through this once and it was terrible. Yes there was yearning and longing. I longed for that person to feel the same about me, to see me in that “special light”. I thought we had a grand thing going on and that we could be a part of each other’s inner world. So I grieved she told me there was nothing she could offer, that everything was indeed just my illusion. I grieved because I wanted so much for my illusions to be true. She was so near, but so far. I wanted so much for her to meet me halfway, wanted so much to forge a connection.


Thank you Muddy. I am so emotional tonight. I am so glad good friends like you guys understand

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posted October 08, 2013 11:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ami <hug>

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posted October 08, 2013 11:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've already cried twice today. I've been extremely emotional and in need of affection today. I know how you feel. Remember there is always light though the tunnel ❤️

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posted October 09, 2013 05:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was always attracted to guys who were emotionally detached and after spending time in therapy and healing i realised it was a pattern formed since i was a little girl. My father, albeit well meaning and generous, was unavailable to me emotionally. I remember as a child hardly ever seeing his eyes which were hiddden behind tinted spectacles. He was very damaged by an uncaring mother and father

As we start to connect on a deeper level with ourselves and recognise the pattern, it heals.

I now wonder is there such a man who would hold my interest, unless he is some kind of Superman . Now, i have no interest in any man who is not totally connected to themselves. I may add my father passed on last year and it all started to change since then

The yearning is something we are born with..it subsides as we heal

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posted October 09, 2013 05:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, Muddy, Redshoes and Barbie. Love you Guys

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posted October 09, 2013 06:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meissieri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ami
Barbie, Muddy, redshoes

Gah, I'm so sorry. It's awful finding out someone doesn't feel the same way about you, while thinking you could give them so much and would be perfect for them. Going through that... it's going from a high to a very deep low.

Please do if you need to cry. The mourning can be good and it's good to accept feeling this way.

All I can say is: I know how it feels. *hug* Now I'm going to cry.

Just try to think that they're missing out - or at least hope that one day you can believe it. But it's tough getting there; a very long, bumpy road. You've given them so much and... how to take back all of that energy? Again, that's only for you to decide when you have.

But some day you will realize that it's their loss. And then you'll start seeing all the things that you aren't going to miss about them. You're all good people and someone will see it. It's just killing that the person you want to see it won't/doesn/t.

Best of luck to all of you!

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posted October 09, 2013 06:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awww Mei

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posted October 09, 2013 07:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Or when you love someone who has nothing to give, yet they lead you on ..for just in case, as if you're a security blanket..

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posted October 09, 2013 07:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Or when you love someone who has nothing to give, yet they lead you on ..for just in case, as if you're a security blanket..


Well said, Charmine

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posted October 09, 2013 11:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meissieri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
;__; That's horrible.

We all want to be liked, right? Even just a bit.

But if someone really did care about us, we wouldn't feel like we have to try. Things wouldn't feel so off-balance. It's a tough thing to find out.

And Ami

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posted October 09, 2013 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yep, living with this one for awhile now.
But it's always this way for me, or the same way Charmaine described.

Either that or I'll have one of my friends say, "so and so person adores you, don't you notice? They follow you around, etc etc etc" and I'm always so shocked.

I guess I don't notice the good ones cause I'm too busy trying to fix the other ones.

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posted October 09, 2013 07:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've dealt with that, too. Some don't do anything on purpose, others do... and that one was the one who managed to make me doubt myself, and then use me as a security blanket, until he got what he really wanted. I guess he needed the attention in order to finally feel good enough to go for it.

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posted October 09, 2013 07:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess I don't notice the good ones cause I'm too busy trying to fix the other ones.

Yea, I have been thinking about this and I have an article that relates to it. It is about asteroids but is this same subject.

Thanks for posting, Gypsee!

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Asteroids? I'd be interested to know which ones. I always thinks it's from having Nep in 7th, or a 6th house stellium, or simply having sun and ven in the 8th house. Love is never simple and carefree for me.

I guess I've learned to embrace it, cause I sure haven't figured out a way to change it! lol

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posted October 09, 2013 08:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Asteroids? I'd be interested to know which ones. I always thinks it's from having Nep in 7th, or a 6th house stellium, or simply having sun and ven in the 8th house. Love is never simple and carefree for me.

I guess I've learned to embrace it, cause I sure haven't figured out a way to change it! lol



The asteroids are super powerful. I will put a few articles on this thread for you, Gypsee

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posted October 09, 2013 09:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
.WHY Do Nessus and Dejaneria Relationships Feel Like They Will Kill Us?

I am someone people come to with obsessive relationships and ask why. Logically speaking, if one is an adult and feels one will die if a lover leaves, there must be something more than meets the eye. The Nessus/Dejaneria relationship has this feeling. When the person snubs you, you feel as if the floor will open up and swallow you. I have seen enough people go through the same thing to begin to formulate some ideas.

I think that both people have to have had some childhood abuse. In each natal chart, you will find asteroids for pain, betrayal and abuse, prominent. In synastry( the chart which compares one person's natal chart with another), the Nessus and Dejaneria will connect, strongly. The current relationship will bring up the horribly painful childhood abuse . The person feels as if he is re-living it. The pain will be horrendous,unspeakable. I believe that the current Nessus/ Dejaneria relationship is like an instant replay, in football, of the repressed emotions from childhood. That is why it is so intense, and so unexplainable, at the same time. Please, comment on anything I write. I welcome your comments

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posted October 09, 2013 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Unrequited love is one of the saddest parts of the human condition imo.

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Unrequited love is one of the saddest parts of the human condition imo.

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