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Topic: When You Want Someone Who Has Nothing To Give To Give To You
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 49607 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 08, 2013 10:17 PM
I have this dilemma. I found it highlighted today. I feel this yearning, grieving, mourning. I want to write more but can't. If someone understands, I would love to hear from you.------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 1996 From: 👾🔮The Moon Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 08, 2013 10:27 PM
Aweeeee Ami ❤️I know exactly how you feel. I've gone through this way too many times. I always always tend to pick the guys who are bad news completely, yeah physically attractive but that's about it. It's like I make them a project and want to help make them better and more accepted in the world(I dunno that's what popped in my head) but it ends up biting me in the butt. I'm sorry you're going through that. You're heart can't control who it falls for and being the Libra that you are I know how tough that is. I promise it'll get better IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 49607 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 08, 2013 10:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Aweeeee Ami ❤️I know exactly how you feel. I've gone through this way too many times. I always always tend to pick the guys who are bad news completely, yeah physically attractive but that's about it. It's like I make them a project and want to help make them better and more accepted in the world(I dunno that's what popped in my head) but it ends up biting me in the butt. I'm sorry you're going through that. You're heart can't control who it falls for and being the Libra that you are I know how tough that is. I promise it'll get better
You made me cry, Barbie. Thank you
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 49607 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 08, 2013 10:53 PM
It is general to various family relationships, too.------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 1996 From: 👾🔮The Moon Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 08, 2013 11:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: You made me cry, Barbie. Thank you
Aweeeee Ami❤️ God bless. IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 942 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 08, 2013 11:19 PM
God I went through this once and it was terrible. Yes there was yearning and longing. I longed for that person to feel the same about me, to see me in that “special light”. I thought we had a grand thing going on and that we could be a part of each other’s inner world. So I grieved she told me there was nothing she could offer, that everything was indeed just my illusion. I grieved because I wanted so much for my illusions to be true. She was so near, but so far. I wanted so much for her to meet me halfway, wanted so much to forge a connection. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 49607 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 08, 2013 11:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Aweeeee Ami❤️ God bless.
Awww You Sweetie Thank you, Barbie
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 49607 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 08, 2013 11:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: God I went through this once and it was terrible. Yes there was yearning and longing. I longed for that person to feel the same about me, to see me in that “special light”. I thought we had a grand thing going on and that we could be a part of each other’s inner world. So I grieved she told me there was nothing she could offer, that everything was indeed just my illusion. I grieved because I wanted so much for my illusions to be true. She was so near, but so far. I wanted so much for her to meet me halfway, wanted so much to forge a connection.
Thank you Muddy. I am so emotional tonight. I am so glad good friends like you guys understand
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12muddy Knowflake Posts: 942 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 08, 2013 11:47 PM
Ami <hug> IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 1996 From: 👾🔮The Moon Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 08, 2013 11:49 PM
I've already cried twice today. I've been extremely emotional and in need of affection today. I know how you feel. Remember there is always light though the tunnel ❤️IP: Logged |
redshoes Knowflake Posts: 765 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 09, 2013 05:08 AM
I was always attracted to guys who were emotionally detached and after spending time in therapy and healing i realised it was a pattern formed since i was a little girl. My father, albeit well meaning and generous, was unavailable to me emotionally. I remember as a child hardly ever seeing his eyes which were hiddden behind tinted spectacles. He was very damaged by an uncaring mother and fatherAs we start to connect on a deeper level with ourselves and recognise the pattern, it heals. I now wonder is there such a man who would hold my interest, unless he is some kind of Superman . Now, i have no interest in any man who is not totally connected to themselves. I may add my father passed on last year and it all started to change since then The yearning is something we are born with..it subsides as we heal IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 49607 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 09, 2013 05:41 AM
Thanks, Muddy, Redshoes and Barbie. Love you Guys ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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meissieri Knowflake Posts: 581 From: The Netherlands Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 09, 2013 06:22 AM
Ami Barbie, Muddy, redshoes Gah, I'm so sorry. It's awful finding out someone doesn't feel the same way about you, while thinking you could give them so much and would be perfect for them. Going through that... it's going from a high to a very deep low. Please do if you need to cry. The mourning can be good and it's good to accept feeling this way. All I can say is: I know how it feels. *hug* Now I'm going to cry. Just try to think that they're missing out - or at least hope that one day you can believe it. But it's tough getting there; a very long, bumpy road. You've given them so much and... how to take back all of that energy? Again, that's only for you to decide when you have. But some day you will realize that it's their loss. And then you'll start seeing all the things that you aren't going to miss about them. You're all good people and someone will see it. It's just killing that the person you want to see it won't/doesn/t. Best of luck to all of you! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 49607 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 09, 2013 06:25 AM
Awww Mei ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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charmainec Moderator Posts: 7508 From: Venus next to Randall Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 09, 2013 07:34 AM
Or when you love someone who has nothing to give, yet they lead you on ..for just in case, as if you're a security blanket.. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 49607 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 09, 2013 07:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by charmainec: Or when you love someone who has nothing to give, yet they lead you on ..for just in case, as if you're a security blanket..
Well said, Charmine ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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meissieri Knowflake Posts: 581 From: The Netherlands Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 09, 2013 11:00 AM
;__; That's horrible. We all want to be liked, right? Even just a bit. But if someone really did care about us, we wouldn't feel like we have to try. Things wouldn't feel so off-balance. It's a tough thing to find out. And Ami IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 5874 From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street.. Registered: May 2009
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posted October 09, 2013 07:23 PM
Yep, living with this one for awhile now. But it's always this way for me, or the same way Charmaine described.Either that or I'll have one of my friends say, "so and so person adores you, don't you notice? They follow you around, etc etc etc" and I'm always so shocked. I guess I don't notice the good ones cause I'm too busy trying to fix the other ones. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 5725 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 09, 2013 07:33 PM
I've dealt with that, too. Some don't do anything on purpose, others do... and that one was the one who managed to make me doubt myself, and then use me as a security blanket, until he got what he really wanted. I guess he needed the attention in order to finally feel good enough to go for it. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 49607 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 09, 2013 07:34 PM
I guess I don't notice the good ones cause I'm too busy trying to fix the other ones.Yea, I have been thinking about this and I have an article that relates to it. It is about asteroids but is this same subject. Thanks for posting, Gypsee! ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 5874 From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street.. Registered: May 2009
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posted October 09, 2013 08:29 PM
Asteroids? I'd be interested to know which ones. I always thinks it's from having Nep in 7th, or a 6th house stellium, or simply having sun and ven in the 8th house. Love is never simple and carefree for me. I guess I've learned to embrace it, cause I sure haven't figured out a way to change it! lol IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 49607 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 09, 2013 08:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by GypseeWind: Asteroids? I'd be interested to know which ones. I always thinks it's from having Nep in 7th, or a 6th house stellium, or simply having sun and ven in the 8th house. Love is never simple and carefree for me. I guess I've learned to embrace it, cause I sure haven't figured out a way to change it! lol
The asteroids are super powerful. I will put a few articles on this thread for you, Gypsee
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 49607 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 09, 2013 09:10 PM
.WHY Do Nessus and Dejaneria Relationships Feel Like They Will Kill Us?I am someone people come to with obsessive relationships and ask why. Logically speaking, if one is an adult and feels one will die if a lover leaves, there must be something more than meets the eye. The Nessus/Dejaneria relationship has this feeling. When the person snubs you, you feel as if the floor will open up and swallow you. I have seen enough people go through the same thing to begin to formulate some ideas. I think that both people have to have had some childhood abuse. In each natal chart, you will find asteroids for pain, betrayal and abuse, prominent. In synastry( the chart which compares one person's natal chart with another), the Nessus and Dejaneria will connect, strongly. The current relationship will bring up the horribly painful childhood abuse . The person feels as if he is re-living it. The pain will be horrendous,unspeakable. I believe that the current Nessus/ Dejaneria relationship is like an instant replay, in football, of the repressed emotions from childhood. That is why it is so intense, and so unexplainable, at the same time. Please, comment on anything I write. I welcome your comments ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 7695 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 10:00 PM
Unrequited love is one of the saddest parts of the human condition imo. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 7695 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 10:06 PM
Unrequited love is one of the saddest parts of the human condition imo.IP: Logged |