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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1805 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 23, 2013 08:42 PM
*Note: From the description I read, this is the forum -here- where I wish to share this. I haven't vented about this subject much online. I'll fill you in on the story and then post my Mom's chart at the end. I'd sincerely appreciate your input! My Mother is alive. But she isn't completely "present". She is recovering from a serious brain injury that has (for now) taken away her ability to speak, get out of bed, participate in activities. As a family, we miss interacting with her so very much!
She makes sounds & noises but she cannot form sentences yet. I haven't heard her say "Hey Precious! How's my baby doing?!" in MONTHS. We have yet to *speak* and there's no promise that I ever will again! Do you know how much that hurts me to think about?? Mommy does squeeze my hand tightly sometimes. But she hasn't been able to *embrace* me back when I give her a a hug. Do you know how badly this sucks?? The amazing news is that she has IMPROVED. Through all this she fought!! Initially, my Mother was in a "vegetable" state, so to speak. At first, the Doctors even tried to convince us to take her off Life Support and we refused and told them to GO TO HELL.She had (2) near-death experiences and the GOOD LORD did not see fit to take her yet!! Over the last few months: Mommy can breathe on her own, she can move, she can make noise, she shows emotions, her heart has recovered! I don't take that for granted and I realize that she is a miracle!! Her BRAIN is better but there's still more healing that must take place before she returns to normal and there's no telling how/when this will happen. There is *nothing* the Doctors can do. There is *nothing* this family can do. No -- this is between my Mom & God **ONLY** here. And I pray, trust & believe with ALL my heart that Mommy will finish her recovery and that she'll RUN down that home stretch to victory! I surely do! ----- HERE IS HER BIRTH CHART: My Mom has NOT had a horrible life, but she's had some hardships for sure. Is there anything that jumps out to you about this?
My Mother *forgives* people faster than ANYONE that I know!! What would show that in her chart?
What traits (positive or negative or neutral) about her do you see? *Thank you for reading!!!*
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 59886 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 23, 2013 08:59 PM
Aww FriendI am so sorry ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 59886 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 23, 2013 09:00 PM
I am too tired to look tonight. I will come back tomorrow.------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1805 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 23, 2013 09:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I am too tired to look tonight. I will come back tomorrow.
OK! Have a good one. IP: Logged |
blueskiez06 Knowflake Posts: 167 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted October 24, 2013 04:03 AM
hi lovely arieswhen i read about your and your moms hardships i thought of this http://www.ted.com/talks/jill_bolte_taylor_s_powerful_stroke_of_insight.html then I thought there must be something with the Aries sign, western chart doesn't particularly indicate Aries but Mars is configured it shows as follows, now I am not particularly nimble at medical astrology, but my 2 cents are that it is something about Mercury - your mom has a delicate nervous system, the planet that rules her health is Mercury and it is conjunct Sun and Mars(rules head) in Virgo that rules nerves anyway - i believe this is what is called a combust Mercury, which is not a good state of Mercury and having Mars there is probably not the best thing either but when I ran her vedic chart guess what Aries, which shows her head, rules also her 6th house which is health and we just had an eclipse along this aries/ libra axis in vedic astr so next 6 months will be pivotal and indicative of her recovery You have not written as to how long has this been the state of your mom if its the result of a stroke or some other trauma to the brain ... it looks like damage to the nerves really hope her improvement continues
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 59886 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 24, 2013 07:30 AM
Your mother is oriented to other people. She is an extrovert and will look to see what is going on with others, rather than being locked up inside herself. This would be the upper half planets------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 59886 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 24, 2013 07:31 AM
Moon conj the ASC( wide) but in the 1st house is someone who shows her heart. Saturn in the 12th is a feeling of being isolated from others. Has she had hard experiences with other people, as far as not fitting into groups etc?------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 59886 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 24, 2013 07:33 AM
She can be a strong assertive person( Sun conj Mars) This gives her body a good vitality, too!Her NN in the 11th makes me think that she truly values giving to people beyond herself. I wish her well( and you too, Friend)
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7045 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 24, 2013 08:33 AM
I'm so sorry!Been there before. Hang in. Your mother is in good hands. God Bless You. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1805 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 24, 2013 10:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Moon conj the ASC( wide) but in the 1st house is someone who shows her heart. Saturn in the 12th is a feeling of being isolated from others. Has she had hard experiences with other people, as far as not fitting into groups etc?
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Your mother is oriented to other people. She is an extrovert and will look to see what is going on with others, rather than being locked up inside herself. This would be the upper half planets
Hey Ami. You totally nailed this on *both* points. My Mother *used* to be an extrovert when she was younger. Gorgeous woman who got much attention, was carefree, gave EVERYONE the benefit of the doubt! She told me about how confident she was and how she was NEVER afraid to talk to anyone she wanted to. But that ^^ is not the woman I know. My Mother was diagnosed with Agoraphobia (and a couple other things) when I was 3 years-old. The person that *I* know has always been INTROVERTED and fearful of crowds. I sometimes have felt like the "parent" instead of the "child" because I was so protective of her my whole life! My Mother has MUCH Sagittarius in her chart and so that "side" would sometimes come out with us, her FAMILY. But not with strangers like in her younger days!! She gets her feelings hurt easily and she reacts badly to criticism. She's a very sweet lady with a kind spirit who *appears* to be harmless. However, my Mother has a flip side -- she can ARGUE you into your grave!! She won't stop once she gets going. The woman will come out SWINGING when pushed to a certain point. She has *tons* of staying power that many people would not expect from her. It's mind-blowing!! I can tell that my Mom has held many things inside of her to get to this point in her life. I want to help her *release* these things and get back to who she REALLY is! And WHEN she comes to...I must speak with her about it all. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 10402 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 24, 2013 10:06 AM
Hugging you~ So sorry you are all going through this. Your mother's moon is on the Sag-Cap cusp. Everyone I know born on that cusp has had a hard life..for example, my friend born then lost his firstborn son, his second son is blind and severely autistic. But there is always a very steely resilience to these people. I hope that transiting Pluto trine her sun gives her extra strength, and more than that, I'm sure all the loves and prayers she gets are helping! I hope you will keep us posted, if you're still comfortable talking about it. Keeping you all in my thoughts.
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1805 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 24, 2013 10:12 AM
Gimme a moment to reply to each of you individually. Duty calls! Thank you for your feedback, guys. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 59886 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 24, 2013 10:23 AM
LAWhere is the asteroid Dejanira and the Child asteroid. Also, Sedna and Kaali. Maybe, Hekate and Pandora, too lol ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1805 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 24, 2013 12:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by blueskiez06: hi lovely arieswhen i read about your and your moms hardships i thought of this http://www.ted.com/talks/jill_bolte_taylor_s_powerful_stroke_of_insight.html then I thought there must be something with the Aries sign, western chart doesn't particularly indicate Aries but Mars is configured it shows as follows, now I am not particularly nimble at medical astrology, but my 2 cents are that it is something about Mercury - your mom has a delicate nervous system, the planet that rules her health is Mercury and it is conjunct Sun and Mars(rules head) in Virgo that rules nerves anyway - i believe this is what is called a combust Mercury, which is not a good state of Mercury and having Mars there is probably not the best thing either but when I ran her vedic chart guess what Aries, which shows her head, rules also her 6th house which is health and we just had an eclipse along this aries/ libra axis in vedic astr so next 6 months will be pivotal and indicative of her recovery You have not written as to how long has this been the state of your mom if its the result of a stroke or some other trauma to the brain ... it looks like damage to the nerves really hope her improvement continues
Hey Blue! I'm at work so I'll view your video when I get home later. Interesting about my Mom's nervous system! Sounds accurate. She gets nervous & worries easiy - typical Virgo. LOL.
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1805 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 24, 2013 12:48 PM
@YoursTrulyAlways - I appreciate your kindness! So your Mom was ill also? @Faith - Thank you for the (((Hug))) gurl. I'll definitely keep you guys updated!
I'm indeed interested in the transits and seeing how this all plays out! I ultimately trust God, not astrology. But I think this all offers some insight, for sure. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7045 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 24, 2013 01:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: @YoursTrulyAlways - I appreciate your kindness! So your Mom was ill also?
She was ill for over 30 years. She had Alzheimer's and it started at around 38 years old. By 41 years old, she no longer knew her children or husband. She lived till she was past 70 years old, deteriorating slowly by the day.
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1805 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 24, 2013 02:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: She was ill for over 30 years. She had Alzheimer's and it started at around 38 years old. By 41 years old, she no longer knew her children or husband. She lived till she was past 70 years old, deteriorating slowly by the day.
Wow. I know that must've been tough. How old were you when this began? Did it comfort you to know that "at least" she was alive?
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7045 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 24, 2013 02:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: Wow. I know that must've been tough. How old were you when this began? Did it comfort you to know that "at least" she was alive?
14 years old, and that was the year I was sent away to school (half the world away). At least I knew my mother every year of my "childhood." When I left home, I left for good, never returning home to the house I grew up in. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 59886 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 24, 2013 03:32 PM
Man IanI didn;t know you went through that.I am sorry ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1805 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 24, 2013 03:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: LAWhere is the asteroid Dejanira and the Child asteroid. Also, Sedna and Kaali. Maybe, Hekate and Pandora, too lol
What the hell are ALL those Ami?? I'm lost! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 59886 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 26, 2013 04:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: What the hell are ALL those Ami?? I'm lost!
LOL Asteroids.
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1805 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 27, 2013 09:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: LOL Asteroids.
I'm very new to asteroids. So the ones you mentioned have to do with what? I'll have to do some research. LOL. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 59886 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 27, 2013 10:24 PM
I just felt she may have them, LA. ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1805 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 28, 2013 10:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I just felt she may have them, LA.
I'm just now checking out the Asteroids Forum on here. You didn't mention it Ami! Do you know a good site to find those particular asteroids in my Mom's chart?? I really am completely new to this. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1805 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 09:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Saturn in the 12th is a feeling of being isolated from others. Has she had hard experiences with other people, as far as not fitting into groups etc?
I just read the below description of Saturn in the 12th: "The twelfth house brings up uncomfortable images of chaos, insanity, sickness and the eventual loss of the self, and there are deep fears around letting go emotionally, representing an individual who feels they need to protect and defend themselves against the inner chaos of the 12th house. Therefore they may spend some of their time working in solitude and find themselves reviewing the past through a state of deep introspection." Reading that just now made me want to cry. For my Mom & all the internal struggles she held inside.
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