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Faith
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posted November 25, 2013 12:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ever felt like this with someone?

I thought this was a rare thing, but the older I get, the more I realize how many other people have had this kind of relationship before.


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somethingexcellent
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posted November 25, 2013 12:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh my god

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my sister-in-law told me that she realized how much she and my brother loved each other when they broke up

The "-in-law" part didn't register and I thought you had some...unconventional family dynamics going on for a split moment.

Any ways...hm...I've felt like that with the only two girls I've ever maybe come close to loving. Maybe I'm too young to say for sure if I was in love with them, but I did feel strongly for them, and when they were with others, I was fine with that.

Except maybe one's current boyfriend. I just in general don't like him and sort of secretly don't approve of him, but hey, if it's who she chooses, I mustn't disrespect!

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Kerosene
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posted November 25, 2013 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, because we had history and knew no one could ever truly replace me.
It's like asking a child to replace their birth mother.
I am everything.

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12muddy
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posted November 25, 2013 08:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm... I don't know, I kinda feel that way about one person who I've dated before. I had strong feelings for him, but it wasn't the kind of love I have for my s.o.

Our relationship/friendship now feels like a mix of affection and care, and memories of the romance that we shared. We don't regret that we're not together or get jealous. We're a part of each other's past, we left imprints on each other's life, yeah it's just like that. Difficult to explain.

My s.o said that it has developed from "romance" into a kind of "friendship".

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PixieJane
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posted November 25, 2013 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It doesn't sound peculiar to me.

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MetalAphrodite
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posted December 02, 2013 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a very beautiful friend when I was younger that I loved with all my heart. I was rather vain and selfish and broke up with this friend, who continued to love me despite myself.

He passed away in 2011. I feel like I try to be a better person because he loved me with all my faults.

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Swift Freeze
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posted December 03, 2013 03:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Swift Freeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
Ever felt like this with someone?

Yes.

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Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams.

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