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Topic: Would you?
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 4646
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 31, 2014 05:42 PM
  
Would you come back to someone who dumped you? Why yes? Why not?------------------
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 8491
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 31, 2014 06:06 PM
No. If someone dumps you and comes crawling back to you it means you are their second option after their first choice didn't work out. If they do it once they will do it again. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8900
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 31, 2014 07:46 PM
Depends
With legitimate love?
Probably.A lot of times it can be intense and you just really scared like you are losing yourself. Again depends on how and why?
I think when you're young and in love it's natural to want to explore other options because you've never been with anyone else.
Maybe it gives you perspective on what real love is like when you have been with other people.
At the end of the day they can **** whoever they want but you still have their heart.
Obviously since they came back since no one else can top you!
Again I'm pretty open minded, naturally I understand human lust and desire.
It's apart me too, I would be a hypocrite to expect others to be pure.
I'd rather appreciate they leave me to fulfill what ever desires they have rather than cheat on me.
If you're just sorta seeing someone and youre the second choice that's kinda sucky.
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DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 917
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 07:52 PM
No matter what (how it ends) I usually never associate with them again. There's been exceptions but certainly, definitely I never give 2nd chances. No real reason honestly. It's just how I'm "wired" I guess. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8900
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 31, 2014 08:11 PM
I always thought I was not very romantic because i'm so logical and unimpressed by sappy things.but I noticed happy endings are never romantic. 
It's always tragedies that really bring out the romance in people. As corny as it sounds absence makes the heart grow fonder?
I believe you can never get over true love, if you can than i'm sorry how basic your love was . Don't be offended because you are free! and freedom='s happiness. I've think I've grown more "poetic" appreciating tragedies.
I know I'll never experience a happy ending because of reasons but at least my life will be poetic and beautiful.. Maybe I'm one of those annoying people that don't want to experience happiness because it's too boring
I always did find marriage to be something I do not desire.
So really what if there left without a proper partnership? maybe stability is important but I don't want that lol. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 3800
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 31, 2014 08:21 PM
It depends. Details matter. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 3800
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 31, 2014 08:28 PM
Btw, a staple of a lot of romances is that a man dumps the woman (or even been refusing her the entire time...sorta) but then realizes at the end what a fool he is and rushes off to her (typically to save her from harm in the nick of time). And it's usually as absurd a scenerio as you'll find in porn. But they keep selling despite this, perhaps because it seems natural having been raised on it. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8900
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 31, 2014 08:38 PM
On the upside my creativity has been like off the charts since Ive been using my tears and replacement for turpentine.YASSSSS
expression trumps happiness
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Odette
Knowflake Posts: 3579
From:
Registered: May 2012
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posted February 01, 2014 03:28 AM
It completely depends on their reasons for breaking up, whether or not I was still romantically interested in them.. and whether or not I thought things could work out.There are soooooooooo many different reasons someone could dump someone else - e.g. they are moving overseas and don't believe in long distance relationships; they want to focus on their career and don't have time or energy for love; they fell in love with someone else; there are things about their SO they cannot deal with even though they care for their SO; they feel like their sex drive is out of sync with their partner's so they feel dissatisfied, their parents/fam don't like the SO; the SO is of a different religion/culture/race and they can't deal with the culture clash, they feel their SO is not supportive of their dreams/aspirations/career choice etc.... and the list goes on... IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 1415
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 01, 2014 07:03 AM
In rare cases, maybe, but often I don't like dealing with drama so yeah a person can't just pop in and out of my life whenever they feel like it (I don't mind friends doing this). I tend to think of it this way "It's spilled milk, would I want to put it into a cup n drink it? Probably not" lol.They'd have to have really really good reasons as to why they broke things off, why they suddenly wanted to be with me, and why they think it'd be a good thing for both of us to be together (again) -> too complicated lol. I'd just see them as a liability lol my life doesn't run on their time/whims. Whatever problem that divided us in the 1st place would have to be solved, otherwise it'd play again and again like an old movie - it'd be boring to see the same stuff happening again. IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 1415
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 01, 2014 07:21 AM
quote:
Originally posted by PixieJane:
Btw, a staple of a lot of romances is that a man dumps the woman (or even been refusing her the entire time...sorta) but then realizes at the end what a fool he is and rushes off to her (typically to save her from harm in the nick of time). And it's usually as absurd a scenerio as you'll find in porn. But they keep selling despite this, perhaps because it seems natural having been raised on it.
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 4646
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 01, 2014 04:27 PM
I should've specified. Someone who dumped you but it wasn't your fault.------------------
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PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 3800
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 01, 2014 05:32 PM
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I should've specified. Someone who dumped you but it wasn't your fault.
I don't think anyone here assumed it was their fault for being dumped.
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Ellynlvx
Moderator Posts: 5371
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 01, 2014 05:36 PM
I can't imagine anyone getting the chance to be that close to Cappy.If they did, they better treat her right. Or they'll have us to talk to. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 37591
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2014 10:35 PM
Nope. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 37591
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 19, 2014 12:51 PM
Nope was my answer to the question on the thread, I mean. Yes, to they better treat Cappy right.IP: Logged |
Sibyl
Knowflake Posts: 37
From:
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 19, 2014 09:28 PM
I don't believe I would. If I'm dating a guy he damn well better realize how lucky he is. If not, he's out. If he knew what he had he wouldn't have dumped you in the first place. I wouldn't revisit things, because how could you trust it when he has already shown you he doesn't appreciate you?IP: Logged |
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