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Topic: Mars...sex, astrology insight
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 9007
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 01:09 PM
  
Lol your both submissive?
So you don't ever want to hold your man down pull his hair.. and call him your little bish?
Have you ever tried it?
You can even dance and let him watch but not allow him to touch you until YOU allow him to or tell him exactly how to please you.
See you can be feminine and still be in control with out being a full on dominatrix..
Wear high heels and white lingerie if need be.
Idk it's fun to feel in control even if someone else is penetrating you, definitely Okay I hear a lot of my gay friends complaining about tops and bottoms and I'm like stop being so selfish and be versatile... you can take turns.
I feel like the same concept can be applied. Heres a tip try being a power bottom and main control over you man sometimes.
since you are the one asking for help you should try being a little bit more dominant and make things work.
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eyes_like_pisces
Knowflake Posts: 335
From: mpls, mn, usa
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 25, 2014 01:25 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Lol your both submissive?
So you don't ever want to hold your man down pull his hair.. and call him your little bish?
Have you ever tried it?
You can be feminine and still be in control with out being a full on dominatrix..
Wear high heels and white lingerie if need be.
Idk it's fun to feel in control even if someone else is penetrating you, definitely Okay I hear a lot of my gay friends complaining about tops and bottoms and I'm like stop being so selfish and be versatile... you can take turns. Heres a tip try being a power bottom and main control over you man sometimes since you are the one asking for help you should try and make things work.
I do enjoy taking control sometimes. In certain ways at least. There was a time were I wouldnt let him touch n e, and basically pleasured him in all the ways possible for a good two hours or so. I'll spear all the details but I was proud of myself for doing so. However from his vantage point he didn't seem any more pleased than usual so ultimately it was kinda disappointing...but still fun! What do you mean being a power bottom? I tried doing anew thing with my legs recently...he then moved them back, said he liked it but gets to exhausted that way. Im sure it sounds like im being stubborn, honestly not trying to. And its not like things are terrible between us. I think it just needs work, and communication. Im not sure how to get us openly talking where is easy and not like were watching stepping on each other's toes/feelings. I think we shy away to fast..or I do. I'd like to know if there's a way to get him to open up more. IP: Logged |
redshift
Knowflake Posts: 270
From:
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 02:20 PM
Scorpion sun, Mars in Aries here. Orgasms to me, are going to happen each time I have sex, whether it's from oral or manual stimulation. It's my expectation and I make it happen with my mind my body and my partner. I don't care if he does it or I do it but orgasms are awesome and I go in looking forward to it and have been having them, nearly without fail for 22 years of sex activity. I think one of the saddest things in the world is the low expectation women have about achieving Orgasms. We were built to have them, we have an organ that has no other purpose than to deliver Orgasms: the clitoris, so let's use that powerhouse of pleasure! You seem to have a sort of low key opinion about whether you have them or not and want him to relax and loosen up,but I suggest getting more excited about your own pleasure instead of accepting that you won't orgasm. Sounds like he doesn't want extra attention making him get off, he wants you to get off. If you aren't coming from masturbation, something is wrong or you aren't doing it right. Your clitoris is what gives you Orgasms, even during penatrative sex. So if you can come through penetrative sex sometimes, notice what kind of clitoral stimulation you are getting when that happens and recreate it yourself. No fantasies? How is that even possible? Watch some porn and explore your mind and tastes a bit. Look for female-geared porn. It's not all terrible. There is some hot stuff that doesn't make women out to be disrespected, like a lot of mainstream porn. If stimulating your clitoris doesn't give you mind blowing awesome Orgasms, you really should consider that you may be mentally blocked, not experimenting enough with techniques or have an actual physical problem...if you take antidepressants for example, this can effect your ability to orgasm, as can blood circulation difficulties or nerve damage. learn to get excited about working your own body and then share that with your dude and he will get massively happy. PS: make sure he doesn't do flicka flicka pointy tounged oral like they show in porn. That's just so the camera can see. He should have full mouth contact and a soft but controlled tongue. Get him to Google the "vice guide to cunnilingus". Just reading that turns me on its such a good explanation of how to do it. Also, I don't think Venus is really an issue with sex. It describes how you receive love but I don't think it's sexual. I think it's mainly your mars and sun that come into play. Hope that helps. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 3627
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 25, 2014 02:59 PM
There is a lot of good Astro information here but the subject is adult.moving to Sweet Peas ------------------
"For all those who believe, expect a miracle.”
Linda Goodman 1925-1995 IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 37852
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 25, 2014 04:23 PM
Keep this thread tasteful. It is borderline at being closed.IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 37852
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 25, 2014 04:26 PM
If it's Astrology, it's clearly okay. If it's relationship advice, it's okay. If it's specific sexual instruction, LL is not the venue.IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 3833
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 25, 2014 09:18 PM
I've found the placements usually accurate, especially if no other placements detracted from it. In my case both my Mars & Eros is in a Sag stellium so the effects are especially solid for me. Off hand I can't recall anyone I was with for a significant amount of time in a serious way who had a Venus or Mars in Earth placements so I can't comment there. But my Sag humor will recommend looking up a vid, "Realistic Hollywood Sex-Scene" by CollegeHumor...it's the classic sex scene with a lot of little things they always ignore and makes a lot of people laugh when they see it on CH. IP: Logged |
eyes_like_pisces
Knowflake Posts: 335
From: mpls, mn, usa
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 25, 2014 10:03 PM
Thank you redshift for the advice and encouragement!!  I know its usually associated with Mars but I feel like Venus does have a least some say. Since she's all about how we give and recieve love as well as our personal styles (among many other things). Sex is one of the ways we can express love. Idk maybe if venus doesn't aspect your natal mars thats not the case? i feel like mine plays a huge role though. I relate to it a bit more than cap mars. IP: Logged |
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