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Topic: What Makes Someone Really Sadistic?
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted March 22, 2014 02:42 PM
  
There is one person I interact with( superficial basis) who is really sadistic. His joy is the pleasure of hurting people. Do you know people like this? What do you think? ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted March 22, 2014 02:44 PM
Not to answer my own question but my mother is sadistic. It is a kind of feeding of the pain of another person like a deep blood lust thing. What do you think?------------------
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Sibyl
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From: Uranus
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 22, 2014 10:13 PM
I actually attract guys who enjoy the opposite, which means some people (strangers, not people who know me) assume I'm a sadist. I often protect myself by being quite blunt, and I reject allot of guys. Sometimes it really turns them on. It's such a nuisance. So I meet these people occasionally without even trying. I have literally been asked by guys I don't even know to be their dominatrix. Like... 10 minutes into a conversation. I'm not into it AT ALL, but my problem is that the kind of rejection I dish out is sometimes taken as encouragement. I'm not very patient with people, so I can be quite harsh, type "talk to the hand/get out of my space". My blunt behavior means that I sometimes attract people who want me to walk all over them. I don't enjoy that. I think allot of sadistic people have probably been subjected to the same in their informative years and so develop a sick fascination with it. It's the age old dynamic of the abused becoming the abuser. Because abuse is the only thing they know, they seek their own self-reassurance the only way they know how... Through humiliating and punishing others the way they themselves were victimized previously (be that psychologically or physically). IP: Logged |
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From: The Strand
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posted March 22, 2014 10:16 PM
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted March 22, 2014 10:39 PM
Thank you, Friends.------------------
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Odette
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posted March 22, 2014 11:29 PM
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have literally been asked by guys I don't even know to be their dominatrix.
I've had this happen :\ I can't remember - Do you have Aries in your chart?
Ami - Astrologically.. personal planets square or opposite Pluto can lead to sadistic behaviour, from what I've seen.. mainly Mars/Pluto.
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rajji
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posted March 23, 2014 01:37 AM
Sadism arises out of a mere frustration of not getting things done the way they want it to be.
Their desire and will surpasses a greater will and they are bound to feel dejected and lost and instead of letting themselves drown in their own sadness they take pleasure in diverting it onto others by inflicting pain. IP: Logged |
Violets
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From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted March 23, 2014 01:46 AM
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Originally posted by Sibyl:
I think allot of sadistic people have probably been subjected to the same in their informative years and so develop a sick fascination with it. It's the age old dynamic of the abused becoming the abuser. Because abuse is the only thing they know, they seek their own self-reassurance the only way they know how... Through humiliating and punishing others the way they themselves were victimized previously (be that psychologically or physically).
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 23, 2014 08:21 AM
Raajji
You asked if anyone was a Born Again Christian. I am.------------------
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Sibyl
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From: Uranus
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 23, 2014 08:11 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
I can't remember - Do you have Aries in your chart?Ami - Astrologically.. personal planets square or opposite Pluto can lead to sadistic behaviour, from what I've seen.. mainly Mars/Pluto.
No aries. But I'm a leo asc. I do have sun and ascendant square pluto and venus sextile pluto though. Lol. Thank god I don't have the mars aspect as well. That would probably doom me!  Do you have any of these aspects Odette? IP: Logged |
elixir
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From: United States
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 24, 2014 07:53 AM
These people don't really know how to be alone with themselves for too long. This is a way to feed their pain body. That's how I feel. I think kids who bully a lot are like this. IP: Logged |
rajji
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posted March 24, 2014 09:34 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Raajji
You asked if anyone was a Born Again Christian. I am.
I adore you for everything that you are Ami!Always!
I wonder how you sailed through tough times
with your born again agenda?especially considering the fact that there is hardly a soul here to help you keep up your spirits.. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted March 24, 2014 10:03 AM
I am so touched Rajii. Your words truly made my day  There are some wonderful people here like Randall, Lalalinda and IQ, who have given me so much encouragement that I was able to climb out of a dark hole. I will always be loyal to them, as long as they want me! ------------------
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From: The Strand
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 24, 2014 10:59 PM
Ami - My questions to you are:
1. Do you have siblings,
2. How did your mum treat them;
3. Did you fight back from your mum's treatment. I deleted my original post because I've rethought what I said and think I was a bit off track. There would be some overlap between psychopathy and Sadism but they are also have mutually exclusive elements too - psychopathy: lack of empathy versus sadism: almost an extreme empathy and confusing pleasure with pain. I think what Sybil said was right, abuse creates it and it confuses the victim about pain and pleasure and associating pain with pleasure; so they seek out a victim to abuse as they know what it feels like and gains pleasure from pain. I think the best victims are the ones that fight back as it is a challenge and pleasure to override their wills - no satisfaction like from hard work and conquest. IP: Logged |
rajji
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posted March 24, 2014 11:54 PM
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Originally posted by 23:
Ami - My questions to you are:
1. Do you have siblings,
2. How did your mum treat them;
3. Did you fight back from your mum's treatment.
And add to that one more question please,
4.If given a chance,would you forget but not forgive her or rather forgive but cant seem to forget her inflictions at all?if so how would you compensate for all the trauma incurred? IP: Logged |
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