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Topic: Barbiegirl19/I don't want to lose any of Team Libra!
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 04, 2014 09:20 PM
  
I know you are upset now but take a little while to think about things and realize at the end of the day, it's just opinions and that's all.
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53668
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 04, 2014 09:22 PM
Randall told me again and again that it is just words on the page and it really is, but one has to seem to really struggle and struggle to get to this point.I think you make wonderful contributions to LL, Barbie, and you should not leave. That is my opinion. ------------------
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Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 3557
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 09:30 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I know you are upset now but take a little while to think about things and realize at the end of the day, it's just opinions and that's all.
Thank you so much SSS I really appreciate you and your words very much. But it's time for me to go. I'm over this website. I'm getting married for goodness sakes, the last thing I need is to be stressing over this  I truly apologize to anyone that I've offended or hurt by my words. At the end of the day I am who I am.  IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 714
From: The Strand
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 04, 2014 09:34 PM
Best of luck Barbie, I wish you and DF all the best for the future.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 1504
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 09:37 PM
I'll just say this...
I'll support her.
Be it stay or go... I'm not here to persuade. <3I do agree with her. I think both of us really get a bad reputation and misunderstood. I'm not here to debate or argue. I'll simply say this.
Two on LL known as instigators and abrasive, argumentative people...
Love each other and really we genuinely do not have issues at home. We always look forward to our weekends together. I think that says a lot of our character. The way it's made out to be we should be killing each other.  I definitely can't blame her... I understand completely. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 8228
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 04, 2014 09:54 PM
Well, Barbie, I understand if you need a break from LL. I just want to be sure you know I don't wish you to go and that I never had any bad feelings about you personally, or Deepfreeze either.
I am glad you got to meet Deepfreeze through the website.IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
Moderator Posts: 1347
From: The Beach
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 04, 2014 10:34 PM
I don't think badly on anyone either. People can get heated in discussions that they care about. It's all a learning process. Most of the time it's not truly personal. Have a nice glass of wine like I did And then come back. IP: Logged |
ReachingForTheStars
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted April 05, 2014 12:04 AM
Nooooo, Barbiegirl19 - don't leave. We just met = )Seriously though, idk what happened, and I wish you well with your endeavors should you indeed choose to leave. No matter where you go and who you meet, disagreements, misunderstandings, and accusations will be made. It's an ugly truth, but don't let it discourage you. This is where you met your future husband!!! Think of all the other awesome people you may encounter in the future (I'm pretty awesome!!! Just kidding = ) ). Sad to hear you wanna leave = ( IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 9861
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 05, 2014 02:16 AM
Oh this is about me..
yeah honestly I don't think ill of you either... I don't really think of you when I'm not on here actually...Though I may not like what you have to say and to be honest you're as rude as I am lol.
Anyways people have petty fights with each other on this site that is the nature of LL. But I don't blame you if you need a break.
You and zaddy can go and go and do normal couple stuff like not spend time on forums but it does make sense because you met on here or whatever but do couples continue to hang around okcupid or Eharmony? I'm just kidding...
actually I kid for the most part  I'm not going to apologize because you're as obnoxious as I am..
but maybe just more sensitive which is the result of this whole drama. IP: Logged |
rajji
Knowflake Posts: 1349
From:
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted April 05, 2014 02:19 AM
Barbiegirl19-Words are just that-WORDS.
Dont take it to your heart.
There are many here who value your opinion.
Do Come back to pursue your dreams. “But instead of spending our lives running towards our dreams, we are often running away from a fear of failure or a fear of criticism.”
― Eric Wright IP: Logged |
Violets
Moderator Posts: 3046
From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 05, 2014 10:39 AM
Barbie, I know I already said as much, but I want to make sure that I say it again.I care very much about you and your well-being, and I feel closer to you since we both shared something personal with each other here.
I can't tell you how much I appreciate that, honestly. I feel like I want to joke around and say something stupid like "There's no 'I' in 'Team'", but you're probably not in the mood for that, so... I don't want you to see you go, but I understand that sometimes people have to take a break. Anyway, I hope you're feeling better today. Just know that there are a lot of us who will miss you if you go. IP: Logged |
Violets
Moderator Posts: 3046
From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 05, 2014 10:50 AM
And DeepFreeze, thank you for your kind words in the other thread. I appreciate that a lot.I know that you both have good hearts as well, and I really enjoy our interactions here. We always seem to come to an eventual compromise or level of acceptance even when we disagree, which is something that I really value in both of you.
I know that we can all three laugh at ourselves, which is always better than not being able to. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 1504
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 05, 2014 10:52 AM
Well I won't say much.
Emotionally, she's great. She's her normal, cheery, fun, bubbly self. She was last night also. I'd say it's her Libra feeling an imbalance here, an unfairness which leads to refusing to accept it or to be part of something in which she feels that it takes place. She's strong! Its not so much running away as it is just refusing to put up with the kind of garbage that goes on here sometimes.
I can't say that I blame her. IP: Logged |
Violets
Moderator Posts: 3046
From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 05, 2014 11:55 AM
We all gotta do what we feel is best for us. IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
Knowflake Posts: 1635
From: past, present, and future
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 05, 2014 12:23 PM
Just take a break and come back when you guys feel better, LL goes in waves I noticed. Sometimes I have to take a break too once in awhile.Its nice having a Leo and Libra couple on the board, reminds me of my Hubby an I IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 714
From: The Strand
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2014 09:30 PM
I hope you are feeling better Barbie.IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 3944
From:
Registered: May 2012
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posted April 05, 2014 09:46 PM
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you're as obnoxious as I am..
I don't find anyone here obnoxious atm
You should all stay!  IP: Logged |
Padre35
Knowflake Posts: 3342
From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 05, 2014 11:16 PM
With Family, the deal is one can leave, or stay, depending on what is best for you. Family always welcomes back Family IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 1504
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 06, 2014 01:43 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Padre35:
With Family, the deal is one can leave, or stay, depending on what is best for you. Family always welcomes back Family
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53668
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 06, 2014 07:01 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Padre35:
With Family, the deal is one can leave, or stay, depending on what is best for you. Family always welcomes back Family
Well said, Bro.  ------------------
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53668
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 06, 2014 04:36 PM
To me, our LL community is the best it has been in my entire six years here. There is a really loving vibe ------------------
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DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 1504
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 06, 2014 06:38 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
To me, our LL community is the best it has been in my entire six years here. There is a really loving vibe
I think you're right BUT...
One of the most upsetting things is it seems that when a strong confrontation occurs there are some who have NO PROBLEM using anything personal that you've shared in the past against you.
You also know this first hand Ami.
(age/relationship/synastry/your signs/religion/beliefs)
Neither of us appreciate people using our relationship to attack us as has happened over the last month or two from a couple of people OR something from our individual pasts in an apparent attempt to sabotage our relationship. Neither caused issue with her and I. We're much much tighter than people think.
But it's ridiculous, low, uncalled for and yet we catch crap because our opinion is unpopular. Since when is it totally unacceptable to have an opinion that doesn't fit the majority and to be able to express it? I know I know... It's how we do it. BS
Not to imply we are innocent but I think we've caught more crap than we've thrown)
So, no matter if she comes back or not, some things will change with both of us when it comes to LL.
(I don't want to name names - I'll be nice)
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DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 1504
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 06, 2014 06:57 PM
I'm not trying to start anything or be aggressive if it comes off that way. The very low blow personal attacks DO occur, I could prove it. More in our direction or more severe. Clearly these individuals are going for blood because we've frustrated them. For that reason we WILL change (her if she comes back).
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Padre35
Knowflake Posts: 3342
From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 06, 2014 07:42 PM
quote:
Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I think you're right BUT...
One of the most upsetting things is it seems that when a strong confrontation occurs there are some who have NO PROBLEM using anything personal that you've shared in the past against you.
You also know this first hand Ami.
(age/relationship/synastry/your signs/religion/beliefs)
Neither of us appreciate people using our relationship to attack us as has happened over the last month or two from a couple of people OR something from our individual pasts in an apparent attempt to sabotage our relationship. Neither caused issue with her and I. We're much much tighter than people think.
But it's ridiculous, low, uncalled for and yet we catch crap because our opinion is unpopular. Since when is it totally unacceptable to have an opinion that doesn't fit the majority and to be able to express it? I know I know... It's how we do it. BS
Not to imply we are innocent but I think we've caught more crap than we've thrown)
So, no matter if she comes back or not, some things will change with both of us when it comes to LL.
(I don't want to name names - I'll be nice)
One can judge the quality of the person via what they say when they are not happy w/you There are a lot of sharks and snakes in the world, perhaps b/c no one calls them out for it, perhaps not, however now one knows where they come from IE, now you know their basis to quote Kanye West IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 8228
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 06, 2014 08:33 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I'm not trying to start anything or be aggressive if it comes off that way. The very low blow personal attacks DO occur, I could prove it. More in our direction or more severe. Clearly these individuals are going for blood because we've frustrated them. For that reason we WILL change (her if she comes back).
I hope I didn't come off as being too aggressive. I just think, sometimes, there's an overreaction to certain things and I struggle to understand why. Things that are harmless and no big deal. Just little trivialities that mean nothing is how I see them. People are all a flutter of them like they are the worst things that could possibly exist. It kinda reminds me sky is falling sky is falling and I get enough of that around here. It's like, no, the sky's not falling. Calm down. That's the Libran in me. I like calm. I like rational.
Anyway, it's more the situation than the people involved in it. So I am wondering about your last line. Is Barbie going to change her account so no one will know it's her? IP: Logged |
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