posted May 05, 2014 02:19 AM            

The negatives and positives are about the same.

With boys it's more about your appearance. How good you look and I will admit not sometimes not feeling attractive enough.which is not how I feel around women. Which is why gay men stereotypically depicted as being fitness obsessed. Also other things like feeling objectified.

With girls little things like that are not important it's your personality that goes a long way but there are a lot if social expectations guys are a lot more laid back as long as you look good it does not matter if your family oriented etc

I will Hipster Aries or Aqua girls just blow all the other girls out if the water. They are laid back and fun, a lot less expectations.

Speaking of water, water dominant men sensitivity and depth is attractive.

posted May 05, 2014 03:46 AM            

And while I'm at it, cover the cam on your computer, they're easily used to spy on you. Heck, one virus (ransomware) will actually hijack it to take your pick and show it to you claiming to be the FBI and you will wire money to the following account if you don't want to be arrested (and amazing how often these absurd scams seem to work). I really have no idea why anyone thought it would be a good idea to include a cam on the computer itself as it just BEGS to be used without your consent, and more than one female has been blackmailed over pix taking of her with her own computer that she never intended. Like by this guy:
http://www.nbcnews.com/news/investigations/man-who-sextorted-miss-teen- usa-gets-18-months-prison-n54876

And some hackers are so pathetic they'll yell at babies by hijacking baby monitors:
http://www.nbcnews.com/tech/security/man-hacks-monitor-screams-baby-girl-n91546

'Course the really fun stuff is how automated cars and even home security systems are getting, where you can control them from your phone. Hackers find it all too easy to take control of that, like with cars:
http://blogs.scientificamerican.com/observations/2 011/08/19/hacked-in-60-seconds-thieves-could-steal-cars-via-text-messages/

posted May 05, 2014 07:24 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I think girls can be just as visual as guys. Not meaning to brag but it has been my experience that some women can be very sexually aggressive if they think a guy is hot. I have had women send me nude photos (without me even asking) and beg me to send them pics of "The D". I'm not into that though and I would never send those types of pics. The whole thing freaks me out.

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I am so not visual. Maybe, it is the Venus in Gemini which is all about the mind.

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posted May 05, 2014 01:00 PM            

Speaking as a woman that dated a lot - I can convey what many women face, IN GENERAL, in the dating scene.

If you have sex with someone too quickly you are a sl_t. If you wait too long to have sex you are a prude.

If you are over 30 or 35 years old you are past your expiration date. Men your age and older want to date the 20 year olds anyway.

If you are 1 pound or more overweight you are a fattie and better stop eating. Oh but if you only have a salad on a date most guys find that annoying because they like girls that can EAT. If you are not skinny you are basically a pointless human being and no guy will ever love you unless he is desperate and can't snag someone skinnier than you are. Men that date overweight women are always looking for something skinnier / better because right now they are just settling.

Your measurements should be a perfect hourglass. OR you should have tiny hips, tiny waist and huge breasts which biologically is extremely rare which is why implants are so popular.

Shave your pits, shave your legs, shave your bikini... sometimes more than your bikini. Sometimes maybe you should shave it all to look like a child. If you don't, you are either a hippie or a feminist and both those things are bad.

If you don't wear makeup you're a hippie. If you wear too much you're a high maintenance or a hooker.

If you are nice you'll be walked all over. If you stand up for yourself you're a _itch.

If you're a feminist and want equal pay for equal work you are probably a lesbian and hate men.

If you have many sexual partners or if you already have a child you are 'used up' or damaged goods.

If you make too much money, have a high IQ or are too highly educated you are intimidating.

You should split the bill on a date with a guy. You should let him pay the entire bill because it'll challenge his manliness to do otherwise.

I'm not saying any of the above is actually TRUE but it's what is often portrayed in the media and by a lot of men (the immature single ones) that way. It's a mad mad mad world out there. It can be difficult to keep your head on straight and not let it get to you. I'm SO GLAD I am past the dating world.

ETA: Don't even get me started on the pic thing. I've had guys send me "D" pics and I've laughed them out of the house. I'd never ask for that and I'd certainly never send one of myself to someone. It's ridiculous.

posted May 05, 2014 02:22 PM            

This is why I support like with like versus opposites attract. But I am a narcissist, so naturally I like and appreciate people who mirror my qualities.

posted May 05, 2014 02:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
But I just wish people would just understand there is a wide variety of people out there and the chances are quite HIGH of finding someone to love you just the way you are. I mean, even serial killers have fans. You just have to find your niche and not blame the rest of the world for not being it. It bothers me that everyone takes rejection so damn personally. It does not invalidate you as a sexual being, it simply means you are not the right one for that person. Plenty of other people will find you attractive.

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So well said <3

posted May 05, 2014 02:41 PM            

I have an almost Unaspected Moon with a 9 degree conj to Mars and a 7-8 degree trine with Venus.

The asteroid Nemesis is conjunct my Moon. It takes me a very long time to trust a women.

This shows betrayal by the mother.

When I do have female friends, it seems like it is a Scorpio women because they seem to value loyalty like I do.

I think people have these kind of biases and the chart will show them.

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posted May 05, 2014 02:44 PM            

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I mean, even serial killers have fans.

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You gave me hope, thank you *weeps*

posted May 05, 2014 02:45 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
You gave me hope, thank you *weeps*

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posted May 05, 2014 02:52 PM            

Geez Louise. He does not have misogyny. He has issues with his sense of being a man and how that works in the world of women.

When people throw around labels, they should throw them around when they fit.

It is an awful thing to be labeled. I am sure you wouldn't like it, as none of us would.

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posted May 05, 2014 03:33 PM            

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Still no excuse for the misogyny though

Geez Louise. He does not have misogyny. He has issues with his sense of being a man and how that works in the world of women.

When people throw around labels, they should throw them around when they fit.

It is an awful thing to be labeled. I am sure you wouldn't like it, as none of us would.

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World of women? Mmmk.
You're coddling him, his sense of being a Man has nothing to do with women.

And isn't there a saying about when you point one finger you have 3 pointing right back? Weren't you just commenting to Faith about her "bigotry"? Isn't that labeling? In my opinion, that label didn't fit her either, but I guess that doesn't apply to you or am I wrong???

Also, people are going to label and mislabel you all the time. It's life. I get it more than you'd imagine based off of things that I can't even change such as the color of my skin. But can I give you a little tip? If the shoe doesn't fit then why care?

posted May 05, 2014 03:52 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I've never heard of a single woman beg for a pic of "the D," not even the ones obsessed with sex and hot looks (not that I doubt you).

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I totally doubt him. Has anyone reading this ever heard of another woman acting like that?

I've never heard of it.

posted May 05, 2014 03:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
I totally doubt him. Has ANYONE reading this ever heard of another woman acting like that, EVER?

Never heard of it.

Guys, we don't want to see your sexed-up selfies

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