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KarkaQueen
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posted June 07, 2014 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I spend a lot of time in The Personal Reading sections, constantly doing exchanges amd asking about similar questions. Why does it feel so indulgent? Im even ashamed of myself. Could it be my aura becoming unclean after so many exchanges?

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Odette
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posted June 07, 2014 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Karka - If you're having fun and you enjoy doing this.. there is nothing disgusting about it.

Society often looks down on esoteric pursuits, like astrology... The more pragmatic 'scientifically-inclined' people of the world might tell you - you are wasting your time.
This is a very closed-minded POV though.
I mean you are helping people who need advice in 'Personal readings' - and astrological advice is very useful in interpersonal relationships, even more useful than psychological advice (imo).

Why would you feel your aura is becoming unclean for this reason? We're all interacting all the time. You can't live in a bubble. Don't beat yourself up so much
You could try an aura cleansing exercise...

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KarkaQueen
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posted June 07, 2014 09:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Odette. My Venus/Jupiter midpoint is very active and i have natal Jup sq Venus. im indulgent in a lot of things[
I also fear ppl here are judging me

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DeepFreeze
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posted June 07, 2014 10:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't worry about it.
Follow your heart/gut.

You're doing exchanges so it's not as if you are all take and no give.

Besides, there are many angles to look at things. I came to astrology, LL, to learn about myself... Some self-discovery. I did lean a lot about astrology and about the energies at play in my chart. I gained self-awareness.
Long story short, I was able to become a better person (online doesn't count )
In the end, it's better for everyone around me too.

I think too much....
Just keep doing what you're doing. There's a reason you feel pulled that way.

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BellaFenice
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posted June 07, 2014 10:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Thank you Odette. My Venus/Jupiter midpoint is very active and i have natal Jup sq Venus. im indulgent in a lot of things[
I also fear ppl here are judging me

Girrllll, my last post discussed my love of Lucky Charms. I am no way in hell allowed to judge you. I mean if you think you are being judged, god knows what people are thinking of me.

Besides, what you are doing is not only helpful for others, but enlightening since you are learning more about yourself.

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Lexxigramer
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posted June 07, 2014 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
I spend a lot of time in The Personal Reading sections, constantly doing exchanges amd asking about similar questions. Why does it feel so indulgent? Im even ashamed of myself. Could it be my aura becoming unclean after so many exchanges?
Enjoy! You are allowed to do that!

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Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2014 10:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For a year or so, I was in PR hours a day. Doing someone's chart is really giving love and attention to a person and we all need that. I was very appreciated and it felt wonderful to me, too.
It is a blessing all around for the person who does the charts and the one for whom the chart is done. What could be wrong in that

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Randall
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posted June 09, 2014 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Helping others is never self-indulgent.

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Doux Rêve
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posted June 09, 2014 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Self-indulgent is when you eat all the cookies in the cookie jar by yourself.

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Ami Anne
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posted June 09, 2014 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Self-indulgent is when you eat all the cookies in the cookie jar by yourself.

and hide them from others

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I'm so cappy
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posted June 10, 2014 05:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you feel you're getting addicted to the tarot, then it's time to take a break. Otherwise, enjoy yourself

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Randall
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posted June 11, 2014 11:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ami Anne
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posted June 12, 2014 07:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Karka

I was just talking about this with my father, yesterday. I got so much love back from doing charts. I am in many Astrology study groups. I can't do everyone's chart but for some people, it will hit me do their chart. It is really a wonderful, heart warming exchange between people and it teaches me more about the nature of love. If you can give love, you can always have a life filled with love.

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Randall
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posted June 14, 2014 05:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What Ami said.

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