posted December 15, 2014 07:50 PM            

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posted December 15, 2014 08:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
I'm finding it to be really hard to find a girl that wants me me not my money or body i want her to want my soul and maybe my mind.

am i being unrealistic perfectionist with my expectations and requirements (perhaps its my venus in pisces)?

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Depends. Are you financially stable and have your own residence and transportation (bike can count in the right communities or subculture)? Or are you homeless, living in your mom's basement, etc? If the former then you're realistic enough, the latter OTOH means you're doing about as best as you can and be glad women at least find you hot (with luck you can find a rich wife somewhere to put you up, though when they pay the bills they'll apply rules, the more ruthless will even hire someone else to beat you if you don't follow them), assuming you're not one of those guys with a pot belly who expects a good model and wonder why women don't appreciate you for your mind when even you care about looks the same way (which a surprising number of guys do).

Alternately, if you're incredibly wealthy then it's still realistic but you'll have to do the work as those who want you for your money are going to come for you...though people of the same class tend to live in the same areas and go to the same places which means it still shouldn't be that much of an issue (assuming you haven't taken a vow of poverty) as long as you hang with your own economic peers (at least no more than anyone else who wants to be appreciated for a unique individual rather than living up to society's expectations). To do the work then get involved at places that match your "soul" and mind to find kindred spirits (new friends and perhaps more), though obviously you shouldn't do that JUST to pick someone up as otherwise they'll be making similar complaints about you.

Of course we live in a society where women are raised on the fantasy of being taken care of by a man financially, to find that "prince" to take her to his castle. That (and the unrealistic fantasies many men get raised with) makes it harder for both men and women to end up happy. That doesn't mean everyone buys into it but a great many do at a subconscious level at least.

posted December 15, 2014 09:00 PM            

For example, I went to a party and really liked this Cancer man as someone who could be a friend.

I just felt comfortable. We had the same sense of humor.

With women, it is, literally, painful for me to trust them.

I have to really, really force myself to be friends with women.

I never really relax, either.

My last close female friend was in college.

I have Sun trines to Neptune and Sun sextiles to pluto.

My Sun has amazing asteroids conjunct it.

My Moon has Nemesis conj it.

It is almost Unaspected. It makes a beautiful trine to Saturn which gives me the emotional stability I have, which does not seem much, often

However, my point in all this is that the chart is our lens imo

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posted December 15, 2014 09:58 PM            

or maybe the problem is with the girls in third world countries so i need to be extra careful when dealing with them

posted December 15, 2014 10:13 PM              

Some, not all, women are this way unfortunately. They're just materialistic and want the best of the best. I've known several women who have married men for the stability that the man could offer them. How could any person do that to another? How can you just marry a person for the hell of it? It's people like that who ruin the sacredness/meaning of marriage.

If taking your time and really feeling women out is what you have to do, do it. There are soooo many snakes out there, you have to be guarded. Don't settle, do what makes you happy and feel the most comfortable. I'm a soul level love type of person too, and that above all else is the most important to me.

posted December 15, 2014 11:05 PM            

I feel before you can even begin to find the right girl, you have to know what kind of a girl you really want?

Also with Venus is Pisces you may be in danger of attracting those who would very much covet your energy/soul connection but perhaps not in a way you would prefer.

But maybe you should simply date a few of these women who seem to only want you for your money and find out via some experience if it has any benefits that you actually like. As others have said, most people choose relationships based on the values of their society and social acceptability.

If what you want is to meet a true soul mate, then you have only one option... Explore your own sense of spirituality and self awareness which will cause the tethers that bond us all to our many loves across time to be pulled inexorably towards you... Be careful though, soul-fishing can be a dangerous pursuit [Wink]

I've hooked some Leviathans in my time, Sirens too... But that elusive Mermaid hrmm...

Gotta be worth the effort right?

posted December 15, 2014 11:08 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
The most important thing to remember is women are alot like raccoons! They like shiny objects and they look all cute and innocent but they can be really mean.

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LOL

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posted December 16, 2014 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
The most important thing to remember is women are alot like raccoons! They like shiny objects and they look all cute and innocent but they can be really mean.

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posted December 17, 2014 04:50 PM            

I think if I were in your position I would buy a junky car and live a fake, modest life.

posted December 18, 2014 01:46 PM            

And there are worse secrets to keep from people. I doubt anyone would feel betrayed, if, after forming a solid relationship with that person, you say: "There's something you should know: I'm rich."

Good luck with everything ~

posted December 18, 2014 02:44 PM              

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Originally posted by Faith:
Actually I shouldn't have said "fake." One can live below their means without it being artificial. Some people LIKE humble cars.

And there are worse secrets to keep from people. I doubt anyone would feel betrayed, if, after forming a solid relationship with that person, you say: "There's something you should know: I'm rich."

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C'est vrai! Leo DeCaprio actually owns and drives a Prius, as well as a Tesla and other environmentally-friendly vehicles.

Yes, definitely worse secrets LMAO!

posted December 18, 2014 03:11 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Maybe this is a dumb question but have you ever considered that a woman could like you for your body,money,and personality? As a guy I have noticed that lots of women are quick to assume that a guy only wants them for sex if he expresses his sexual attraction for her. Which is silly because a guy can want to sleep with a girl and like her as a person at the same time. I'm not sure why it's assumed those two things are mutually exclusive. It's silly to jump to conclusions like that and you shouldn't automatically assume a woman only wants you for your money.

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posted December 18, 2014 03:37 PM            

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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
Aquaguy-- Im impressed!

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posted December 18, 2014 03:57 PM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
Unless it turned out to be drug money, oops...

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Or money from a lawsuit where you tripped "by accident" in a restaurant and hurt your back.

posted December 18, 2014 03:58 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Why?

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It gave women some credit.

posted January 12, 2015 04:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Aww I wish you best of luck in finding your perfect bond, AE! You deserve to be happy!

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