posted April 23, 2015 09:01 AM            

I received a very unpleasant email from a member here fom LL, but I won't tell the name, telling bad things about me and my energy. Telling me things about how I made the family of this person sick. I tried to explain that it is impossible that it was me, I have my own troubles to deal, I don't have time and will to hurt people. But this person is crazy enough to try to make me down. I said to this person: my grandma died, should I blame someone because of this? I don't think so... I believe that you attract the energies in your life when you vibe them... I vibe love and comprehension, love and light.

In LL, I don't want to be the number one... I just want to help people while I'm ok. I had been with serious troubles at home, and I needed to be away from here in a while, but I returned.

posted April 23, 2015 09:16 AM            

Either, you LEARN to deal with the evil part of people( and oneself, too) or you will have to hide under the bed.

This is exactly what I am going through, Dani.

I am so glad you brought it up.

Maybe, we can all help and comfort each other.

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posted April 23, 2015 09:23 AM            

I'm not bad beause of this person. Somehow I'm trying to cope with this. I'm more worry with the badness around the world. I'm a good person, and I'm trying to stay this good person. I see many people doing bad just for fun (the first one I see this was my ex-boyfriend). I don't get it until today, but I'm sensing that I'll get the hang of this soon.

I'm not going to lay down my guard... I have love and light as armor and shield to show this badness I'm a warrior of love!! I'm more like "make love, don't make war"

posted April 23, 2015 09:43 AM            

You HAVE to be able to hold your own to stay at LL for any length of time.

It is not because LL is bad. It is because it is a community.

In any community in life, there will be people who are nasty to you, back bite you, gossip about you, harass you, try to get a rise out of you etc etc

LL is no different and could be slightly worse because it is online, but not really.

Down deep, the dynamics are the same from high school to college to church to groups of women to charity groups etc etc

Hence, you have to learn coping skills and it is easier to learn them online.

It has taken me 7 years to learn to deal with people on here and I still screw up.

I screw up less but I still screw up.

I think you need a friend to help you that you can e mail or talk on FB.

It is too hard to be alone and deal with it, so anyone can contact me.

LL enabled me to learn coping skills such that I can have a popular website.

I get harassed about 5-10% of the time.

It gets less and less as I learn how to deal with it.

You don't want to fuel it. You want to deflect it, as much as you can.

But you learn by doing all the wrong things and having a mentor to help you.

I still talk to my mentors because I still hurt and struggle with this but it is HEAPS better and it will be for you, too, if you endure

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posted April 23, 2015 10:05 AM            

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posted April 23, 2015 10:27 AM            

If you were abused, you were gaslighted. This is when someone does something to you( usually a parent) and acts as if they are not doing it.

If you call them on it, they say you are crazy for thinking it/seeing it.

Hence, you come to doubt your own reality.

Then, YOU have emotional problems.

You were ok, before you were gaslighted. It was not your fault. It was them!

Hence, if someone on here is harassing you and saying they are not, you have to learn to trust yourself.

What you do is another thing. You could ignore. You could talk back. You could make a joke.

The important thing is to TRUST what your eyes and ears are telling you.

Then, you will become healthy and sane and you can recover your confidence and trust in yourself, if you lost it, as I did and many other people did, as well.

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posted April 23, 2015 11:28 AM            

I'll follow your advice for sure!

posted April 23, 2015 11:33 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Ami Anne, you're my guardian angel on Earth...

I'll follow your advice for sure!

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People did it for me and I am passing on the love and blessed,honored and grateful to be able to do so, Dani dear

PS You can always e mail me anytime you need to talk!

PPS If anyone is struggling, they can e mail me, too!

posted April 26, 2015 08:39 PM            

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posted April 27, 2015 10:08 AM            

Things are fine... This person seems to let this go, and I thank God for this. I don't like to fight. I let this person go away with no pain or rage for what happened and this is light for me!!

posted April 28, 2015 04:42 AM            

Remember, there are all sorts in this world and here too. Not everyone will share the same kind of gratitude or appreciation for your time and efforts. Don't put too much energy in too defending or explaining yourself to such. If you know that your intentions are sincere and stem from a good place then bugger them.

Direct your energy into the positive. Don't allow anyone to weigh you down.

posted April 28, 2015 08:04 AM            

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