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Topic: I feel so lost
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goddessofthemoon
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From: Manhattan
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted June 19, 2015 05:58 PM
  
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 19, 2015 07:23 PM
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Aquacheeka
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From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 19, 2015 07:51 PM
Just think of it as a time when you're forming you're identity, who you really are. You'll look back on this time as tough, but necessary.IP: Logged |
Jo B
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From: London, UK with myself
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 19, 2015 08:51 PM
Sorry to hear you're going through tough times at the moment goddessofthemoon.I think at this stage perhaps you should just take each day one day at a time until you have recovered from your operation. Health is your most important concern right now. Then maybe later when you feel well, consider the name change, IF you still feel strongly about it. Is there anyone you can talk to about this particular issue? It sounds a bit complicated. Re the heartache, that will heal in time and what doesn't kill you does make you stronger! All the best on your road to recovery. Take small steps at first. IP: Logged |
Faith
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From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 19, 2015 10:14 PM
It does sound hard. Good luck with your recovery.  Cristina Wren is a nice name  So is Yasmin. I've told my kids they can change their names if they want to. I think it's important for people to believe in their own name. I think names have a certain power to them. Maybe you can honor Yasmin in another way to honor your father? Keep jasmine plants?
(Not sure if there's even a connection but jasmine smells wonderful.) Best wishes~  IP: Logged |
Swanlake
Knowflake Posts: 128
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Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 20, 2015 07:27 AM
You are certainly at a very low ebb in your life, with one crisis on the heel of another..
It's as if your life is being melted down/distilled, to enable you to discover your real essence/identity/priorities at the bottom of it all.
Just hang in there and go with the flow. First things first.
ie Your physical health
Give it time.
The rest will fall into place.
One day in the future you'll look back and see it as an important turning point in your life..
But for now, just live one day at a time, & tell yourself "this too shall pass"..
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geminigal2805
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted June 20, 2015 08:07 AM
Be strong and hang in there. Things will get better for you. One thing I do when I feel down is, I visualise a happier setting.It makes me easier to handle difficulties in life. Its like reinforcing positive acts in life with loads of positive energy. Sounds mad but...
Try to take it easy. Will pray for your health.
I wanted to say this first but i forgot. My close friend struggled a lot when her family and friends called her by a different (pet) name.Later she got them to call her by her given name and somehow her life style, mental state,status, marriage, etc... fell into place. So maybe you should consider a name change, if it bugs you a lot.
Take care.
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DopGang
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Registered: Jun 2015
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posted June 20, 2015 09:28 AM
Something to remember. If needed, spend time to think about it. You always define who you are.
Family and friends help shape you but you are yourself, always. No other person, name, where you live, color of your skin, number of friends, clothes you wear, etc. Nothing defines you except for you. Your personality, how you treat others and how you treat yourself.
You can be who you want to be whether you are Cristina, Y, or whatever.
Be who you are with the name that fits you. No one knows you more than you. Others can learn to accept and none love you for your name alone. It's not your duty to do or be what you think is most acceptable to anyone.
That said I still believe treat others how you wish to be treated. Good luck! You WILL get through it. Be strong because you know you are! IP: Logged |
GemBird82
Knowflake Posts: 578
From: Female bird from France
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 21, 2015 02:48 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
I think it's important for people to believe in their own name. I think names have a certain power to them.
+1  Sometimes we might get a 'Im-lost' feeling, when a our name doesn't reflect what we are.
I these cases, one should be calm first because sudden decisions are kind of risky.
Then if you feel like it, there's no problem in the act of changing one's name at all. A simple advice would be chossing a name that fits better to you/(r) natal chart.
That's what numbers are for - for Example If you are a Cappy or just highly Saturnine, then, the number that fits you well is 8, as for the composite, I'd choose 17. Another example.
If you were born in the 24th day of a month (highest Venusian influence, because there's no 33th day)
Perhaps you should change your name to Floyd Joy Mayweather Jr.  lol because it equals 78 = 15.
Then you'll attract more and more Venus to your life, it's actually very powerful. Putting aside if the person in question is a "good one" or a "bad one", or is moral or lacks morals. The thing is that your life will be influenced by more and more Venus. I think everyone that knows at least a bit about that fella, could say "omg... something strange is happening there, or at least it seems to be that way, because it's insanely accurate ". Oh my, am I explaining myself well enough?
I hope so, just my two cents... IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 23, 2015 11:20 AM
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