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Dancing Maenad
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posted January 17, 2016 08:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From a man's perspective. I'll admit I fell for it.
http://www.elephantjournal.com/2013/10/why-men-are-so-obsessed-with-sex-steve-bearman/

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Ami Anne
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posted January 17, 2016 08:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This looks good. Thanks!

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Dancing Maenad
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posted January 17, 2016 09:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, it sort of put the man back into human for me.

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Seimei
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posted January 27, 2016 07:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seimei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
From a man's perspective. I'll admit I fell for it.
[URL=http://www.elephantjournal.com/2013/10/why-men-are-so-obsessed-with-sex-steve-bearman/]http://www.elephantjournal.com/2013/10/why-men-are-so-obsessed-with-sex-steve-bearman/[/ URL]

I find this article to compiled of Truisms
and LOC.
When something that is a fact in some cases
is then accepted as informative of all cases
because it may sound good and then applied to develop a view of all it becomes crap.
my .05

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aquaguy91
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posted January 27, 2016 09:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think what the author says is mostly BS.The tone was set early when the author implied that gender differences are programmed into people from an early age. I reject this notion and always will. Men and women are different, period. And it has nothing to do with people telling little Johnny to toughen up from an early age. Furthermore, there is nothing wrong with men being "obsessed" with sex. It's in our basic biology. The males of most species have a biological imperative to have sex. There's nothing wrong with it, it's just our nature.

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Ceridwen
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posted January 28, 2016 11:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm, my brother must have been brought up like a girl then.

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Lerena
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posted January 28, 2016 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I reject the idea that men are obsessed with sex. Humankind is obsessed with sex and that includes women.

Edit: This isn't a bad thing. I think as humans we forget that sex is natural and perfectly healthy. Sex helps humans continue to exist so of course it's something that humans would be interested in.

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Dancing Maenad
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posted January 29, 2016 07:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think this article needs to be taken so personally. It's a point of view and while of course there are exceptions in how men are raised and etc, I think for the vast majority this is the norm.

However I agree with Lerena's statement here

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Originally posted by Lerena:
Humankind is obsessed with sex and that includes women.


I think sex is a way of connecting. One of many. It just happens to be very pleasant. But I think at some point it becomes the purpose instead of the means.

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Dancing Maenad
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posted January 29, 2016 07:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Seimei, what is LOC?

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Hmm, my brother must have been brought up like a girl then.


I was raised like a boy. Maybe that's why I relate.

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