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frankie2912
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posted April 30, 2016 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you think people can transfer sexual energy to each other in this way...?

I am usually not easily aroused and my sex drive is usually pretty low. However, I recently had a one-time casual sex encounter and ever since then, my sex drive has SKY ROCKETED. Like I feel like a 13 year old boy...and I'm a 29 year old woman lol

I talk to the man I slept with on a daily basis (he is out of state now) and he told me he likes to refrain from masturbation because it creates more desire and sexual tension within himself and he prefers to bottle it up and release it when he actually has sex.

I found that compelling and I thought...did his sexual energy transfer to me? Because he harbors so much of it and only releases it with a partner, could that energy flow to his partner and affect them in a big way, like what I'm feeling?

And it's not just a high sex drive toward him that I'm feeling...I feel it toward almost every man I see now. It is a bit crazy but I'm not complaining lol

I hope this makes sense...it seems like an "out there" concept but I can find no other explanation for my sudden libido. It was definitely triggered by him. And what he told me made me curious about how we store and share certain energies..how it can affect others.

So what do you think?

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posted April 30, 2016 09:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think transferring sexual energy but I think some people awaken your own sexual energy that has gone dormant.

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posted May 01, 2016 10:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KoreAbyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yep, if his sacral chakra connected with yours and pushed a lot of energy into it then it can force it to open much more.

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frankie2912
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posted May 01, 2016 02:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting..how do people's chakras connect with each other? Do they both have to be open or does it merely have to do with physical contact?

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posted May 01, 2016 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KoreAbyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They connect with each other as chords, energy intersecting. Even a chakra that is very closed (which is not good) will still be emitting some energy, just not a healthy amount. It's where you feel as if something is wrong that you have an imbalance in a chakra.

It can happen simply on the spiritual level but physical is more intense and will cause the most immediate attachments.

This is because spiritual energy, though powerful and the ultimate spark, takes a lot of work to manifest physically. The spirit within us may want many things but what we can manifest physically are few because of the fact that it takes so much energy and concentration to focus the energy over a long period of time to achieve the result you want.

When two people have sex they are connecting chakras, sacral to sacral or sacral to root or sacral to throat, etc. When you had sex with him he was literally pushing his energy into you, filling you up with it. If you are accepting (we have to allow the energy to pass our barriers) then it most certainly will have an impact and you will feel a change. If you were still only desiring to have sex with him then I would think there was a cord from you to him but since you are feeling it toward every man that interests you it sounds as if you have had your sacral opened up far more. It's a sexual awakening.

Side note: I think this is why on a collective scale we have the stereotypical male being aloof and female being attached and wondering why he isn't attached to her. Essentially, he's pushing the energy into her and she's accepting it. He's the one creating the connection but she isn't pushing anything back to him so the connection remains one-sided. I think that's also why there's a stigma against strong women choosing to have sex when and where and with whom they want. She is then pushing her energy like a male would and the male may fear the control that comes with feeling the attachment to her when she has no attachment to him.

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posted May 02, 2016 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting!

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frankie2912
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posted May 02, 2016 10:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
KoreAbyss...

That is exactly the type of thing I was thinking it was! It really does feel like a sexual awakening of sorts.

Can you recommend any good books/websites on this topic?

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KoreAbyss
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posted May 02, 2016 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KoreAbyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry, I cannot. I've read multiple sources throughout the years and come to these conclusions mostly through my own work with chakras but I don't have anything I'd recommend you spending money on since I got all of the information for free.

All I can suggest is that you put very specific searches in google like "Sacral Chakra, cord, sex, kundalini"

Something that specific should lead you to more in depth sources instead of just "take your chakra test" stuff.

I just did that exact search and some of the links are bs warning you to buy their book and don't work on your chakras alone, get a teacher, blah blah.

Don't listen to that, your power is yours, you feel it and structure it the way that feels right to you. Be your own guru.

This link seems to be on the right track and in the right attitude of acceptance and talks about awakening the sexual energy and that whole process.
http://kundalini-teacher.com/symptoms/lust.php

I wish you all the luck on your journey!

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posted May 06, 2016 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SDragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
People can definitely transfer sexual energy between their partners. I can do it with a person that I've never even had sex with but we're in a sort of long distance spiritual relationship. I think what it comes down to is how open your chakras are as well as the ability to perceive and distinguish between your energy and another person's.

Kundalini or the sexual energy wishes to travel up through the chakras and I would say depending on the health of the the more 'balanced' person, the sexual energy will attempt to travel that way. If for instance one of the partner's chakras are a bit closed or unbalanced, they could experience the intrusion of energy in a variety of ways. Some may find it uncomfortable as they fight against the energy while others will accept the awakening and opening, allowing for a stronger experience of the sexual energy.

This may explain why as we get older, casual sex no longer attracts many people and they prefer the sexual energy as experienced in combination with their heart chakra in a loving partnership that can continue to grow and expand in intimacy towards the crown chakra.

I also don't have any books to recommend and suggest exploring this new sexual energy on your own at your own pace. There's a whole internal world unbeknownst to many.

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posted June 11, 2016 10:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Of course someone can transfer energy to you. Especially sexual energy. Energy is never destroyed its just transferred from one party to the next.

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posted July 23, 2016 08:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by KoreAbyss:
Side note: I think this is why on a collective scale we have the stereotypical male being aloof and female being attached and wondering why he isn't attached to her. Essentially, he's pushing the energy into her and she's accepting it. He's the one creating the connection but she isn't pushing anything back to him so the connection remains one-sided. I think that's also why there's a stigma against strong women choosing to have sex when and where and with whom they want. She is then pushing her energy like a male would and the male may fear the control that comes with feeling the attachment to her when she has no attachment to him.

how do you push your energy into others? I don't get it

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