posted May 10, 2016 04:14 PM            

Did it ever happen to you? Care to share what you wanted and what you received?

My last date wished for a woman who wasn't a lady in the sheets. I told him I know my kinks and apparently shocked him pretty badly. He ran for the hills. I thought it was funny. And a little hurtful, but mostly funny.

posted May 10, 2016 05:38 PM            

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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
Yep, it certainly has happened to me before! Law of Attraction... "Energy flows where attention goes."

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posted May 10, 2016 06:46 PM            

I wished for true love to come into my life.

posted May 13, 2016 06:16 PM            

For example, a witch kept doing spells to gain more money as she was always behind. It would happen, but then something would snatch it right away (in one case, her cat was mauled and the vet bill was exactly the same price as her cash windfall). She then focused on her "poverty mindset" and her spell finally worked without her losing it all (it worked so well that she got a retroactive raise for I think a year, meaning she got all that in her next check).

I have done experiments and spells usually work for me, but prayer does not, in fact prayer often has the reversed effect (for this reason I don't pray for people, out of fear for their safety). Long story short, I believe that goes back to when I was 5. I tried to wake my hungover parents to feed me and was knocked across the room. Next time I use my own wits and make my own breakfast. But had I hurt myself accidentally as I did it myself (like fell off the chair I used and broke my arm) then I think spells would be as bad for me today as prayer. Had my parents lovingly made me breakfast then I think prayers would work for me today.

One of the scariest I've heard of was someone who was sexually and emotionally abused in a fundamentalist home growing up, and she had expected God to protect her, but the universe doesn't work that way...and she was resentful, but also because people pressured her into silence, she somewhat repressed it. And then she converts to a new religion and her apartment is blessed with an icon...and soon after she's targeted by a serial rapist with the same name of the one in the icon, and essentially all her childhood abuse is experienced again in a short period of time as an adult while the rapist gets off as if divinely protected (much as her older relatives once did). I believe that had she not been so abused as a child (or had she come to terms with it rather than trying to repress it) that her adult experience would not have happened (in no way do I mean that it was her fault, rather that the childhood abuse had far greater effects than is currently understood, and it's weird how many in my PTSD support group endured abuse as little children who then experienced a related trauma as an adult, as if the abuse "echoed").

posted May 16, 2016 09:25 AM            

Diamondbaby, in a way, yes, it is about the law of attraction, however the topic is mostly about its epic fails lmao. From my side of things, regarding that guy, I wished for someone who's accomplished professionally, and he was - except he was a nazi about it and much too rigid (I don't know how many attempts are needed for me to learn Capricorns are a no go! lol).

Orange,
I'd like to hear the story about you and your Aries sometime, if you'd like to share. It sounds like it was a great one!

Randall,
I'm not surprised!

DopGang,
Yeah, I think so too. Unless they're Virgo Marses those don't talk much but omg they're full of surprises! Anyways, it's not about sex, it could be about anything! That one had just happened to me and kinda shocked me a little because he gave me signals he was into that.
I totally get what you're saying about wishing for extremes. Sometimes I think extremes are all I'm about. -_- Very hard to walk the middle path, very indeed. Or just make a choice and stick with it. I'd choose the city and keep a vacation house in the woods or near the sea. You can't have both at the same time.

posted June 14, 2016 12:25 PM            

Wishing without action is dreaming, in my experience.

posted June 17, 2016 11:14 AM            

Billy really wants (he thinks he wants this on a conscious level) lots of money. This is what he thinks and this is what he wishes for. Everyday of the week. Because he associates said money with a good way of life. But what Billy gets is a cat that was run over by a car outside his house. Now he cares for this cat because he doesn't have heart to leave it dying and SPENDS money doing so.
So on a subconscious level Billy got something to nurture as opposed the the conscious level money, which is NOT what Universe/God thought he needed.

posted June 20, 2016 01:05 PM            

PJ!! .. Again, thanks for that story.

A long long long time ago, I had been in a PTSD trauma group too. I remember a comment that a leader made pertaining to each one of us (whom he knew quite closely, individually of course).

He talked about the severe 'damage' to our safety-antennae (are my words). Said how (for example) if we were in a room with 20 people, and there was ONE perv in the room, how our 'inner' faulty guidance system would 'gravitate' to the perv. ... His advice was for us to be careful of the people we attract into our lives. That a faulty guidance system in us causes negative-ESP directions.

This is why WE (who come out of a background of being abused) need some really really really trustworthy friends in our lives. People whom we can Trust WILL really 'watch our backs' with and FOR us.

FEEDBACK is sooooooo important to listen to.
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Aside: {{God, Give ME The Wisdom and security to KNOW that the choice and choices I look to make, will lead me OUT to a platform of SAFETY, and not be one to my peril and demise.....}}
{{God protect EACH ONE who has gone through ordeals such as the persons here. }}

Give us Courage, Clear Insights, and INFINITE Protection. WE DESERVE it!!

posted June 20, 2016 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:
A long long long time ago, I had been in a PTSD trauma group too. I remember a comment that a leader made pertaining to each one of us (whom he knew quite closely, individually of course).

He talked about the severe 'damage' to our safety-antennae (are my words). Said how (for example) if we were in a room with 20 people, and there was ONE perv in the room, how our 'inner' faulty guidance system would 'gravitate' to the perv. ... His advice was for us to be careful of the people we attract into our lives. That a faulty guidance system in us causes negative-ESP directions.

This is why WE (who come out of a background of being abused) need some really really [b]really trustworthy friends in our lives. People whom we can Trust WILL really 'watch our backs' with and FOR us.[/B]

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I have witnessed this in one form of another. What's really strange is the men and women who gravitate the exact kind they don't like while thinking all of the other gender is like the only kind they're ever attracted to. One guy I barely knew because he hated all females as lying ****** (apparently his mother was one), and dismissed us all as such, and he rudely rejected a friend of mine who had a crush on him...but when my friend had something of a nervous breakdown and became extremely unstable and promiscuous he was suddenly attracted to her, and as far as I know he wasn't even consciously aware of her change. Of course she became more "proof" about the perfidy of all women to him. This was despite guys telling him that he ONLY chose females like that, but in his mind it was all a random sample rather than he was attracted only to a specific kind (sometimes with what appeared to be psychic senses).

And I've known women raised abused who would always find other abusers like their father, and it was like a spell they couldn't resist, and me and others telling them about the guy they were attracted to was neither normal nor good for her didn't work. Two of them even agitated a guy passed out (alcohol for one, meth crashing for the other) when I was trying to get her to stop (as I'd learned early in my childhood that you don't do that--guess I'm lucky I didn't wind up like them, but being punched across the room once was enough for me) and it was like they could not hear me, and after they finally got smacked, they acted all surprised and even tried to get sympathy from me.

posted June 20, 2016 09:49 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
What would be really sad is if the dysfunctional lover DID somehow help one work through it, then that one might lose all interest in his or her lover.

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Interesting thought, and test of the commitment or bonds made. Would be terribly sad...

It's just better if the Survivor can really truly get to the root and heal as completely as possible before entering the relationship -- especially a lifetime commitment one.

Takes a lot of Love, Self-Love, Mutuality, Bravery, Support & Infinite Patience?

Deep Love, willingness to work at it, and compatibility, for sure.

{Oh! ~Got a song for that!! }

posted July 26, 2016 11:21 PM            

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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
Yep, it certainly has happened to me before! Law of Attraction... "Energy flows where attention goes."

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