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Dancing Maenad
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posted June 26, 2016 12:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am contemplating going on one, Byron Katie's, in Switzerland. Never been to a silent retreat before. I listen to a lot of spiritual videos, talks, etc but I don't think it's the same. I think I need something to really shock me out of my inertia. Being unable to communicate with anyone there sounds like a shock to me. It's a little expensive, but I can afford it. I feel like getting away, that Sag Moon of mine likes to travel places and I've never been to Switzerland. My work schedule is chill around that time so I could take a few days off.

So, opinions? If you've ever been on one, what did you think about it?

Thank you in advance for any advice you can give me!

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posted June 27, 2016 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not sure I could do it (far too extroverted).

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posted June 27, 2016 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd love to!
I think it's a great thing though I've never done it. I could see myself living it.

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posted June 27, 2016 08:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I went on a 30 day juice fast.

It was a very peaceful and spiritual experience.

I imagine a fast from talking may be the same.

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posted June 27, 2016 09:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A really long time ago, I used to attend "Desert Day" (on Thursdays) at the nearby Jesus House-- (This was an eclectic ecumenical house of prayer, and Desert Day was modelled on the RC Mystical practices).

"My House shall be Called a House of Prayer for all Peoples"
Isaiah 56:7

This was a full day of silence. Mass was said, Communion shared, then people just dispersed themselves. No-talking, just being together in a big older southern-mansion-style home tucked away on a big lot with older trees and wrot-iron(sp) gates and pieces of fencing.

You spent the day reading from scriptures (if you wanted), entering the state of Contemplation (which is like the spot of inner-grok, in meditating). You dive deep-within where Silence holds space. You pray with words, without words. Just spent time soaking in the palpable energy of Quiet in the Silence.

It's just "nice" when everyone under the same roof agrees (in smaller venue than probably those big auditoriums that Byron uses?) to be with and among each other. Haha, the zen 'with you' and 'not-with-you' among others in the room or house. LOL.

The atmosphere of subtle-energy can bloom thicken and change. Can help facilitate your making an inner spiritual-connection with the aid of an outer energetically boosted spiritual environment.

I don't know what Byron Katie actually does at her retreats?... and it's been a few years since I reviewed her material. (I think Oprah had done an interview with her. I'm sure there are many yt's available.)

I imagine that in the process, you could inwardly be dealing with "issues" cropping up? (I don't know if they will allow you to journal?). A long day of silence, can feel like you are watching a Life Review-- things floating up for you to examine notice and release.


A long time ago here at LL, someone left some Byron Katie urls and materials. I really found the material valuable.


"It's a little expensive, but I can afford it!" --- gosh, DM. That must be a really elegant feeling inside to be able to own it and just go attend stuff like that.

How wonderful for you! You could do anything you want to! ... How cool.

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Byron_Katie ... She's a Sagittarian!
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http://thework.com/en/do-work

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Dancing Maenad
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posted June 29, 2016 02:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ahhh, sadly it seems I can't miss work during that period, so I can't go this time.

I never went on a retreat or any sort of spiritual gathering, the closest would be my work with my shaman-therapist, but that's one on one, not a group thing. And we talk. I am curious what it's like.

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Dancing Maenad
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posted June 29, 2016 02:57 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mirage, it's a matter of priorities, I guess. I don't spend much on many things people around me do, so I can save money for the things that really interest me. But yes, fortunately, I don't really have financial concerns. Life is a lot cheaper here, that helps. I also work more than normal people (up to 100 h/week sometimes). Compared to the US, I am paid a lot less money for my profession (when I did the math it was ~100 times less), I would probably last a month there at max. I know since I considered moving. So, it's all relative, dear one. However, I will admit not worrying about money is a relief, I get very antsy about survival and safety.

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posted June 29, 2016 02:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I couldn't do it. They would probably boot me out for too many "oops" moments.

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posted June 30, 2016 02:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Teasel!!!! .... probably if you sat next to me we'd NEVER get quiet enough! hahahaha

DM... Wow. 100! ... I'm glad you take care of yourself... but, careful of too many hours??? 100 is excessive-- but then, if you're doing what you Love, what is Time, really? I know that I've had jobs that I'd might as well have slept overnight on a couch.... but I had kids, too. Kids?? need to have a bit-more time and attention priority when they're in your life.... It's a 20 year Commitment to have YOUR own life take more of a backburner.... Your whole perspective changes too... It slows you down a lot--- Opportunity to enjoy life as-it-is, represented in taking care of another Life.... and smelling all the Beauty and the Roses. {{ }}

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posted July 02, 2016 06:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am on one of those every day lol

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Dancing Maenad
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Mirage, I don't have kids (yet), so it's easier to up and leave when I like. I'd trade the freedom of the single life for the worries of the family life any day, but... it is what it is. All I can do is make the best of it.

I found another retreat I'm interested in, it's not silent and it's not abroad, but it's by the seaside and I received good recommendations for it. It's at the end of August/September, I'll let you guys know how it went.

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posted July 04, 2016 11:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
DM,
You made a good decision by deciding not to come to the United States to work. Yes, doctors make a lot of money here, but it comes at a great price. Our medical care is ridiculously expensive and lots of people die here because they can't get the medical care they need. It has gotten to the point where people just go into the medical field to make money and not to help people.

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posted July 05, 2016 08:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's the ******* truth, Aquaguy....

I hope you find just the right Child, DM.

Can't wait to hear about your experiences later. ...Next to a beach??? ahhhh really nice.

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posted July 26, 2016 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Looking forward to hearing about it.

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Dancing Maenad
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I returned today from the retreat, I stayed there for two weeks. It was very interesting, I learned some cool breathing exercises and meditations that I hope to continue to do from now on. The teaching was beautiful, mainly based on non-duality, but I've known that for a while, though the delivery was definitely unique and funny. For me the best parts were the dynamic meditations, as well as working in pairs or small groups and realising the divine is in all of us. I also made some very cool friends that are on the same path and I really enjoyed getting to know them and their stories of becoming. I was pretty shocked to discover our spiritual teacher could read my thoughts/vibration/whatever the hell you want to call it. On the last day he told me something that was on my mind for some time (I don't want to share it here, but it's not very common) and I was able to release it.

I returned a changed woman. I have been transforming for a while now, but I guess I still lacked belief. I was there during the eclipse on September 1st and also on Sept 9th (9.9.9), which was the last day and most important for me. I don't think it was a coincidence, I was hit pretty hard by transits during this period. OH! I even asked him about astrology and whether it could be included in the teaching; he said it is a method to reach light but it depends highly on how you use it; he also told me when you reach enlightenment you transcend your chart, which is what I believe also. Meanwhile, until I reach enlightenment (I am joking, it's not a purpose in itself, though I wouldn't mind if it happens) I'm switching to whole signs house system. Quite a big jump for me, I've been very attached to Placidus, but hey, who can deny those 4 planets in the 12th?! I mean, why the interest in spirituality otherwise, why so severely introverted and twisted? Yeah, I needed to tell that to someone lol. I have officially joined the 12th house club.

The fact that I was also by the sea was amazing and very relaxing. When I wasn't meditating I was swimming, doing qigong, reading or spending time with my new friends. I had a wonderful experience! I can't think of one bad thing about it! Just perfect.

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posted September 10, 2016 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I could never do something like this. I like noise too much.

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he also told me when you reach enlightenment you transcend your chart, which is what I believe also.

Really? I've never heard that before. This information was of particular interest to me, because I felt like I was transcending my chart the day before the eclipse. Granted, I don't consider myself enlightened, but I feel like I've gotten to a point where I've risen above the restrictions of my chart and I had no idea that transcending your chart could actually be done.

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posted September 10, 2016 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StubbornVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That sounds like a nightmare for my Gemini Moon. I would end up talking to myself and getting kicked out.

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Dancing Maenad
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posted September 11, 2016 03:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lerena, it can be definitely done!

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posted September 11, 2016 03:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow. Dynamic meditation? Osho's ? Welcome back Mae!!

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Dancing Maenad
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posted September 11, 2016 06:23 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, not Osho, it's a Norwegian guy that now lives here.

Thank you! It's a bit funky to get back, I'm not yet sure how I feel. For now I've just immersed myself in music (Thirty seconds to Mars) and I'm heading to see my family.

How have you been, Nony? I missed you btw.

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
DM,
You made a good decision by deciding not to come to the United States to work. Yes, doctors make a lot of money here, but it comes at a great price. Our medical care is ridiculously expensive and lots of people die here because they can't get the medical care they need. It has gotten to the point where people just go into the medical field to make money and not to help people.

I'm sorry I didn't reply sooner. Yes, I think I did the right thing as well. I've come to realise my home country is the best possible country to live in for the life lessons I have. It teaches me about generosity, tolerance and patience. It's not easy but it's also better than many countries out there. It's safe and it's civilised enough to have access to the nice things in life without paying a high price for it (not yet). They call it the land of all possibilities because rule breaking is the golden rule around here lmao.

In all seriousness now, I've come to appreciate it a lot in the last period of time.

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posted September 11, 2016 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
No, not Osho, it's a Norwegian guy that now lives here.

Thank you! It's a bit funky to get back, I'm not yet sure how I feel. For now I've just immersed myself in music (Thirty seconds to Mars) and I'm heading to see my family.

How have you been, Nony? I missed you btw.


I see.

People are going to expect to see the old you. Don't let it deter you from expressing the new you. I don't listen to them like I used to, but \m/ for Thirty seconds to Mars *headbangs* .

I missed you too. Things have been a bit flat these days, the calm before the storm? let's see.

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Dancing Maenad
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posted September 12, 2016 12:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Flat, how so? Yeah, I really love 30STM. And I've always had a little something for Jared.

Drop me a line sometime, ok?

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Flat, kinda like that cloudy day on which neither does it seem like it'll rain, nor does it seem like the sun'll come out anytime soon. Anyway, the storm has arrived home, I'mma enjoy the storm for a while now.

You have something for Jared? I'm completely surprised .

Okay, I have like 1 friend on that account, so I always feel weird when I go there, lol.

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Dancing Maenad
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Ahh, I see! I love storms too! I used to go out when it would start and walk barefoot in the park getting soaking wet. Ahh, it was beautiful!! During my vacation it started to rain while I was swimming in the sea, it was such a great experience!

Lol, I'm more like obsessed with him now! He's just such an interesting man, I'd totally adore someone like that.

Ahh, yeah, I know. Well, if it feels weird don't do it. We'll always have Lindaland. Unless you won't leave again.

So I'm really glad whole sings works for you also! I think it's the truest house system, though I can't deny Placidus works as well. But if I had to choose, I'd go with WS.

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