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charlie
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posted June 28, 2016 12:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Please share a little.

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Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted June 28, 2016 01:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes. However, it was alongside sexual abuse.

If that doesn't muddy the waters too much to answer, what would you like to know?

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posted June 28, 2016 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Yes. However, it was alongside sexual abuse.

If that doesn't muddy the waters too much to answer, what would you like to know?


I'd just like to know a little about patterns between perp and victim. And a little about the effects when it's been going on for some time.

Thank you!

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posted June 28, 2016 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you have a chart of the people, C. Put in nessus and dejanira, if you do. That should show it xx

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posted June 28, 2016 05:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The asteroid Nemesis is a hidden enemy, so that may be part of the abusive profile, too, my Friend

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posted June 28, 2016 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Do you have a chart of the people, C. Put in nessus and dejanira, if you do. That should show it xx


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posted June 28, 2016 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The outer person prolly had sexual abuse which fragmented her/him. The Saturn there intensifies it. VERY sad

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posted June 28, 2016 06:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The inner person's Neptune conj the NN of the outer person

This is said to be a very unfortunate placement but I have not done enough personal research to know.

I go by what I see on charts, over and over again.

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posted June 28, 2016 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The life of the outer person was very, very hard.

Abuse fragmented her, I would say.

Also, that close Chiron/Sun is extreme pain with the dad.

My heart goes out to her, so much! xxxxx

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posted June 28, 2016 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say that both mom and dad were not there and she suffered more than most people could ever appreciate or know

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posted June 28, 2016 11:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I would say that both mom and dad were not there and she suffered more than most people could ever appreciate or know


Outer person is a man. He had a VERY hard upbringing and youth. A "war child". His dad was killed. His biological mother died young. His mind/personality IS very fragmented and it takes some skill from people around to keep up. He was always verbally assaulted-sexually-by older women and have had issues with women all his life. Inside is his daughter. She has....issues. The mother of child is psychotic-for real.

What I find interesting, and at times disturbing, is that I came into their lives; with my Taurus Chiron in tow, and got plummeted by things to...heal. Open wounds everywhere.

Either way, people in chart are leaning heavily on one another and at times it feels not normal. I seem to be there to create some type of balance but I'd be lying if I said I feel strong enough.

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posted June 29, 2016 07:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, my heart goes out to him. It is not his fault. I would say one of the greatest blessings in Astrology is to reassure people it is not their fault.

They should not feel condemned if they had a hard placement.

They should try to FACE it and they can HEAL.

What you can't face, you can't heal.


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posted June 29, 2016 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry Charlie, I thought you were looking for personal experience.
I will leave Ami to the astrology.

Should you be interested in the astrology of myself and the relevant other, I'm happy to post it for you. I do not have his birth time though, so certain aspects of the astrology are limited.

I feel though that if this is present between two people, it will be seen in the basic astrology. I doubt asteroids can radically alter a synastry into an abusive one.

I have Nessus/Dejanira conjunctions where there is no abuse of any form.

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posted June 30, 2016 02:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Sorry Charlie, I thought you were looking for personal experience.
I will leave Ami to the astrology.

Should you be interested in the astrology of myself and the relevant other, I'm happy to post it for you. I do not have his birth time though, so certain aspects of the astrology are limited.

I feel though that if this is present between two people, it will be seen in the basic astrology. I doubt asteroids can radically alter a synastry into an abusive one.

I have Nessus/Dejanira conjunctions where there is no abuse of any form.


I am looking for personal experience! I just responded to Ami

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posted July 01, 2016 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by charlie:
I am looking for personal experience! I just responded to Ami

What would you like to know?

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posted July 02, 2016 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
The outer person prolly had sexual abuse which fragmented her/him. The Saturn there intensifies it. VERY sad


What makes you say that?

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posted July 03, 2016 11:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Deja conj the Moon is one of the worst indicators of sexual abuse/fragmentation, K. I feel so sad when I see it.

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posted July 03, 2016 11:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Deja conj the Moon is one of the worst indicators of sexual abuse/fragmentation, K. I feel so sad when I see it.


Ok, thanks. 12 degrees is too far for conj, right?

I just checked some of my families charts and I saw that my sister has it conj, 6 degree orb. Nothing happened to her regarding sexual abuse.

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posted July 04, 2016 02:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Koniucha:
Ok, thanks. 12 degrees is too far for conj, right?

I just checked some of my families charts and I saw that my sister has it conj, 6 degree orb. Nothing happened to her regarding sexual abuse.


My husband stands firm on the "fact" that he was never sexually abused (to him that only implies intercourse-he's uneducated on the matter) but in the same breath he has said that older women (and I mean in their 40-60s) has "touched" him while taking him in cab rides when he was well below 15. That is sexual abuse to me. It comes in various forms..

To this day women do some crazy things to get near him, mostly when they are drunk. We work in a very social setting and they are hard to avoid but you'd be disgusted by the things they say and try to do :-/ but I guess at his age now it would be better to call it sexual harassment.

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posted July 04, 2016 04:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
12 degrees is waaay out of the ball park, K xx

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posted July 04, 2016 04:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
6 degrees is way too much, too, K

You need 3 degrees, tops. Some astrologers do less than that.

Asteroids are small bodies, so use small orbs

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posted July 05, 2016 07:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
6 degrees is way too much, too, K

You need 3 degrees, tops. Some astrologers do less than that.

Asteroids are small bodies, so use small orbs


Oh ok, I wasn't aware of that. Thanks.

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posted July 05, 2016 09:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome, my Friend xx

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