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Topic: What would you if you don't want to be here anymore?
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DannyCappy
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posted July 11, 2017 01:56 AM
  
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From the bottom of my heart.
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PixieJane
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posted July 11, 2017 02:38 AM
Assuming you mean LL then I'd get their emails (or social media if I was into that) and keep in touch with them that way. Or if it was time to just move on then give a goodbye that was public and saying I'd miss many, and maybe we'll meet in another life, but it's time for me to move on. (Btw, no need to close your account here, you might change your mind months or even years from now as many others have done.)'Course if you're talking about where you're living now then that's more complicated and depends on too many factors. IP: Logged |
DannyCappy
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posted July 11, 2017 02:48 AM
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Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted July 11, 2017 07:03 AM
Dear Dannycappy,I am sorry that you feel like you don't want to be here anymore. If it were me, I would try to identify what it is I cannot cope with in my life and brainstorm how to solve this problem. I would not do this alone, I would confide in someone I trust, a friend, family, or a medical professional. Most of the time when people feel they do not want to be here, it is because there is something in life that it is hurting them, and it is this that they wish to end. Suicide becomes an option when people cannot see a way to change how they feel. This is why confiding in someone is so important - another perspective can help you organise your thoughts and possibly find solutions you could not see before because you felt so overwhelmed. This is also a vulnerable time, so it is best to have someone you trust aware of how you are feeling. It is much harder to deal with these feelings alone. If at any point you feel at immediate risk of taking your life, please contact the emergency services, this should trigger an assessment that will hopefully lead to support (at least it does in the UK). If you have a mental health condition, please seek treatment for this, even a free talking service such as Samaritans can make a difference while awaiting referral to MH services. Is there counselling available in your area? Do any friends/family know how you feel? Do you already know what is so painful about your life that you wish were different? IP: Logged |
Ayelet
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posted July 11, 2017 08:19 AM
Dear DannyCappy,
You must be in a lot of pain to want to leave the world. Yet you try to be considerate of the feelings of your loved ones. I support what Voix de la Mer wrote, that you should seek help, and perhaps confide in those you love. Perhaps you don't want to hurt them by telling them how you feel, but commiting suicide would be even a greater blow. Besides, for times like this, that is exactly what loved ones are for - not just for the jolly times, but to lend support. (By the way, by help I meant talking to someone, nothing else - I am strongly avert to psychiatry). You may think this world is shallow, but think again. Nothing shallow could have caused you so much pain. Some people are acting cruelly because they wear extra layers for protection, until they don't feel the other person anymore (and sometimes, in a parallel way, not themselves either). It doesn't mean they have no depth. But they lost connection with it. In a way, most of us are somewhat disconnected from our own depths. But not being able to see something doesn't necessarily negate it. There is so much more to this world than what the eye meets. Sometimes a broken heart is an asset, because it opens in a way it couldn't do otherwise, and in time the crack lets in so much more, and eventually we see with our hearts instead of with our eyes... Just don't go hastily and do something irreversible, leaving others to regret, wondering: How come we didn't see it coming? Why didn't we do something?" Thinking on all that could have been, and now won't come to be. IP: Logged |
DannyCappy
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posted July 11, 2017 01:29 PM
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DannyCappy
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posted July 11, 2017 01:41 PM
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DannyCappy
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posted July 11, 2017 03:00 PM
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DannyCappy
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posted July 11, 2017 03:05 PM
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Is there counselling available in your area?
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Randall
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posted July 12, 2017 04:55 PM
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MetalAphrodite
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posted July 15, 2017 01:15 AM
Do you feel that maybe you are clinically depressed? This may be something that has underlying medical issues that would be best dealt with by visiting a dr.I noticed that when you said the kind of professions that you don't have a passion for, what are your passions? And what is it you want to do to make money? IP: Logged |
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