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Randall
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posted January 12, 2018 11:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://parentingisnteasy.co/stop-spanking-children/?utm_source=uplt&utm_medium=facebook&utm_campaign=parents

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posted January 13, 2018 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the link.
We should have a global campaigh to protect kids.Today I read something about unprepared parents that didn't deal with their own issues having kids and passing all their pain to their children.The kid grow up,have their own child and do the same thing.It becomes a vicious circle.

Some spiritual people also talk about how the base foundation of an individual is created before 7 years old.

Did you ever watch "Child of rage"? (documentary)

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posted January 13, 2018 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Mirage are you around?I'm missing your good energy

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posted January 15, 2018 02:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What I hear a lot is: "I was spanked as a kid, and I turned out all right."

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posted January 15, 2018 05:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think spanking may be good but not in anger.

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posted January 15, 2018 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ What kind of spanking are you talking about?
Jokes aside, I actually agree with that.
I think a little bit won't harm, like scolding, when it is out of love rather than out of this urge to take out their anger on their kids like most do. But I can see parents exploiting that little bit of freedom to spank their kids out of anger or to instill fear in their minds through which they can control them. Would an average Joe be able to maintain that balance of little bit of spanking? no .

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posted January 16, 2018 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Few can separate their anger from the physical punishment.

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posted January 17, 2018 09:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Surely there are more effective means of discipline than infliction of pain?

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posted January 18, 2018 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 18, 2018 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

http://www.yahoo.com/news/david-louise-turpin-fed-kids-192609099.html

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posted January 19, 2018 09:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They pleaded not guilty.

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posted January 19, 2018 11:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
They pleaded not guilty.

~yeah. right. It was the kids' fault?

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posted January 24, 2018 11:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't care for the article in the original post due to its manipulative language that was telling me what to think rather than objectively reporting on a study (which is itself weak because it sounds as if they focused on people in violent relationships, which is like asking how many of them play video games and, learning most do, saying video games are to blame when plenty of other gamers aren't so dysfunctional). And going by the way it was worded, it also conflates all who use corporal punishment with parents who have no self-control of their own, which is false, and it misses an important distinction between those who use corporal punishment (hopefully sparingly and as a last resort) with those who are essentially man-children and women-children.

I'm not here to champion spanking of children, just saying that the article irked me and I find myself inclined to dismiss it because of how it was written.

And generally speaking, I find I can tell a lot about parents by observing the child, and can have a good idea what a child is like by observing the parents. There are exceptions (which can include kids being better than their parents), but as a general rule the kids and parents are more alike than not, including in impulse control, whether they lash out in anger or not, even whether they use profanity or smoke, etc. This is regardless to whether or not the parents practice corporal punishment. Parents who use profanity are very likely to have kids that use it, even if they spank those kids for doing so (in which case the kids will use profanity when their parents can't hear until they're older).

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posted January 26, 2018 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good points.

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posted January 27, 2018 07:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, it was a CNN article, so...

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posted January 27, 2018 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ Hahaha

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posted March 02, 2018 07:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fake news!

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