posted July 23, 2021 01:57 PM            

I talked to her for well over a week. I was completely honest about who I am and what my intentions are and I also told her where I live, which is about 45 minutes from her.

Well today, she told me that she isn't interested in meeting because I live too far away from her. I literally told the airhead where I live the first evening we talked. Again, this was well over a week ago.

Now, women have the right to decline dates. I just wish they wouldn't waste my time. In this case, she should have announced to me that the distance between us was an issue that first evening.

Why is being a decent human being so difficult for so many people? If you aren't interested in actually meeting someone you shouldn't be talking to them for over a week and wasting their time.

posted July 23, 2021 08:16 PM            

You've been hurt, and each time you've
been hurt, you've reacted..what action
did you take? Without even knowing, over
time you built a wall that is hard to
get through, you're protecting yourself
for good reason! Right?
It's human conditioning, and we all
project our dream-illusion on others..
because we've learned from our parents,
who learned from their parents..
At this point it is human contamination...
Their truth dream-illusion has been
forced upon us...

I want you to know, that there is that
great girl out there for you, but with your wall
you might miss her..
We have never been separated from the
one that completes us, I have finally
learned this, I experience its Magic...
Through connection to God Source...

I no longer shall suffer over and over
and over again...
Forgive yourself
Forgive all
free yourself from all the pain.

It's not easy..know, we are our own
worst enemy..judging ourselves, and
then suffering..
Time to change what we're thinking,
because this is
The World of Illusion

I love you
God loves you
Your other half loves you, make sure
you meet her halfway, break down that
wall of protection and open your
Heart!

In our Soul form we all
Love all, we are Love and Light!

posted July 23, 2021 09:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ballerina:
I'm seeing a wall, A big wall...

You've been hurt, and each time you've
been hurt, you've reacted..what action
did you take? Without even knowing, over
time you built a wall that is hard to
get through, you're protecting yourself
for good reason! Right?
It's human conditioning, and we all
project our dream-illusion on others..
because we've learned from our parents,
who learned from their parents..
At this point it is human contamination...
Their truth dream-illusion has been
forced upon us...

I want you to know, that there is that
great girl out there for you, but with your wall
you might miss her..
We have never been separated from the
one that completes us, I have finally
learned this, I experience its Magic...
Through connection to God Source...

I no longer shall suffer over and over
and over again...
Forgive yourself
Forgive all
free yourself from all the pain.

It's not easy..know, we are our own
worst enemy..judging ourselves, and
then suffering..
Time to change what we're thinking,
because this is
The World of Illusion

I love you
God loves you
Your other half loves you, make sure
you meet her halfway, break down that
wall of protection and open your
Heart!

In our Soul form we all
Love all, we are Love and Light!

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posted July 24, 2021 06:57 AM            

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posted July 24, 2021 11:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I am sorry you are going through this but I am gonna give my honest opinion. This is just part of the dating world for EVERYONE. You talk and you feel each other out and one or the other may not want to go further. The dating world is kind of brutal as is all of the world, really!

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posted July 24, 2021 12:07 PM            

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posted July 24, 2021 10:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I didn't think it would be I have to be honest. All of life is really like this except a dog!!

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Ami,
Everyone struggles with something, but not everyone has the same struggles, nor do they struggle equally. Some people definitely have more problems than others.

My niece is 10 years younger than me and she just got married to a really nice boy who comes from a rich family. He is ambitious and will definitely be successful because he comes from that environment. My niece struck gold with the second guy she dated.

posted July 25, 2021 08:08 AM            

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posted July 31, 2021 09:22 AM            

i'm sorry you're having bad luck but don't put that sort of thing on all women and try to be more open about how you may meet someone worthwhile, don't necessarily look just let life unfold and even if you feel like meeting people online is your only option there's so many other ways to meet someone that aren't dating sites

you don't need to be attractive (haven't seen you to judge your appearance but many people downgrade themselves) or extroverted (some people prefer introverts, i know i do, i have a huge soft spot for introverted nerdy guys 🤷‍♀️ and find most extroverts very unappealing and uninteresting really doubt that's just a me thing)

posted July 31, 2021 02:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:

it sounds counter intuitive to stop looking in order to find someone but things like that work

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That works if - and this is the key - you are a woman. In today's market, no woman is seeking a guy like me out. Any woman who is remotely attractive has a billion options. I'm just calling it like I see it.

I have been on a a major university campus since the fall of 2017 and in all of the time since then I have only had one woman flirt with me and show interest in me. And she was an attention ho Scorpio who wanted to toy with my emotions.

posted July 31, 2021 03:09 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
That works if - and this is the key - you are a woman. In today's market, no woman is seeking a guy like me out. Any woman who is remotely attractive has a billion options. I'm just calling it like I see it.

I have been on a a major university campus since the fall of 2017 and in all of the time since then I have only had one woman flirt with me and show interest in me. And she was an attention ho Scorpio who wanted to toy with my emotions.

Trust me. I know how scarce the market is for me. I can't even lower my standards to meet a woman. It is what it is.

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posted August 02, 2021 01:25 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
It doesn't work if you're a woman. We don't want just anyone who will have us. That isn't love.

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posted August 02, 2021 01:30 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I was responding to the notion that if I stop trying I might meet someone. That doesn't happen for men unless we are elite in terms of looks, money, or status. A woman can reasonably expect to be approached at some point because guys approach women. And you're just putting words in my mouth with all that other nonsense you said.

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posted August 02, 2021 09:29 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
No, I'm not, and just because guys approach a woman, it doesn't mean they're good guys. You don't know what I've experienced. Stop assuming.

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posted August 03, 2021 09:15 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
That works if - and this is the key - you are a woman. In today's market, no woman is seeking a guy like me out. Any woman who is remotely attractive has a billion options. I'm just calling it like I see it.

I have been on a a major university campus since the fall of 2017 and in all of the time since then I have only had one woman flirt with me and show interest in me. And she was an attention ho Scorpio who wanted to toy with my emotions.

Trust me. I know how scarce the market is for me. I can't even lower my standards to meet a woman. It is what it is.

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posted August 06, 2021 10:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i meant it more like maybe you'll make friends and things can start from there instead 🤷‍♀️ not about getting approached just getting to know people and vice versa without the idea of a relationship as s possibility until later on

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posted August 07, 2021 03:13 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I'm not assuming anything. I simply meant that women can reasonably expect to be approached. I didn't say anything about whether said guys were good or anything. It makes me angry how you try to twist my words. I'm not a woman. I actually say what I mean. This isn't complicated stuff.

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posted August 07, 2021 04:18 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I don't twist your words. Try having some empathy for women, and you might eventually get a girlfriend.

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posted August 14, 2021 09:50 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I wish I had a female friend, but women don't show any interest in being my friend. I thought I might have made one last semester. I did a group project with a girl and we studied together and developed (at least I thought) a good rapport. She even mentioned us hanging out more this summer, but I have texted her twice with no reply. I always get ghosted or ignored.

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i feel like i'm missing something here tbh, because it's odd to me that it's "all these other people with the problem" so consistently when the common denominator is you

no offense because i have nothing against you but i'm wondering if you put off some vibe or whatever that's causing the issue

posted August 15, 2021 10:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
do you have saturn in a ****** place or something? 🤔

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posted August 18, 2021 12:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i feel like i'm missing something here tbh, because it's odd to me that it's "all these other people with the problem" so consistently when the common denominator is you

no offense because i have nothing against you but i'm wondering if you put off some vibe or whatever that's causing the issue

do you have saturn in a ****** place or something? 🤔

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posted August 18, 2021 08:49 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
You are putting words in my mouth when you say I said that women are the problem in this instance. It's nobody's fault that the social dynamics are the way they are. The reality is women have a lot of friends and dating prospects and most guys aren't even on the radar.

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posted August 18, 2021 11:42 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Aquaguy, Dumuzi MIGHT have a point and to make it clearer what is meant is that *I* for instance have Mars conjunct Asc and parallel Pluto. I am a woman and this “vibe” attracts OR repels people. Men usually want to fkuc and kill me and women, sometimes, hate me. It’s not always easy being a woman either. I give out a warrior’s vibe and this doesn’t sit well with many. Maybe if you studied your chart and yourself a little bit deeper, you’ll find an answer? And maybe, don’t victimize yourself but instead tell yourself that these people are not worthy you anyhow so why the F think about it?!

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