posted February 16, 2022 12:05 PM
My dad has always had a God-complex and everybody else are his minions. Especially me and my mother. I have warned my husband about him and that my dad NEVER (!) does anything without holding it against you or wanting something back. Took me 40 years to learn this the very hard way. Husband lends him money because my dad says he has a "great idea". Never gets the money back. Surprise surprise..He even lies and says something about his friend dying...bla bla bla...bla bla bla whatever
Husband asks for the money and my dad goes:
I have done this and that for you (and me). Without me your company wouldn't have lasted (what??). I can send very bad people to you two and they will force you to do this and that.
(so my dad basically threatens me, his daughter, that he will send bad people to do stupid things to me)
Husband looses his **** and Aries-style, he says some very not nice things to my dad. Now my dad has point blank said he will never see me again and that I should never forget all the things he's done for me, and us. He said this to my husband and not me. I have seen the texts.
That's it :-/