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posted April 16, 2022 07:28 AM            

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There's a certain girl I see every few Fridays (maybe once a month) when I see mutual acquaintances during the course of my Friday night routine. I have been running into her with them since February of 2020. Each time I see her she is very flirty and seems very interested in me. This all seems promising right? A lonely guy keeps running into an attractive woman who actually pays attention to him and appreciates him, what's not to like about this story? Well, there's the fact that she's in a committed relationship and has been since I met her over two years ago. Also, I often talk about looks and how women value them a lot, but this guy is an exception to that. The guy she is dating is such a dork and she is so attractive and cool. I don't get it. I also don't get why she is the only woman I meet who actually responds to me in the way that I want women to respond to me, but I'm completely invisible and irrelevant to 99.9% of the rest of the female population. Life is so strange. This situation really frustrates me. Lol

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posted April 16, 2022 01:48 PM            

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I wonder if this is a Moon square Venus thing? The women who are attracted to me are always married, in committed relationships, or off limits somehow.

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posted April 17, 2022 02:01 AM            

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I don't know what to make of this. She's in a committed monogamous relationship. I don't know why you attract married or unavailable woman or off limits maybe it is a moon square Venus thing. She hasn't made a move & she flirts & in a committed relationship. I don't know I would shelter my heart. You will find a woman who you are attracted to & who is available & able to make that connection with. I would be friends with her first & see where it goes with fate & destiny.

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posted April 17, 2022 11:34 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I wonder if this is a Moon square Venus thing? The women who are attracted to me are always married, in committed relationships, or off limits somehow.

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You’re an Aquarius Rising and your Sun in 12th house rules your 7th house. I think it’s the 7th house ruler in the 12th house that contributes to these situations. Could it be something you’re subconsciously attracted to? Maybe you’re unaware of the signals you give?

I personally wouldn’t want to get involved with someone that’s already in a relationship because it’s way too messy and it just doesn’t sit right with me if there’s a third party that might get hurt. Just try to ask yourself why you see this recurring pattern. These type of patterns are usually a lesson and it’s important that you have recognized this. It means there’s an awareness and you can do something with it.

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posted April 17, 2022 03:20 PM            

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The thing is I don't want those situations. They just come to me. I don't act on them either.

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posted April 18, 2022 02:04 AM            

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Be friends with her if it turns out to be more than friends it's meant to be more than friends even if she's in another committed relationship. What will be will be. If it's your destiny with her nothing can stop your destiny. Aquarius know how to be friends & allow things to unfold naturally.

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posted April 19, 2022 04:49 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
The thing is I don't want those situations. They just come to me. I don't act on them either.

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I think it's good that you don't act on situations that you're not looking for. If it's not what you want, then it's something that you should let pass.

I wish I had some better advice to give. From your other posts, I've seen that you're looking for a relationship but have trouble finding one. I can imagine this situation is frustrating. Hopefully, your patience will be rewarded soon. Just don't settle for less than you deserve.

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posted April 21, 2022 12:25 PM            

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Life is strange. Things may not be as easy to peg but with her or anyone for that matter. If you're a certain age, people rematerialize in our world during different times. Sometimes just being a friend may bring a potential of becoming more in the future or maybe meeting another of her friends that may sometime appear. Which life is strange this way too.
We each have probability of many partners, it's up to each person. This person you're attracted to may have potential at a later time. Do you have her dob? Maybe to study you/her over @the forum for relationship charts (interpersonal). I'd be happy to help if you need someone to help look.

I'm sorry you're experiencing the frustration of this though. Maybe it won't be a long while though.

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posted April 21, 2022 05:49 PM            

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So here are a few more details:
I've never been alone with this girl. I've never been around her without her boyfriend within feet of us. It's been all about the vibe and the way she gives me so much attention when I enter the room. It's like I'm the only one in the room with her. She's the first girl who has made me feel pursued and wanted in over a decade. I really like the way she looks at me too. Outsiders looking in would assume that me and her were a couple or we were in the process of getting together. She invades my personal space and initiates hugs with me and she compliments me on how good I smell every time I see her. I don't know anything about her chart except that she is an Aquarius sun. My intuition tells me she has Moon in Taurus like me. I have had moon conjunct moon in synastry and I feel that vibe with this girl. She is very comfortable with me and has been since we met.

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posted April 22, 2022 04:28 AM            

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Attraction love is mystery. It's a mystery who we love & are attracted too & why we love. Maybe it is possible it's past lives & connection we have had with others & feel comfortable with others. Maybe we were our loves in past lives.

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