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Topic: How do you cope with extreme loneliness and despair?
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aquaguy91
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posted April 26, 2022 11:22 PM
  
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aquaguy91
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posted April 26, 2022 11:41 PM
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saronna
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From: Sydney Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 27, 2022 07:11 AM
I have alot of loneliness & despair. I'm sick & sleep most of the day. I'm not well too. I listen to music & it helps me not to feel so lonely & feel better. I don't drink & don't get high because I'm very tired & sleep most of the day. I go on Facebook & watch funny videos it makes me laugh & not to feel so much despair. & I have a coffee & a sweet & sit on my sofa when I'm awake & write. I try prayer & meditation & it helps me cope with feeling so much loneliness & despair. I come & post here in Lindaland & it helps me cope.
Prayer & meditation helps me to cope & not think too much & fears & feelings & living in imagination & to find balance. I'm too sick to do art anymore & sometimes to get out of bed. Sometimes I think I'm mentally ill. I don't know whats real. Maybe only love is real. I wanted to meet my soulmate when I was 17 & I met him but I don't know if he's real & if there's love at first sight if it was real. I don't know if he's my soulmate. I don't know it's like I'm losing my mind & only sanity to my mind is prayer & meditation I do everyday morning when I wake up. I have lost my mind I don't know if there's twin soul & soulmate.
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anonymidarkness
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posted April 27, 2022 09:16 AM
I go through it, I wallow in it, suffer it, weep cry do everything I feel like doing until it disappears...I have found it disappears at some point...then I go again!IP: Logged |
saronna
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From: Sydney Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 27, 2022 10:43 AM
I wake up in the morning & go through it then it stops & I go through it again.IP: Logged |
saronna
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From: Sydney Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 27, 2022 08:41 PM
I couldn't get out of bed this morning. I have so much despair this morning but I got out of bed & did prayer & meditation & had a shower & I feel better. I'm going to listen to music it helps with lonliness.IP: Logged |
saronna
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From: Sydney Australia
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posted April 27, 2022 08:57 PM
Aquaguy91 you are not alone I feel extreme loneliness & despair. If it wasn't for Lindaland & prayer & meditation & music I wouldn't be able to cope & can't see the reason for anything. I'm not well. I stay in bed & helps me to rest my mind & body & not have so much lonliness & despair. I'm going to have something to eat & coffee. I don't feel like eating anymore. I use to wear makeup & feel happy but I can just manage to have a shower brush my teeth & do prayer & meditation. It's a hard day today but I will listen to music even if I can't eat drink today. There are days I can't see the reason for anything so much despair & lonliness but I get out of bed & shower & do prayer & meditation & it helps to feel better about myself & self love. But sometimes I think what's the reason for anything & self love. But I know how I feel & my feelings of loneliness & despair will pass & feeling there's no reason for anything I go through it & come through it to see another day. & there will be times when I feel better & times I feel so much despair & loneliness.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 28, 2022 08:49 AM
You are gonna hate this answer and hate me for giving it but you can't punch me over
the computer( a joke)I say this to myself and people close to me. There are people in jail who are happy and people with all sorts of things who are happy and the one and only answer (in my opinion and experience) is a personal relationship with Jesus. He can be everything to you---marriage partner, mother, father and best friend. On the earth, I really miss a dog but the person I live with doesn't want one. I am serious about a dog. On the earth, they fill so many needs. I always say that a dog can be anything to you. This is not a joke but a real opinion. However, please never consider suicide. God really loves you and even though I am in the computer, I do too!!!! ------------------
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aquaguy91
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From: Uranus
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 28, 2022 10:56 AM
Ami,
Thanks. Love you too. I honestly have a hard time believing in God anymore. I feel so alone in life. My life is experiencing negative emotions and pain. That's it.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 28, 2022 03:14 PM
Yea, God is easy to talk about when you are not really hurting but hard when you feel despair!------------------
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saronna
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From: Sydney Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 28, 2022 08:56 PM
I didn't know life was pain & suffering. I wonder why there is pain & suffering. Why there is pain & suffering on earth. I wonder what happiness is. There are moments I feel happy like having a shower & resting in bed & writing & enjoying the quiet at home. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted April 28, 2022 10:32 PM
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aquaguy91
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posted April 28, 2022 10:47 PM
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saronna
Knowflake Posts: 1497
From: Sydney Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 29, 2022 05:29 AM
It's really hard to feel good when you're physical sick it affects mental mind & depression. I have 12th house Pisces & it has alot to do with mental illness & experience. Feeling good fresh & clean when I was in hospital with OT occupational therapist & they help me shower & change into clean clothes & put make up on. I don't feel loving inside & out. But I try not to worry about how I look outside. it's hard to change my thoughts & feelings when I don't feel good & so sick but I try to change my thoughts & feelings of not feeling good with having a shower & getting fresh & clean. & I try to rest & relax & do things that I can listen to music & relax in bed.
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aquaguy91
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From: Uranus
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posted April 29, 2022 10:28 AM
I was just thinking about one of my last roommates and his girlfriend. This guy was the biggest jerk. A total narcissist. Everything was about him and he could only see things from his narrow perspective. But he was also 6'5", in perfect shape, and really good looking. He also fit the prototype of the frat boy jock from a rich family. Therefore, it shouldn't come as any surprise that he had a gorgeous girlfriend. But what was remarkable to me was how she was actually a great person. I never knew a beautiful girl could be so nice and down to earth. She was very much a feminine help mate and tried to make her boyfriend's life easier from what I saw. I always envied him and still do to this day. It's not that I think he shouldn't have all that because he is the biggest douchebag, but it's really hard for me to understand why a guy like him gets everything when I can't even get average women to invest in me beyond a one-word text. That's how irrelevant I am. That's how I know I'm low value in women's eyes. A guy like me can only dream of dating and having sex with women like my ex roommate's girlfriend. That reality is as far away from me as Pluto is from the sun.IP: Logged |
saronna
Knowflake Posts: 1497
From: Sydney Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 29, 2022 06:40 PM
I didn't really have boyfriends with 7th house empty & friends but my sister's & family with sun in third house. & no children with empty 5th house Leo. I try to have fun. I grew up in a religious home & miss having fun & enjoying life. I was 36 & I started to have fun with soulmate game. & to have fun with my south node in Leo 5th house & north node in Aquarius 10th house Capricorn & not be so serious & take life to serious & to have fun. It was so serious growing up in a religious home I don't know how to play soulmate game.
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saronna
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From: Sydney Australia
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posted April 29, 2022 07:51 PM
You are special aquaguy91. You will meet someone for you. A sexy lady a soulmate.
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married11years
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posted April 29, 2022 11:32 PM
aquaguy91, your other post you mentioned about your 12th house and Neptune. Is Neptune strong in your chart? Look at the aspects. If it is, then maybe women don't hate you like you think, but it the Neptune that cloud you to give you that voice to you think that they hate you. If this make sense? What is your Neptune sign, and what planets your 12th house, if you don't mine sharing.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 12533
From: Uranus
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 30, 2022 03:02 PM
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Originally posted by married11years:
aquaguy91, your other post you mentioned about your 12th house and Neptune. Is Neptune strong in your chart? Look at the aspects. If it is, then maybe women don't hate you like you think, but it the Neptune that cloud you to give you that voice to you think that they hate you. If this make sense? What is your Neptune sign, and what planets your 12th house, if you don't mine sharing.
Sun conjunct Saturn in the 12th house. The Sun is my 7th house ruler. My Neptune is in the 11th house conjunct Mercury and Uranus (my chart ruler). These 3 planets form a Capricorn stellium and trine my 3rd house Taurus Moon. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 12533
From: Uranus
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posted April 30, 2022 03:03 PM
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Originally posted by saronna:
You are special aquaguy91. You will meet someone for you. A sexy lady a soulmate.
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