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posted May 20, 2022 11:24 AM            

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So, now that I finally have a lady in my life I can 100% confirm that women really do become interested in a guy the moment he is taken off the market. I never got this much attention from women when I was perpetually dateless. WTH?

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posted May 20, 2022 03:51 PM            

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Hi aquaguy91, good to see you’re doing well. It’s a wonderful feeling when you have a special connection with someone. Just don’t forget you were always worthy of this attention. Sometimes you just have to be patient and wait until the right person comes along.

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posted May 20, 2022 05:15 PM            

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I've seen that in action. I think it's an immature competition between girls (many who hate other girls, and often themselves, no matter how narcissistic they act), and some never outgrow it no matter how old they get (and it seems all the women you know are of the immature kind). Many will want to hurt HER (and prove themselves "better" by taking you from her), and plenty will want to hurt BOTH of you. Trying to "trade up" for someone more beautiful would be ill-advised as such a one is certainly into mind games and drama, a spiteful girl in a woman's body, and it's just not worth it (unless you're into the same kind of mind games as plenty of guys are).

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posted May 20, 2022 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I've seen that in action. I think it's an immature competition between girls (many who hate other girls, and often themselves, no matter how narcissistic they act), and some never outgrow it no matter how old they get (and it seems all the women you know are of the immature kind). Many will want to hurt HER (and prove themselves "better" by taking you from her), and plenty will want to hurt BOTH of you. Trying to "trade up" for someone more beautiful would be ill-advised as such a one is certainly into mind games and drama, a spiteful girl in a woman's body, and it's just not worth it (unless you're into the same kind of mind games as plenty of guys are).

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Oh, I'm sorry if you misunderstood me. I wasn't referring to women I know personally. I was mainly talking about random women I cross paths with in my day to day life. I get way more smiles and more eye contact and even compliments on my scent or clothes. Basically, I can perceive that more women are noticing me now.

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posted May 20, 2022 05:30 PM            

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And I don't plan to pass up a real connection for a random hot woman. It's just been a nice change of pace to feel seen after feeling invisible for so long.

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posted May 20, 2022 10:07 PM            

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Interesting.

Hope it works out for the both of you.

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posted May 21, 2022 09:51 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
So, now that I finally have a lady in my life I can 100% confirm that women really do become interested in a guy the moment he is taken off the market. I never got this much attention from women when I was perpetually dateless. WTH?

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I think it's probably the confidence you got from this that makes women notice you more.Women can feel when someone is desperate and when someone is satisfied and at peace with what he has and they like it.It happens to women too when they are single and desperate,men seem repelled by them,even if they are the nicest person.Sad but true.

I'm very happy for you btw!!

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posted May 31, 2022 10:26 AM            

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I had a huge fight with the lady I was seeing last night. She led me to believe she felt a connection and that she saw a future for us and then come to find out she was dating another guy behind my back and she just wanted to be friends all of a sudden. And wouldn't you know, I was the bad guy for being upset at her deception and dishonesty.

We were talking on the phone for hours almost every evening and we met in person multiple times and apparently none of that meant anything to her. I figure this is it for me. I'm never coming back from this hurt. And the worst part about it all was having to hear her gaslighting and lies last night. Unbelievable.

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posted May 31, 2022 10:34 AM            

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I just can't get over how warped this woman's priorities were. She was obsessed with not being a wh*re. But guess what? In my mind, a woman is a wh*re when she emotionally cheats on the guy she claims is her soulmate behind his back and then gaslights and makes him out to be the villain when he is hurt and calling her on all her lies. That's a bad woman. That's low down dirty behavior.

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posted May 31, 2022 10:43 AM            

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One thing I've seen time and time again is women have an uncanny ability to rewrite history to suit their own agendas. To hear this woman gaslight and claim she hadn't done anything wrong was so hurtful and rage inducing. Any woman anywhere would be incredibly hurt if a man she liked did her the way this woman did me. I know that for a fact. So I just can't hear that nonsense from her and just keep my mouth shut.

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posted June 01, 2022 02:33 PM            

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I am soooo sorry, AG. People can be SUCH jerks!!!!!

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posted June 01, 2022 03:08 PM            

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I am soooo sorry, AG. People can be SUCH jerks!!!!!

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Thanks Ami. I'm not going to lie. It hurts, but not as bad as it would have in the past. I kind of expect it now. The thing that bothers me the most is how people can just lie like that. She outright told me she felt we had a special connection and she had feelings. Those were her exact words. We talked on the phone for hours over and over. We met in person multiple times. There was a great deal of intimacy between us. And then the other day she just coldly told me she did nothing wrong by seeing another guy and she didn't owe me anything because we hadn't verbally agreed to be exclusive. I'm sorry, but that is complete bullsh** and any woman alive would be hurt if a man she liked intensely emotionally bonded with her for a month and then just ditched her like that. Somehow, I don't think any woman would be satisfied with a guy's explanation if he said and did the same things to her. The only take away is women don't consider men's emotions at all. Talk about a huge double standard.

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posted June 01, 2022 03:13 PM            

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I have seen how women react when guys treat them the exact same way they treat me. It isn't pretty. They get big mad. But I'm crazy and insane for just stating the facts and calling a spade a spade.

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posted June 10, 2022 02:35 PM            

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Calling a spade a spade is dangerous

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