posted September 21, 2007 06:01 AM            

Hope that you're enjoying the time with your son and drinking lots of caffeine. He's adorable!

Everyone missed you terribly!

posted September 21, 2007 06:29 AM            

so i guess in my case is a one-way soulmate?
meaning that i have to suffer?
with my luck i had to find the cruel/tough lesson soulmate instead of the loving one...

LG says we can break the karma by forgiving the other person in order to break the cycle ,so in the next life you can be with that person in a happy relationship.

i dont wanna wait next life tho! lol! if i have a choice..

did u look at the charts i sent you?
yes, we have NN and SN oppsite each others.
me,NN is taurus 7 deg him NN in scorpio 12 deg. me, asc. leo 20 deg ,him asc aqua 12 deg. the scary thing is the conjunction in my 12th house, my karma 3811 w his mars and saturn.,even if is large- 3 deg from mars and 5 from saturn means i ll have to suffer by his hand?

posted September 21, 2007 08:08 AM              

IQ,
your baby is simply beautiful hope you´ll manage his lack of Libra placements :P

posted September 21, 2007 02:26 PM            

but i know he can t find the same connection he had with me. i just 'know'.

posted September 21, 2007 02:37 PM              

So, I only looked at conjunctions / oppositions with 0° orb and dw`s within 3° orb.

Here are my results:

Synastry 1:

0°-conjunctions/ oppositions:

His Sun conjunct her Isis
his Sun conjunct her Osiris
her Mars conjunct his Neptune
her Saturn conjunct his SN
his Saturn conjunct her Karma
her Neptune conjunct his ASC
his Neptune conjunct her ASC
her Pluto conjunct his MC
his Pluto conjunct her MC
her NN conjunct his ASC
her Amor conjunct his Juno
his Amor conjunct her Psyche
his Kaali conjunct her Isis
his Kaali conjunct her Osiris
her Venus opposite his Valentine

the DW`s:

her Neptune conjunct his ASc (0)
his Neptune conjunct her ASC (0)

her pluto sextile his ASC (0)
his Pluto sextile her ASC (2)

her NN sextile his Siva (1)
his NN sextile her Siva (1)

her Chiron trine hsi NN (2)
his Chiron square her NN (3)

her Pluto conjunct his MC (0)
his Pluto conjunct her MC (0)

her Neptune trine his IC (1)
his Neptune trine her IC (1)

her Rudra trine his Sun (0)
his Rudra sextile her Sun (0)

her Venus conjunct his Kaali (2)
his Venus opposite her Kaali (0)

her Parvati sextile his Rudra (2)
his Parvati trine her Rudra (0)

his Vertex conjunct her Eros (3)
her Vertex trine his Eros (1)

his PoF trine her PoF 81)

his Vertex conjunct her Vertex (2)

his Eros trine her Eros (0)

Synastry No 2:

exact conjunctions / oppositions:

her Venus conjunct his Mars
her Mars conjunct his SN
her Neptune conjunct his ASC
her PoF conjunct his Siva
his PoF conjunct her Siva
her Kaali conjunct his Psyche

her Saturn opposite his Kaali
his Parvati opposite her Chiron

The Double whammies:

her Sun trine his Amor (3)
his Amor conjunct her Sun (3)

her Mercury sextile his Karma (1)
his Mercury opposite her Karma (2)

her Saturn opposite his Kaali (0)
his Saturn square her Kaali (2)

her Neptune sextile his Juno (2)
his Neptune trine her Juno (3)

her Neptune square his Eros 82)
his Neptune trine her Eros (0)

her Pluto trine his Juno (2)
his Pluto opposite her Juno (1)

her NN conjunct his ASC (1)
his NN conjunct her DSC (2)

her NN square his IC (2)
his NN sextile her IC (0)

her Chiron trine his Vertex (0)
his Chiron trine her VErtex (3)

her PoF conjunct his Siva (0)
his PoF conjunct her Siva (0.00)

her Karma conjunct his Psyche 82)
his Karma conjunct her Psyche (2)

her Parvati opposite his Karma 82)
his Parvati trine her Karma (3)

his Valentine sextile her Valentine (1)

and there is also a wide NN-NN-opposition (5° - but that doesn`t count I guess).

Hmm, actually I am a bit surprised, how many exact aspects and dw`s I found. And some of them are even between the main bodies.

posted September 22, 2007 05:11 AM              

I have Pholus in Capricorn, 4th house in trine with Venus in Taurus, 8th house. It looks good, but I have no idea what that means. Where can I find explanation?

Thank you,
Natasha

posted September 24, 2007 10:17 AM              

However, I delved into that first synastry a bit more deeply. There are too many aspects to list them all, so I thought about using some different categories, like main aspects (exact aspects between main bodies, closest aspects from 0°00 - 0°10 and all conjunctions under 3° orb).

1. main aspects:
her Venus opposite his Valentine
her Mars sextile his Pluto
her Saturn conjunct his SN
his Saturn conjunct her Karma
her Pluto sextile his ASC
her NN conjunct his ASC

2. closest aspects (0°00 - 0°10)
his Karma trine her Chiron (0°01)
his Karma trine her Cupid (0°01)
her Pluto trine his Siva (0°03)
her Amor conjunct his Juno (0°04)
her Sun sextile his Rudra (0°05)
his IC square her Isis (0°05)
her Kaali sextile his Chiron (0°05)
her Saturn conjunct his SN (0°06)
his NN sextile her Juno (0°07)

3. Double Whammies

her Sun sextile his Rudra
his Sun trine her Rudra

her Venus conjunct his Kaali
his Venus opposite her Kaali

her Neptune conjunct his ASC
his Neptune conjunct her ASC

her Neptune trine his IC
his Neptune trine her IC

her Plut oconjunct his MC
his Pluto conjunct her MC

her NN sextile his Siva
his NN sextile her Siva

her ASC conjunct his ASC

her IC square his Osiris
his IC square her Osiris

her Eros trine his Eros

her Eros conjunct his Vertex
his Eros trine her Vertex

her Lust conjunct his Cupid
his Lust conjunct her Cupid

4. conjunctions within 3,5°
his Sun conjunct her Venus
his Sun conjunct her Isis
his Sun conjunct her Osiris
his Moon conjunct her Uranus
her Venus conjunct his Parvati
her Venus conjunct his Kaali
his Venus conjunct her Neptune
his Venus conjunct her NN
her Mars conjunct his Neptune
her Mars conjunct his Juno
his Mars conjunct her VAlentine
his Mars conjunct her Amor
her Saturn conjunct his SN
his Saturn conjunct her Karma
his Saturn conjunct her Kaali
her NN conjunct his ASC
her ASC conjunct his ASC
her Neptune conjunct his ASC
his Neptune conjunct her ASC
her Pluto conjunct his MC
his Pluto conjunct her Mc
her DC conjunct his PoM
his DC conjunct her Kaali
her Amor conjunct his Juno
his Amor conjunct her Psyche
her Juno conjunct his Eros
her Lust conjunct his Neptune
her Lust conjunct his ASC
her Lust conjunct his Cupid
his Cupid conjunct her Mars
his Cupid conjunct her Neptune
his cupid conjunct her NN
his Cupid conjunct her ASC

posted September 24, 2007 12:38 PM              

How was your Venus Retrograde ?

This Venus Retrograde had a Saturn Connection, and too many fated events were occuring all round.
My school classmate of 14 years met me on August 16th and on August 20th I hear from another friend that he passed away due to a heart attack. Fit and healthy, just 31 years old. No explanation from doctors whatsoever. Do souls just take an exit in these times when given a chance? Many people have had a bereavement. I attended atleast 4 funerals in thse 2 months.

A family friend had a bitter divorce in this period. Another divorcee got happily remarried too. Both events occured veru suddenly in end of August/Sept first week.

Financially, I was feeling strangulated till Venus went direct, after which the flow I am accustomed to returned albeit as a trickle. Possibly, Venus has to clear the position prior to going retrograde.
Several associates went through such tough patches too, even wealthy individuals were behaving a bit like normal middle class.

Nationwide in India, two top male film stars were arrested and jailed on old cases.
Saturns last punch in Leo?
Several Celebrity problems came to light apart from these two.

One cuplrit in this period is a Pandora-Anubis conjunction that has been going strong for quite sometime. Problems causing souls to choose death and rebirth as a solution seem to be the theme of this conjunction during the retrograde cycle.

Some disasters had a Saturn sq Siva component (Brazil, Thailand, Indonesia).

These are my personal observations of this period. We should be better equipped for the next retrograde of Mercury, Mars or Venus.

Happy events might occur when Venus goes direct and Saturn establishes itself in Virgo, a sign where it does not do too much damage. Saturn in Leo has been a nightmare.

posted September 24, 2007 01:56 PM              

thank you for your analysis.

As you may have seen in the above posts I have had a closer look at the synastries and some dw`s got "eliminated" due to being more strict with the orbs.

In the first synastry the Neptune-conjunct-ascendant- dw is under 1°.
Of the Pluto-Ascendant-dw one sextile is very exact, but the other sextile has an orb of 2°37, so it got eleminated, or can I still count it, because it is part of a dw?

"The DWs are to Neptune and Pluto which are the highest evolutionary planets discovered so far."
So, I guess this means they ARE meaningful when they appear in dw`s, despite them being generational planets, but then again the ASC moves so fast, so someone born later than me or him wouldn`t have had such an exact "hit".

" Plus there is a very strong tie up of Saturn-Karma and Sun-Isis/Osiris, indicating a very high chance of a twin soul relationship to go to higher dimensions."
*gulps* Well, I thought about this combination a lot, and finally came to the conclusion there may have been heavy Karma involved in that interaction. I also guess, his Sun exactly conjunct my Osiris, would make him, his self, seem to be like my ideal man.

"There is no exact Ascendant tie ups and this indicates that the couple cannot be twin souls."
So twinsouls always have an EXACT ascendant dw?

posted September 24, 2007 05:17 PM            

"Your North Node opposition is not valid by degree but possibly by sign. Are they in opposing signs?"
I am sorry, I typed in the wrong information. It is my Asc opposite her NN under 8 degrees which cannot be DW in my case. Well, they are in opposite signs. We do have MC semisquare Mc exact.

"Since you both are clearly soulmates, you must look into the Sabian Symbol meanings of the North Nodes and see if you can reconcile them. Reconciling paradoxes enhances enlightenment. I would like to see the Sabians of your North Nodes."
Well NNs are not in opposite signs but I am mentioning their positions anyway.
My NN Cancer 29°40'45 r in house 3
Her NN Sagittarius 10°03'41 end of house 5
and they are contraparallel within one degree.

In another thread you mentioned that you see something special in me with NN at 29° Cancer trine Asteroid DNA at 29° Scorpio.
Natally I have following Planets and Asteroids at 29 and 0 degres. May be they bring out any meanings.

True Node Cancer 29°40'45
DNA Scorpio 29°36'54

Angel Scorpio 29°36'54

Talent Aries 29°52'28

Nessus Taurus 29°08'16r

Venus Capricorn 00°28'43

Vertex Scorpio 00°22'23

Vesta Libra 00°33'18

posted September 25, 2007 05:32 AM            

I ve tried to put as many asteroids as I could but some were left out- maybe u cant load too many.

anyways i ll add by hand : my Osiris 23 capr
my Siva 2 virg
(his moon is 2 virg)
my Valent 11 taur

his Osiris 18 taur
his Siva 29 aqua
his Vale 10 pisc

I checked Tim W. ,he does say some soulmates are hard lessons...but do you have a way to descern from lookin at the syn chart the loving soulmates from the slapping in the face soulmates?the ones who last and work together in the relationship and the ones who are just a taste of Uranus leaving you bleeding inside,,,

posted September 25, 2007 07:27 AM              

the expert here is IQ of course,but if i were you, i would do the following,since it was IQ himself who said to do this,when searching important connections:

Look for the minimum 3-5 exact aspects between maibodies in sinastry:Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars/Saturn/Pluto/Asc/NN/Karma/Valentine.Then,try to search the other love asteroids.

The DRACOS are confirming many SM partnerships,so if you found the above in sinastry, you may want to look the Dracos also.
http://www.noendpress.com/pvachier/arabicparts/index.php

Go here and type in the 1st box:Aries 0º0´;in the 3rd box type in your NNºand sign and in the middle box,type in the planet/asteroids you want to calculate.
Do this for your placements and the person you want to compare with.Then,search for tight connections (0-1ºorb)between DRACO-Draco and Draco-Natal.

It gives a lot of work,but in the end, you might find if he can really be or not your best SM in this lifetime.

posted September 25, 2007 08:23 AM              

I just had some more thoughts about what you said about the synastries, I posted.

You said the 2nd synastry cannot be a Twin-soul-connection, because there are no exact ASC-tie-ups.
Well, maybe I forgot to post it, but in the 2nd case there are some exact ASC-aspects:

her Pluto sextile his ASC (0°58)
his Eros square her ASC (0°09)

Or do those ASC-aspects need to be conjunctions?

So, if I find an exact conjunction or aspect to ASC AND I find three dw`s (within 2°), of which at least one must be a dw with ASC or NN (or Moon?) and maybe some exact aspects to Karma, Isis and Osiris, then this indicates the possibility of very close soulmates?

Oh and I noticed something interesting concerning the first synastry; her Atlantis is exactly conjunct his ASC and his Atlantis is solstice conjunct her ASC (1°).

Sorry, if I am being a nuisance with my questions, but I just want to understand, so I can apply those rules to my own analysis. I hope you don´t mind.

BTW I also wanted to tell you I think your son looks absolutely adorable.
And I wanted to say that I am sorry for the hard time you have had to go through, but this VEnus-retograde really was a tough one for many people, I think. So many upheavals, turmoil, losses, pain, no matter where I looked. It was hard to get through this one. (The fact that transit Pluto was exactly conjunct my Suna nd Mercury didn`t make things easier for me).

And I definitely agree, Saturn in Leo has really been a nightmare.

DD

posted September 25, 2007 12:23 PM              

Sabian of your NN: A Daughter of The American Revolution.

Sabian of your friend: Left side of an Archaic Temple has a lamp burning in a container shaped like a human being.

This is a difficult one to interpret. The Left Side is the feminine energy side of things. Lamp in a temple refers to enlightening knowledge. Shaped like a human?
Knowledge of the Left Brained Energies and Feminine Qualities that cause human enlightenment.

I feel that she has a divine purpose to discover enlightening feminine energy qualities in herself and she needs a "revolutionary" minded spouse to help her in this. Since your divine purpose is more towards revolutionary ideals and service, the relationship would work smoothly.

This would make sense to me if she is also a Pakistani in Pakistan and does not want to be forced into a marriage by her family with an unevolved cousin or fedual family friend's son.

posted September 25, 2007 12:43 PM              

I tried summarize your tips about analysing synastries regarding soulmate-potential and I came up with 5 analysis-steps.

1. Exact aspects between Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, Saturn, Pluto, NN, ASC, Karma and Valentine (at least 3 aspects required)

2. Double whammies under 2°
- do same planets aspects like Karma trine Karma count as double whammies, too?

3. at least one double whammie with ASC or NN

4. at least one exact aspect to ASC

5. aspects within 2° to:
North Node
Karma
Isis
Osiris
- I am not sure about this one.

I thought about this a bit, and I was thinking that it maybe is not enough to have any aspects to the ascendant like sextile or trine, but maybe there should be at least one conjunction.
Or let`s put it differently, since conjunctions are so strong aspects, a synastry with double whammies and exact ASC-aspects made of conjunctions would clearly win over an exact ASC-sextile.

Would you agree? Or disagree?

posted September 25, 2007 12:47 PM              

However, you have Ceres conjunction, indicating mutual nurturing. The Jupiter-NNode conjunction means that the man will grow in wisdom from your highest spiritual path. He is supposed to learn from you. Not to hurt you and not to be your perfect boyfriend or husband. Soul Mates can also be in a student teacher relationship or platonic relationship.

There is however a strong sexual element due to his Lust conjunct your Eros in the syanstry.
Your Lust/Venus conjuncts his Venus and your Aphrodite conjuncts his Eros. Hence he might ["MIGHT", not "WILL"] have considered you only for temporary sexual gratification than true love.

Also, you love him more than he can love you because it is your Valentine conjunct his Sun and not otherwise.

posted September 25, 2007 01:39 PM            

his moon sextile my mars 1.5deg.
my moon square his mars 1 deg

posted September 25, 2007 02:19 PM              

Rule 1:
There has to be atleast one exact conjunction or exact trine of Ascendant of either person to either of: Asc, Sun, Moon, Venus, North Node, Saturn, Pluto, Karma, Valentine and Amor.
Exact means 1 degree either way or 2 degree orb to the max.

Rule 2:
There has to be atleast one exact conjunction or trine of Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, Saturn, Pluto, Karma with the other's Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, Saturn, Pluto, Karma.

If Rule 1 and Rule 2 both are true, then we can proceed to find double whammies or links for several other asteroids and we can include Jupiter, Uranus, Neptune, Nessus, Pholus and Chiron in the calculations.
Best Asteroids to be used:
Karma, Valentine, Eros, Psyche, Amor, Isis, Osiris, Siva, Kaali, Union, Juno and Ceres .

The more the trines and sextiles subsequently, the happier the soul mate relationship is likely to be.

Simple rule, just give plus 2 for every conjunction and trine, plus 1 for every sextile and minus one for every square or opposition. Include the points for Rule one and two.
Give yourself a plus 5 for every double whammy irrespective of square/opposition.
Use only 2 degree orbs.

If you score over 30 points, there is a tremendous happy soul mate potential.

20-30 points means definitely worth exploring the relationship.

Below 20, create the Draconic Chart and see if you can get 7 points from Draconic A to Chart B or Draconic B to Chart A. If not, then it is not likely to be a worthwhile soul mate relationship.

Rule 1 and Rule 2is breached, it is a waste of time to continue checking in the hope of a happy soul mate relationship. It would be just a simple relationship that would teach lessons for the next relationship.