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venusmars
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posted July 21, 2008 12:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusmars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there..

I don't know much about lillith and I want to learn about it since my lillith aspects my bf's venus by opposition trines his neptune sq.his uranus and sextiles his pluto.Also his lillith oppose my juno.
These aspects are too much because they are exact degrees.

I couldn't find much info about it,will be glad if you help me..

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venusmars
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posted July 21, 2008 07:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusmars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
anyone??

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koiflower
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posted July 22, 2008 02:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for koiflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

hi...!! Just my 2 cents worth while I have 3 spare minutes...

A knowflake mentioned just recently that Liltih square Venus (natal) can make it difficult for that person to tell another their feelings.

sorry, that's all I have time for...

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posted July 22, 2008 05:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Think of the dark side of the moon, if you think of Lilith.

She represents archetypical femininity and emotions, so deeply under the surface, so strong and archetypical, that they seem dangerous. Their subcionscious strength and intensity threatens our rational side (Sun), as they easily could overpower us (or rather Sun), if we allowed them to live.
The dark side of the Moon is actually very much like Pluto, powerful, intense, obsessive, completely emotional, and she knows the truth and she will not be satisfied by anything else than true love, true freedom, truth.
But the truth hurts, Lilith sometimes tells us things we don`t want to hear.
Lilith also can seem ruthless in her attempt to express herself and we easily scare others with our "All-or-nothing" attitude, when we express LIlith.
Lilith don`t make compromises.

Either she will be on top or she will be gone (Think of Adam, her first husband, who couldn`t cope with her power).

If Lilith comes on too strong, tapping in too deep subconscious fears of others, those others may drive her out - so she can easily be driven into the role of an outcast. But usually she rather is an outcast than compromising her own truth.

Basic line is usually we are scared of LIlith and what she represents, because it threatens our rational balance and she demands too much honesty of us, but on the other hand we are insanely attracted to the "wild woman" in us.

There must be a reason she also relates to those strong feelings of attraction or repulsion she evokes in men and women. It`s all or nothing with her, you can`t stay indifferent.

DD

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venusmars
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posted July 22, 2008 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusmars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks both..

so my lillith oppose his venus is pretty much like pluto oppose venus.Also his pluto conjunct my venus in 4 deg..hmm interesting.

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darkdreamer
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posted July 22, 2008 06:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, Lilith is Lilith, not Pluto. I just compared it because both are very intense, subconscious energies.


Strange thing about Lilith.
Last week I was with my friend in a bookstore - we have very different tastes-, and she usually never suggests anything to me, but suddenly she exclaimed "Lilith" fromt he other side of the room, and I was like hit in my solarplexus, and echoed equally loud and dazzled: Lilith.
She apparently had found a book with that title.

But neither of us bought it. But today she called me to say that we both should buy the book, read it and talk about it. Something we have NEVER done.

But it seems a Lilith-time. BTW one of the ecclipses will take place on my Psyche-Lilith-conjunction. lol

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venusmars
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posted July 22, 2008 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusmars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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venus in gemini
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posted July 22, 2008 07:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus in gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
DD,
After reading your interpretation of Lilith, I guess our aspect in our synastry makes sense. Sigh....

His Destinn conjuncts my Lilith - 16 Ari

So even though he is drawn to me, he is also afraid. The connection is very strong, I feel like we merge. There is a sense of "oneness", and I am very much "heart and soul" with him. I have my own Moon Conjunct Pluto, so I know that's just how I am. We have Moon conjunct Pluto in our synastry also. So I guess that adds to the intensity of it all.

Thanks for such an awesome interpretation. I learn so much from reading your posts.

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venusmars
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posted July 22, 2008 07:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusmars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes I agree with venus in gemini.I like reading your posts DD. Thanks

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alvarella777
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posted July 22, 2008 09:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My last, very intense and sadly ended relationship had my BM Lilith exactly cj. my BF's Sun. And, in retrospect, this seems to be one of the more effective conjunctions we had in Synastry. To make a complicated story short: He basically was afraid of me, the "Lilith"-woman - could not trust me and always tried to "fight" me in a way. I also have the impression that I just came on too strong for him - and I was disappointed (very much disappointed!) by his "lightheartedness" and "thoughtlessness"). There was much (mental) aggression in the air, and a constant fight for (mental) spremacy. On the other hand ... there was clearly a strong fascination and obsession with each other. He told me that he liked my so called independence, and he definitely was fascinated by my strength (also: as far as erotic things go).

Funny footnote: In his own natal chart, he has his Juno closely cj. his BM Lilith ... so ... a serious relationship for him is somehow meant to be a "Lilith"-character woman....

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Azalaksh
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posted July 22, 2008 09:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There are a zillion Lilith links in this thread, courtesy tigerlily
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/018092.html

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Neptune's Muse
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posted July 23, 2008 06:24 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Brilliant! Thanks Zala!

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venusmars
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posted July 24, 2008 04:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusmars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow..many information. thanks Azalaksh and everyone..

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posted June 11, 2011 11:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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