| Author | Topic:   Vesta in synastry | 
	| Lara Newflake
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 |  posted August 08, 2008 07:23 PM       lol
 he just texted me to say " i had a REAL emergency'... which of course didn't allow him to text me for 5 secs to say 'cant do tonight'.
 It's a big deal for me.. l organized a babysitter and turned down a great party!   Yeah, we arranged to meet up tonight at 8pm and then nothing! Idiot is right... and he now says "you freaked me out totally now by leaving me a text with unjustified abuse!WTF?
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	| darkdreamer unregistered
 |  posted August 08, 2008 07:28 PM     WTF?
 You had and have every right to be angry and upset, and instead of apologizing, he only makes accusations? And doesn`t even EXPLAIN? I mean, it can be that there was an emergency, but then he should have left you a short message that he can`t make it and he could explain it to you, now, (maybe not in depth but so you know it was a REAL remergency). But the way he reacts, well, just forget him, Iw ould say. :9 Diandra,
 I reconsidered what I said about Vesta. I do think Vesta can also signify vows, loyalties and commitment. But it would have to be a deeply spiritual commitment with honesty, not one you make just to satisfy some social expectations. IP: Logged | 
	| EighthMoon Knowflake
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 |  posted August 08, 2008 07:32 PM       Awwwww, Lara.  I'm sorry it didn't work out, hun!  I'd still want to know what his REAL emergency was though...I'm curious like that.
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	| Lara Newflake
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 |  posted August 08, 2008 07:36 PM       Doesn't even explain!
 All he said is - "right for your information l have had a really serious emergency today that l have had to deal with"lol
 He didn't respond to my texts so l found him on FaceBook and emailed him on there and now he thinks i'm stalking him LOL
 hahahaha me stalk someone? (i'm laughing so much i'm choking)!!
 Anyway, he says he's freaked out by my hunting him down on Facebook which is hilarious as all l had to do is type in his name! lol Yeah, that one is for the shredder   IP: Logged | 
	| EighthMoon Knowflake
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 |  posted August 08, 2008 07:52 PM       Ohhhhhhh yeah...glad to hear you're moving on.  Bigger and better things around the corner, I'm sure!
 Just be sure to take pics so we can guess their signs too!  LOL!    8th ETA:  Sorry for hijacking your thread, DD!  And now, Ladies and Gentlemen, back to our regularly scheduled programming "Vesta In Synastry!"    IP: Logged | 
	| Lara Newflake
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 |  posted August 09, 2008 02:50 AM       8th LOL!!
 ok I will put up a pic later of a friend whose Asc I don't know... ! IP: Logged | 
	| darkdreamer unregistered
 |  posted August 09, 2008 09:29 AM     Lara,
 yes, for the shredder.   You deserve much better.But at least he sufficed to get your mind a little bit off Mike, didn`t he?
  Eighth, too late, the magic`s gone. The goddess has left the building.   No seriously, no problem with "highjacking" this thread, I think I even did it myself.   But I come to think that Vesta may play a bigger role than I at first thought. IP: Logged | 
	| bvanzy unregistered
 |  posted August 09, 2008 11:00 AM     How about Vesta in one person conjunct Venus/Pluto in another? I think I read somewhere (might have been here
  ) that a Pluto Vesta hard aspect or conjunction means that the Vesta person fell for the Pluto person at a time of, and perhaps because of, great trauma. The Venus would just soften the afterlove I suppose, not sure how Vesta/Pluto would develop the synastry though. If anyone knows of a list of Vesta synastry aspects, I'd be interested in Vesta/Mars. I know Magi has a high opinion of Vesta too. IP: Logged | 
	| Diandra23 unregistered
 |  posted August 09, 2008 05:50 PM     Hi girls
 Lara im so sorry..cause mostly you had such high expectations on seeing your conections and the chart of 1sT Meeting   But nothing happens by chance dont worry Now you know he is an idiot without having to spend a hole friday night with him - who probably is one of those guys who simply adore to be flatered by women. You´re right:it´s his loss! DD, oh now Vesta for me is even more interesting   IP: Logged | 
	| jane Knowflake
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 |  posted August 10, 2008 02:33 PM       We have Vesta aspects. His Vesta forms a grand trine with my Sun-Neptune & Moon, and also opposes my Pluto, making a kite. His Vesta = my Sun/Moon midpoint. (all orbs under 3º)
 Not as much action from my side. My Vesta trines his NN. Natally I have Vesta conjunct my Dsc, so I guess his active Vesta in synastry makes him become the vestal virgin I seek.       Lara - I'm sorry he wasted your time, but lol at your text. I know you're a Taurus, but do you have an Aries Mercury? DD - interesting solstice info.       IP: Logged | 
	| Lara Newflake
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 |  posted August 10, 2008 07:16 PM       yup diandra... thank god l could stay at home and get my LL fix instead of going out with a knob
  Jane - mercury in taurus, conjunct sun (2deg) BUT both in 1st house, ruled by Aries hehe!
 Keep sane girls - the world is FULL of insane men!   IP: Logged | 
	| jane Knowflake
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 |  posted August 10, 2008 11:37 PM       Lara - Oh, I see. I have a first house Mercury too, so I know where you're coming from.
  Mine's sometimes sneaky though b/c of it being in Scorpio. When I'm really mad, I'll often play it cool. I need to know the full story and people aren't generally forthcoming if they know you're imagining their head on a platter. I respect your direct (1st house), what-you-see-is-what-you-get (Taurus) Mercury. IP: Logged | 
	| vesta-sister unregistered
 |  posted August 11, 2008 07:59 PM     Vesta is almost always connected (0, 180, 90, 135 or 45 degrees away from) to any of the following:
 The other person’s Moon. The other person’s Vesta.
 The other person’s Lunar Nodal axis. The other person’s angles.
 The other person’s Sun
 The other person’s Sun/Moon midpoint If you are looking at a composite or Davison chart then Vesta is almost always connected to any of the following: The Aries Point (00 Cardinal, 15 Fixed) Is not connected with any planet (without planetary ptolemaic aspect) The Moon. The Lunar Nodal axis.
 The angles
 The Sun The Sun/Moon midpoint All of these factors play probably the most important role in the creation of a commited, passionate and intimate relationship. There are some other planets that I have often seen tied in to Vesta as well and they certainly add an interesting dynamic. They are listed in order of what I have noticed more as a happening factor in relationships. These significations may also apply to the natal chart and transits. Vesta-Uranus: Sparks fly. Strong sexual energy as well flirtatiousness. Experimentation. Break up or make up. Vesta-Venus: Strong appreciation for each other’s sense of beauty and grace. Vesta-Saturn: Marriage or something officialized like that—comfort and stability within the relationship. Vesta-Neptune: Either the ultra-romance, or the ultimate disillusion. Blinded by love or blind of love. I have seen many affairs involving Vesta-Neptune. You love someone but you don’t know why… Love at first sight. Vesta-Mars: Strong sexual energy. Ego gets involved. Break up or make up. Vesta-Pluto: Profound experiences. Deep feelings. Relationships created from some sort of turmoil. Vesta-Mercury: Intellectual attraction. IP: Logged | 
	| Lara Newflake
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 |  posted August 11, 2008 08:55 PM       sun square moon
 Sun trine ASC
 Sun semi square Vesta
 Sun opposes Vertex
 Moon quintile Moon
 Moon sextile ASC
 moon conjunct AC
 Moon square MC
 Moon trine VErtex
 venus square vesta
 mars trine vesta
 AC conjunct AC
 ASC square MC
 MC square NOdes
 MC quintile Vesta
 NOdes sextile NOdes
 NOdes square Vesta
 Vesta trine uranus exact
 Vesta trine neptune
 Vesta sextile neptune exact
 Vesta opposing pluto exact
 Vesta sextile VEsta
 Vesta trine Vertex
 Vesta square Sun-Moon-mp
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	| bvanzy unregistered
 |  posted August 13, 2008 07:16 AM     Thanks for that info Vesta-sister.
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	| Lara Newflake
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 |  posted August 15, 2008 05:41 PM       ok i'm back and bored so i'm having a more comprehensive stab at this!
 My Sun square his moon (2)His Sun trine my AC (2)
 His Sun biquintile my MC (2)
 His Sun sesisquare my vesta (1)
 My Sun opposing his vertex (0)
 My sun opposing his mercury (0)
 His Moon quintile my moon (0)
 His Moon semisextile my MC (2)
 His Moon trine my vertex (2)
 His AC conjunct my AC (2)
 My AC square his MC (1)
 His NN sextile my AC (0)
 My NN square his MC (4)
 His NN semisquare my vesta (2)
 His Vertex semisextile my vertex (1)
 His Vesta sextile my sun/moon mp (1)
 My Vertex sextile his venus (2)
 My Vesta opposing his Pluto (0)
 DW’sVesta trine Jupiter (0)
 Vesta quincunx Jupiter (0)
 Vertex semisquare juno (0)
 Vertex conjunct juno (1) both in 7th
 Vesta trine Neptune (3)
 Vesta sextile Neptune (0)
 Vertex on sun/moon looks pretty good! IP: Logged | 
	| Lara Newflake
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 |  posted August 17, 2008 03:39 AM       bump
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	| Ami Anne Moderator
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 |  posted June 12, 2011 09:10 PM       Bump asteroid forum
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	| Odette Moderator
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 |  posted February 08, 2013 08:47 PM       3rd *bump*
 Any thoughts on Vesta conjunct Pluto (Scorpio) in synastry?
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	| Odette Moderator
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 |  posted February 08, 2013 08:49 PM       DP
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	| Canadiangirl Knowflake
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 |  posted December 31, 2013 07:53 PM       What about vesta on each other midheaven's in synastry? Is that a normal contact? We also have a dw of venus trine vesta and venus oppose vesta. Would a saturn square vesta mean never officially getting together?
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	| IndigoDirae Knowflake
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 |  posted January 12, 2014 12:52 AM       We've got VESTA-LILITH and VESTA-VENUS. His Vesta, my Lilith; my Vesta, his Venus. Also conjunct KARMA. His VESTA is in the same sign as my KARMA, though.
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	| 8ofHearts Knowflake
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 |  posted March 19, 2016 04:42 AM       Wow Indigo. In case you see this...I have the very same configuration with someone I just met.
 His Vesta conj my Lilith/North Node & trine my Mars
 My Vesta conj his Venus/Pluto
 Our Vestas trine in Virgo and Cap
 How did it work out for you?
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	| Randall Webmaster
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 |  posted March 19, 2016 12:05 PM       Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.
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