posted May 06, 2008 06:47 PM              

A woman's BML squaring a man's Saturn?
A man's BML conjuncting a woman's Ascendant?
A man's BML trining a woman's Sun?

Any thoughts?

posted May 06, 2008 07:27 PM              

I guess I'm pretty aggressive sexually, and I do tend to scare some men away... but I always attributed that to my Pluto conjunct Scorpio ASC. hmm! but, not just the macho types, also the shy, gentle, nice-guy types. complicated! so, what guys are left for me? lol. I kind of have to tone it down a bit so guys feel more at ease with me.

I guess I'd sayd I'm pretty creative. I play bass in a band, and have always had an artistic streak.

posted April 22, 2022 09:40 AM            

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Originally posted by alvarella777:
The incarnation of a self-confident, extremely independent and strong woman. Maybe you tend to "scare away" some of the more immature guys, the ones who cling to conservative patterns of "male behaviour", like: Macho-style - I guess there could be great difficulties with these types, since you might act quite straightforward in matters of love, not at all the sweet "doll type". But ... you might exude a strong fascination and a female (sexual?) power that could attract more evolved types of men...? STRONG instinct of self, in any case, not the kind of girl who is to be trifled with in matters of love and quite self-confident in the erotic field ... ;-)

(Says a woman who has a strong Leo-BM Lilith cj. her Aphrodite and her Sun/Pluto-Midpoint. I just happened to "scare away" a guy, who was quite the Macho-type - and his Sun was cj. my BM Lilith ...)

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This tracks with many women who have this aspect: Megan Fox, Kylie and Kris Jenner, Nicki Minaj, Kylie Minogue. All pretty "intimidating" women by dumb social standards. An exception would be Lana del Rey, and perhaps Goldie Hawn, but they still have a ton of sexual magnetism. Anne Boleyn also had Venus/BML. So does Amy Poehler, and her public image at least involves satirizing female stereotypes.

I'm trying to figure out what this indicates in the charts of men... Lewis Carroll, Anton Chekhov, John Keats, John COltrane, Michel Foucault, Descartes, Rainer Maria Rilke, Terence McKenna, Billy graham, Marvin Gaye, Magnus Carlsen, Bradley Cooper, and Michael Phelps all have it too. With some of them it's obvious, like Carroll's pedophilia, or Chekhov's very independent and progressive (for the time) approach to relationships/marriage, or Foucault's interest in the politics of sex and power. It seems like these three at least all dealt with notions of power in sex and how much independence could be achieved. But with the others, I don't know enough to see the thread.