posted August 10, 2011 07:47 PM            

I heard that Vesta-aspects are an important ingredient for strong, intimate, committed and passionate relationships, but does anybody experienced this in a relationship? How is felt? What you can tell me about this aspect?

Found this thread about Vesta, http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum28/HTML/000107.html but I am more interested in this specific aspect.

posted August 11, 2011 07:42 AM            

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Originally posted by alma-noble:
Also I am courious what's your experience with strong asteroids aspects planets (conjunctions & oppositions) in synastry? is it the planet person or the asteroid person who feels more the effect?

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posted August 19, 2011 05:44 AM            

Both Vestas are in Gemini and we also share:

His Vesta trine My Moon
His Uranus opposite My Vesta
His Vesta opposite My Sun
His Vesta conjunct My Saturn
His Vesta Opposite My Neptune
His Vesta sextile My Chiron
His Vesta conjunct My Vesta

Chiron is also aspected greatly in our charts

His Moon Opposite My Chiron
His North Node sextile My Chiron
His Pholus conjunct My Chiron
His Vesta sextile My Chiron
My Chiron trine His Uranus
My Chiron opposite His Moon
My Chiron square His MC
His Chiron opposite My Mercury
His Chiron opposite My Venus
His Chiron opposite My Neptune
His Chiron trine My Pluto
His Chrion Opposite Lilith
His Chiron Opposite Juno

We have a very deep bond together, very psychically attuned to one another and very idealistic, warm and caring towards one another. I feel a strong sense of loyalty to him as a friend and he feels the same way towards me. We really nurture love and healing within one another. The very first moment I met him I knew we would have a lifelong connection. There is a very strong sense of family and we understand one another at our cores. It's unconditional too.

I have read that Chiron opposite venus is the impossible dream and that Chiron can bring wounds as well as healing, but in the 4 years we have known one another we have done nothing but support and give real soul goodness to one another. What I share with him is like a sactuary or a safe haven to be just who we are and I feel tremendous healing from his soul towards mine. Even when I'm being a little defensive through something I've been hurt by with someone else he seems to know instinctively and goes right to the spot to bring me to happiness. We share a very light childlike space together and yet at the same time there is incredible tenderness and gentle beauty between us.

I don't know which contacts make all that happen and most of this goes unsaid between us, but this friendship really is restorative and makes itself known that we have travelled together in past lives many times over.

Hope this helps in some way. I'd be intersted in other people's input on the crazy amount of opposites I share with him with Chiron.

posted August 19, 2011 09:47 AM            

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is it the planet person or the asteroid person who feels more the effect?

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However, since Vesta is a softie - the more delicate of the feelings are often held by her.

Vesta square Mercury I don't imagine to be anything bad, better to touch at all than not I'd say. And Vesta conjunct NN is good, destined to know each other.

posted August 19, 2011 01:42 PM            

We have some aspects to Chiron as well ...

first our Chiron(s) conjunct
My Chiron conjunct his NN and his Venus
My Chiron sextile his Mercury
His Chiron trine my Mercury
My Chiron trine his Neptune
My Chiron oppose his Moon, Uranus, Jupiter conjunction
His Chiron square my ASC