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bttrklk
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posted December 24, 2011 05:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bttrklk     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
in synastry, what can anteros conjunct venus mean? i know that anteros is "love returned" or "love avenged" but i really can't understand it, it's complicated for me.is there any insight about this aspect?

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posted December 26, 2011 03:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for iQ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anteros is quite a positive mythological archetype. I have it conjunct my Nemesis.

I do have a "fire and brimstone" feeling towards those who try to split apart true lovers. I also think not returning love /affection would be very bad for my personal growth.

Anteros conjunct Venus in Synastry would indicate some form of negativity/bad luck if the love offered is genuine, and yet it gets spurned. And there would be tremendous gains if the love is accepted. I am offering a purely theoretical answer, as I have no clear experience of Anteros-Venus in my case files.

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posted December 26, 2011 05:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bttrklk     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
first of all,thank you for your reply because i have been waiting for a reply for long time so, in the anteros conj. venus case, who loves first and who accepts or spurns love?

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posted December 26, 2011 12:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bttrklk     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
does venus love anteros and anteros accepts venus' love?

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posted December 27, 2011 05:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for iQ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I honestly think Anteros loves the Venus person first, expecting that the love will be accepted.

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posted December 27, 2011 06:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bttrklk     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
but in the myth, anteros was created as an answer to eros' loneliness and yearning for a friend with whom he can play. so can't venus love first and can't anteros be an answer to venus' love?

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posted December 27, 2011 07:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bttrklk     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
but you may be right, because anteros thinks that everyone's love should be answered, so anteros may love venus first and think that his love should be answered, this is the situation i am in. i love a man. my anteros conjuncts his venus. and i think that he should love me. his eros and ceres conjunct my venus.his psyche and sappho conjunct my sun.so maybe he can love me really and my love may be answered positively i hope

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posted December 27, 2011 07:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bttrklk     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
by the way, his eros and my anteros are in the same sign(aries) but 7 degrees apart. they are conjunct by sign.maybe this means that eros and anteros came together finally, i hope

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posted December 27, 2011 07:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for dysfunctionalmystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anteros ~ "returns" the love given by the planet aspecting. So Anteros gives back as in is not the first to love.

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posted November 16, 2013 07:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for twinky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
Anteros ~ "returns" the love given by the planet aspecting. So Anteros gives back as in is not the first to love.

What about Anteros opposite Venus? Does Anteros deny to return the love he is offered by Venus?

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posted November 16, 2013 09:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by bttrklk:
but in the myth, anteros was created as an answer to eros' loneliness and yearning for a friend with whom he can play. so can't venus love first and can't anteros be an answer to venus' love?

In this case I would rather agree with you here. Anteros is not making the first step, however should someone show him love, he most probably will return it. WE had a long thread on this years ago.

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posted November 16, 2013 09:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
Anteros ~ "returns" the love given by the planet aspecting. So Anteros gives back as in is not the first to love.

Sorry, did not see you already wrote it. But I agree.

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posted November 16, 2013 10:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by twinky:
What about Anteros opposite Venus? Does Anteros deny to return the love he is offered by Venus?


I think there might be a strong magnetism, but maybe Anteros takes longer to notice Venus is interested in him. Or the way she shows her interest is opposite to what he would expect, but in an oposition it is still an aspect of magnetism imo.

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posted November 16, 2013 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was looking at some synastry, where one party was pursuing the other a bit of time, before they became a couple:


(1) Robert Browning - Elizabeth Barrett Browning (he was the initiator)


her Anteros conjunct his Moon (8th house ruler (2 degrees)

her Anteros square his Venus exact


the only aspect to hsi Anteros was her Sun exact quinkunx his Anteros


(2) Eric Clapton - Batty Boyd (He was the pursuer)


her Anteros conjunct his SN
her Anteros trine his Anteros exact
her Anteros square his Vesta exact

his Anteros square her Eros exact


(3) Friends of mine (he was the pursuer)

her Anteros square hsi DESC
her Anteros trine his Psyche


no relvant aspects to his Anteros (there is a sextile to her Lust with 2 degree orb though)

(4) Laurence Olivier - Vivien leigh (initially she pursued him, but it seems that he might have loved her more in the end; but who can say that for certain?)


his Anteros opposite her Eros
his Anteros trine her Aphrodite
his Anteros conjunct her ASC

her Anteros square his Juno
her Anteros trine his Valentine

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posted December 20, 2015 09:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunnya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anteros deserves a bump

Am I correct in assuming that Anteros is usually the initiator and does the chasing?

Squares are beneficial here right?


These are some of tightest aspects we have:

His Anteros:
Conjuncts my NN exact (also parallels it)
Squares my Sun and Jupiter
Squares and parallels my Anteros
Quintile my Ceres


My Anteros
Conjuncts his Mercury and Ceres
Cp his Sun and Mercury and Union
Quintile his Jupiter
Squares his Pluto


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posted December 20, 2015 09:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sunnya, the text above is saying that Anteros is not the initiator. Instead, the Anteros person returns the love.

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posted December 20, 2015 10:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunnya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah ooops. Thanks for clarifying that Astro .

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