posted December 31, 2011 02:39 AM            

Since you knw astrology so well, research n all, do u choose yr love n friends after reading their charts? What if they turn out o b yr soulmates or best buddy but u know that they won't be around for long or they will eventually break yr heart. What will u do? Follow the path as fate dictate or run away?

Really interested in yr personal views. .. Hope you dun mind me asking..

posted December 31, 2011 04:36 AM            

Great question. I have to admire the way you think. It is this kind of thinking that will assist your learning and make you a very wise person.

I have never run away from interacting with a person because of their chart. I will of-course refuse to do business with them if they have inimical aspects to my 2nd, 5th, 8th or 11th House. That is for mutual good.

I married without knowing my wife's chart.
Believe it or not. I chose to take the Fated Path (it was my Saturn Return) because I was confident about my own chart potential in tackling anything.
The harsh aspects in our synastry outnumber the good aspects 10 to 1. But we are still clicking, touch wood.
The secret is to value the positive... and to avoid reactions to the negative aspect that plays out. Every time we overcome a harsh aspect through forgiveness, a happy event follows.

I would not advise to take the plunge with someone who has harsh abuse aspects but if there be a chance of heartbreak, it is still advisable to try out the relationship. There is happiness to savour in every positive experience, even if temporary. The richness of life is experience. Allow Astrology to give you the best shot to make things work.

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posted January 01, 2012 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by iQ:
Great question. I have to admire the way you think. It is this kind of thinking that will assist your learning and make you a very wise person.

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Thank you! I'm flattered! I'm only just a curious cat.

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I will of-course refuse to do business with them if they have inimical aspects to my 2nd, 5th, 8th or 11th House. That is for mutual good.

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Serious? So you see a chart halfway, recorgnize it doesn't "fit" your chart, then you reject the business? If I have the knowledge as you, I will do the same.

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I married without knowing my wife's chart.
Believe it or not. I chose to take the Fated Path (it was my Saturn Return)

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That's really very sweet.... The decision not to check her chart - is that before you fell in love or after? How did you resist the curiosity and the temptation to take a peek? Or there is no need... you already knew from your own chart that she is the one, cos you knew the exact time she will appear in your life? So in fact, there is no need to check her chart? If so, does this still qualify as "not knowing"?

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The secret is to value the positive... and to avoid reactions to the negative aspect that plays out. Every time we overcome a harsh aspect through forgiveness, a happy event follows.

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Really hope so...

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There is happiness to savour in every positive experience, even if temporary. The richness of life is experience.

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It looks good on theory... I rather have no regrets than to reminisce.. reminiscing the past is like remembering a lost. I rather they become a nobody than having to remember them 10 years down the road.. But that's just me... I have a lot to learn... My character/personality is still pretty flawed.