posted February 01, 2012 09:34 AM            

this is my bazi:

Ding Xin Ji Jia
You Chou Si Zi

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posted February 01, 2012 09:44 AM            

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Originally posted by SaggiMC:
POF will do same thing

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hey i think i have POF loosely conjunct jupiter but within the 4 degree limit.

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Originally posted by SaggiMC:
If we look at the ruler of MC =moon, ruler of 2nd saggi/jupiter and 6th aries/mars, I would want to see an aspect (any aspect) between these three and unfortunately there is none...

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posted February 01, 2012 09:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Nothingbutaname:
Not sure how the position of these asteriods would influence me though, anyone care to help me figure it out? here's my chart.

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posted February 01, 2012 10:53 AM            

Okie, for you, I’ll give brief summary and wait for your feedback with your friend.

9-18 – there is a Zi-Yu clash and a wu-mao destruction. How is your family like when you are young? What is your relationship with your grandparents if you dun mind sharing… are you closer to your mother than to your father?

19-28 – there is a chou-wei clash in the spouse palace and a zi-wei harm. Relationship issues? Share?

29-38 – There is a shen-si destruction. There is a half-3harmony-combination of Shen-Zi forming the water structure. My opinion, this should be the best period of your life.. seeing that the water structure together with the HS in the LP with the protruding water, output star controlling influence star.

39-48 – there is a mao-you clash and a zi-mao destruction (this is a period where you may fall into depression, alcoholism and exile; your self esteem may also be affected). The important question now is WHY? - To know what is causing the alcoholism self esteem issue, hehehe, I need to seriously ponder over it. Newbie here.

49-58 – Mao-Xu forms fire. . maybe health issues?

I think the reason why your friend said she feels sorry for your bazi chart is prob due to the clash/destruction/harms in your LPs.. I only have one that one harm involving my spouse palace in my current LP and I am literally dying inside. BUT, I believe, NO PAIN NO GAIN – you probably gained more than most ppl who dun go through that : for every lesson learnt, it is meant to make us stronger!!!

Okie, my sis will kill me for keep looking at other’s chart and not focus on hers… I can’t help it, I’m a curious cat!!!

posted February 01, 2012 12:28 PM            

i'll post the reading she gives. it's a very concise 2 pager. i threw away the old one coz i was like yeah okay i'm fine with this life if it's the one i'm meant to live.

posted February 01, 2012 01:19 PM            

hmm the only one i consider real family is my mom and her siblings, my cousins. my parents divorced much earlier tho. i'll hafta compare what my bazi reader sed about this LP but i remember there was a lot of "self punishment" which she sed that working hard (maybe too hard) is a form of.. my grandparents and i were very good during those years and have almost always been except for NOW (2012) and past few years. i only have 1 set left on my dad's side tho. yep closer to mom than my dad.

19-28 – there is a chou-wei clash in the spouse palace and a zi-wei harm. Relationship issues? Share?

i think none of them have lasted during this LP. if they do it might be only coz we don't see each other often lol.. (just my theory btw)

i may even think that the one partner i had prior to the LP was better than the ones that came during that LP. but that was my 1st partner and i may be idealizing it abit. i dunno.

iv also been abit closed off to it this LP.

i do think there is some venus-saturn vibe in this decade especially the last part where it is going to be opposing my natal venus and has been in my h12 much earlier since my h1 starts at 0 degrees scorpio..

29-38 – There is a shen-si destruction. There is a half-3harmony-combination of Shen-Zi forming the water structure. My opinion, this should be the best period of your life.. seeing that the water structure together with the HS in the LP with the protruding water, output star controlling influence star. [b]

yep i think it is my highest bar too in the chinese fortune calendar software.. at least it didn't come to early. (you know most bond's get cast early thirties hehe kidding!)

when's urs? i'm curious..

[b]39-48 – there is a mao-you clash and a zi-mao destruction (this is a period where you may fall into depression, alcoholism and exile; your self esteem may also be affected). The important question now is [b]WHY? - To know what is causing the alcoholism self esteem issue, hehehe, I need to seriously ponder over it. Newbie here. [/b]

she said it could be due to work pressures. i think that was her take on it coz i have a lot (too much) of the fire element which represents work/spouse for my daymaster.

49-58 – Mao-Xu forms fire. . maybe health issues?

yes she concluded the same thing. or "something we cannot easily get back", which to her was health. SCARY!

I think the reason why your friend said she feels sorry for your bazi chart is prob due to the clash/destruction/harms in your LPs.. I only have one that one harm involving my spouse palace in my current LP and I am literally dying inside. BUT, I believe, NO PAIN NO GAIN – you probably gained more than most ppl who dun go through that : for every lesson learnt, it is meant to make us stronger!!!

SO it's YOUR CHART i should be ENVIOUS of!!!

i do feel bad for people with an opposition natally tho. i dunno but just from obseration of family members whose charts iv peeked at it seems much harder.

i'll post her 2 pager when it comes coz no air me is not the best at giving feedback or telling how i feel this asteroid/ planet/ aspect!

posted February 02, 2012 01:26 AM            

Unfortunately harm at spouse palace is indication of rship issues this LP. . which i didn't believe until it happened. But i knw it will come to past.. just the getting there process is a bother.. I know i'll get married in 2018. The only mystery is who.

For u, i'm surprised she outright said no marriage for u. Shldn't she at least attempt to let u try? Hehe, can we change what fate has alrdy been set? Isn't that the purpose of astrology n bazi learning? I believe the worst can b changed if within our control unless it is out of our hands n in other's that we are struck... if so, can we change others to a way we want.. to change fate ? if so, how? Pluto conjunct lilith conjunct mars here doesn't allow me to bow down evn to fate.

Need pondering... brb after work.

posted February 02, 2012 10:14 AM            

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Not wealthy but at peace, happy. Not a concern which is why u dun see me asking astrological questions on career.

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that is soo nice actually!

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Unfortunately harm at spouse palace is indication of rship issues this LP. . which i didn't believe until it happened. But i knw it will come to past.. just the getting there process is a bother.. I know i'll get married in 2018. The only mystery is who.

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2018! wow that's so exciting.. r u in a relationship now?

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For u, i'm surprised she outright said no marriage for u. Shldn't she at least attempt to let u try? Hehe, can we change what fate has alrdy been set? Isn't that the purpose of astrology n bazi learning? I believe the worst can b changed if within our control unless it is out of our hands n in other's that we are struck... if so, can we change others to a way we want.. to change fate ? if so, how?

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it was definitely her own interpretations from experience with someone with the spouse element in the year pillar. other people read it as not so bad. some even say it can save me from the LP troubles which i am inclined to believe just coz i have venush trine neptune hehe! but it really does make sense especially if i try and compare western/ bazi..

also since i believe my daymaster is kinda neutral. neither weak or strong i wouldn't mind not having the great career and the cashish if it would save my health later on. so yeah i do think we can change fate abit but it will take a lot of effort..

do you know how to realistically balance your elements? i mean minus the feng shui stuff. what can we do realistically?

posted February 02, 2012 11:04 AM            

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2018! wow that's so exciting.. r u in a relationship now?

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lol... that's pretty long time away but that is what one bazi master told me. Now currently single.

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do you know how to realistically balance your elements? i mean minus the feng shui stuff. what can we do realistically?

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I was also told by one that the person you marry can help with balancing your elements. I know for a fact that if a weak earth DM marrys me, he will become stronger and better but I will be less financially successful this lifetime.. I won't mind if i fall in love with him before I check out his chart; definately not after - oh well, I shouldn't say it too early cos I am too much of a idealist in romance that I may sacrifice money for love.

Feng shui wise... I believe it helps but the services are sooooo bloody expensive!!

posted February 03, 2012 11:37 AM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
I was also told by one that the person you marry can help with balancing your elements. I know for a fact that if a weak earth DM marrys me, he will become stronger and better but I will be less financially successful this lifetime.. I won't mind if i fall in love with him before I check out his chart; definately not after - oh well, I shouldn't say it too early cos I am too much of a idealist in romance that I may sacrifice money for love.

Feng shui wise... I believe it helps but the services are sooooo bloody expensive!!

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for some people it's impossible to balance right?

do you have peach blossoms in LP's? i know u mentioned somewhere u have none in ur 4p chart..

money or love? hm... or beautiful/handsome partner.. hmmm.....